Who's more likely to act the victim when they're hurt in a relationship?

It depends on what you mean by victim. However I know not only from personal experience, but from everyone I know that when a guy and girl break up she's gonna have a boyfriend immediately while he might be facing a dry spell --not always, but most of the time that's how it works. No guy unless he's famous or something can compete on a level playing field with a girl who's his equal level of "hotness." In the the basketball game of dating, girls aren't players, they're the basket. They're always going to see more ball action than any player even if he's Michael Jordan. This means they're always going to be invited to every party. They're always going to have a date if they want one. If they don't have sex for a week it's because they didn't want to. Not the same for men no matter how good looking they are. This makes men in a relationship inherently more vulnerable than women in a modern world.

Very well thought out and good food for thought. Thank you

Women are all about feelings and communication, they would be feeling the victim the most.

it seems to generally ALWAYS BE THE MANS FAULT. Women just have it so rough

This is true, I put the question out to gauge people's opinions on this. I have seen both genders saying the other one is too quick to play the victim

My wallet, most likely

Hahah ouch!

either

Both are equally adept at this...

hurt works on both people.

I think we're all pretty good at playing that 'victim' card.