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Who Wants Sex More, Men or Women?

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the age old question, "Do women really want sex as much as men?
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  • Alexander T Steward 2012/08/30 06:41:17
    both
    Alexander T Steward
    Men are more blatent about it.
  • Erik 2012/08/30 06:15:51
    Women
    Erik
    women due they just hide it more..
  • †♫ Muzikfreak ♪† 2012/08/30 05:41:21
    both
    †♫ Muzikfreak ♪†
    Well... considering that I'm not a woman, I wouldn't know /:)
    But I CAN tell you that sex is a motivator for us guys, and lust is a natural thing. Woman I'm sure feel a connection for sex but as a deeper sense of emotional than physical view of Love to them.
    Guys love it as that way to show their love in a way that physically pleases them and giving their wife a showing that we are giving her a gift of love that we only want her to have. It's beautiful and special. :)

    Any thoughts, or advice??
    If your a girl then please share your thoughts!
  • RogerCoppock 2012/08/30 05:11:27
    Undecided
    RogerCoppock
    I wish I knew!
  • ashlee 2012/08/30 04:34:11
    both
    ashlee
    Okay first of all might I say that this question is pure genius. Secondly I think that there are girls that want it just as much, if not more, than guys.
  • Camille Palmer 2012/08/30 04:21:53
    both
    Camille Palmer
    Women want it and Need it Just as Much as any man. but here is where we differ. Women have greater Self control, can Sublimate there desire for Sex, (assuming you mean Sex with a Partner) Or can self gratify, Until they find a Suitable partner. both are Sex no matter what Bill Clinton says,..
    Many Men feel that if a Woman Has sex with him He has some kind of Power over her. Like hes gotten one over on her, and that she is now deemed Weak for giving in to his desire and then treats her as an Inferior.
    While women Accept the Power position by denying sex, sexual attention / Interest keeps him coming back Long enough for him to develop Actual Emotional feelings towards her, And Because it Takes longer for men to become Emotional Attached, with out sex, So denial of the Sexual assess to her..She has him by the short hairs.
    So yea we want it but we control it,..where I have always been Shocked at what Sloppy Sexual gluttons men can be, they will Have Sex with any one who will let them.
    Skank's, Hookers, Married Women, idiot teens girls, Beer goggle Ugly chicks they would not Hold open a door for, when sober.
    They want it, and don't care often enough with WHOM they have it Self gratification or 5.00 hand Job in the Cab of his truck.
    Women have been known to do the sa...




    Women want it and Need it Just as Much as any man. but here is where we differ. Women have greater Self control, can Sublimate there desire for Sex, (assuming you mean Sex with a Partner) Or can self gratify, Until they find a Suitable partner. both are Sex no matter what Bill Clinton says,..
    Many Men feel that if a Woman Has sex with him He has some kind of Power over her. Like hes gotten one over on her, and that she is now deemed Weak for giving in to his desire and then treats her as an Inferior.
    While women Accept the Power position by denying sex, sexual attention / Interest keeps him coming back Long enough for him to develop Actual Emotional feelings towards her, And Because it Takes longer for men to become Emotional Attached, with out sex, So denial of the Sexual assess to her..She has him by the short hairs.
    So yea we want it but we control it,..where I have always been Shocked at what Sloppy Sexual gluttons men can be, they will Have Sex with any one who will let them.
    Skank's, Hookers, Married Women, idiot teens girls, Beer goggle Ugly chicks they would not Hold open a door for, when sober.
    They want it, and don't care often enough with WHOM they have it Self gratification or 5.00 hand Job in the Cab of his truck.
    Women have been known to do the same but this is from Abuse, Low self esteem, and desire for Attention,..Confusion between Sexuality and Intimacy, they want Love, and ave been conditioned to think SEX is LOVE.

    A Normal Mentally Healthy woman with Normal Upbringing a decent self esteem Is more selective, and Can Wait,..regardless of how much she desires it.

    And a Man who can do the same is a Prize worth searching for.
    fellas Control your selves.
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  • cc 2012/08/30 04:17:32
    both
    cc
    Women have different triggers, and they have a LOT more to lose. I think it's fairly mutual though....
  • Broken 2012/08/30 04:16:24
    both
    Broken
    I think there are big differences at different ages and temperments. I know that as a young man, I was thinking about sex a LOT. Now that I am an older man (56) and can no longer perform reliably, I still think about it, but I never start what I am unsure I can finish. SO I know my wife wnats it a lot more than I can provide it.... a very unhappy turn.
  • Scooter 2012/08/30 04:00:01
    both
    Scooter
    I believe both want it about the same...Men just admit it more than some women do.
  • Kevin1111 2012/08/30 03:56:27
    Women
    Kevin1111
    The stereotype is the man wanting it more. But I think this common belief is because it is more socially improper for women to express this desire, while men often have no hesitation. It used to be improper for a woman to express any desire for this at all, but was always expected to act reluctant. Now statistics have proven that we both want sex a lot, and actually women's desire tends to outpace men's as we get older.
  • tharealbigjc 2012/08/30 03:55:03
    both
    tharealbigjc
    i believe we both want it and want it in the ass
  • Borat Obama 2012/08/22 05:40:58
    Men
    Borat Obama
    +1
    There is not a day that I don't think about sex.
  • Camille... Borat O... 2012/08/30 04:26:33
    Camille Palmer
    guess you got the right name RANDY LOL Means Horny in England
    OY !!! a Horny Wolf,..OH YOU DAWG !
  • Katfish 2012/08/22 00:27:20
    Men
    Katfish
    +2
    I had a few women with as high a drive as myself but they were the minority.
  • shygurl 2012/08/21 22:39:24
    both
    shygurl
    i know some girls that always want it as much as i know how much guys do i think theyre equal well atleast some are
  • mr echo 2012/08/21 04:13:33
    both
    mr echo
    I once hooked up with the lady ,she wanted to have sex everyday
  • Veritas 2012/08/21 01:45:41
    Women
    Veritas
    +2
    Wow, only ten of us so far?
    female sex goddess
  • Borat O... Veritas 2012/08/22 05:47:07
    Borat Obama
    +1
    Men rule in this category no doubt. When we want it? It doesn't mean later. It means now. Guys, help me out here.
  • Veritas Borat O... 2012/08/22 11:09:21
    Veritas
    Well, from personal experience, maybe we're just more choosy about it! The question was "Who WANTS" it more.
  • Borat O... Veritas 2012/08/24 07:37:46
    Borat Obama
    Men wants it more. Final answer.
  • bert 2012/08/20 18:27:27
    Women
    bert
    Hands down....
  • Kim(: 2012/08/20 13:11:32
    Men
    Kim(:
    +1
    They always want it i think
  • Luke 2012/08/20 10:57:31 (edited)
    Men
    Luke
    +2
    But I've known some ladies that will keep you in the game for a long time....
  • Derek George V 2012/08/20 10:44:37
    Women
    Derek George V
    I think Women, they have sex with each other more often than men
  • baxter 2012/08/20 10:41:01
    Men
    baxter
    I THINK MEN DO
  • Freight85 2012/08/20 04:24:05
    Men
    Freight85
    "I cant get enough...I try, I try, of that funky stuff. I say wo wo wo wo wo wo wo wo wo yeah."
  • Ninjaman 2012/08/20 04:05:54
    both
    Ninjaman
    +1
    i think it depends on the circumstances... there are times when both of us have initiated sex.
  • Herb 2012/08/20 02:45:37 (edited)
    Men
    Herb
    +1
    i always want it lol sex is a mistermeaner the more i miss the meaner i get.

    A new international, global study that included more than 1,000 couples from the United States, Brazil, Germany, Japan and Spain, found that tenderness is more important to men than to women overall. Also it was reported that men are more likely to admit to being happy in their relationship, but women are more likely to be satisfied with the sexual part of their partnerships as they view it over time. Basically, cuddling and caressing help boost satisfaction in long-term relationships, according to a new study of middle-aged and older couples who had been together for an average of 25 years.

    Sexual satisfaction for both women and men was associated with frequent kissing and cuddling, sexual caressing by a partner, high sexual functioning, and frequent sex. What a revelation right?

    Sexual satisfaction for women increased over time. Those who had been with their partner for less than 15 years were less likely to be sexually satisfied, but satisfaction increased significantly after 15 years. Both women and men were happier the longer they had been together and if they had higher levels of sexual functioning, the investigators found. Safe to assume than that it is not about the "fire," but about the "glow."

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    i always want it lol sex is a mistermeaner the more i miss the meaner i get.

    A new international, global study that included more than 1,000 couples from the United States, Brazil, Germany, Japan and Spain, found that tenderness is more important to men than to women overall. Also it was reported that men are more likely to admit to being happy in their relationship, but women are more likely to be satisfied with the sexual part of their partnerships as they view it over time. Basically, cuddling and caressing help boost satisfaction in long-term relationships, according to a new study of middle-aged and older couples who had been together for an average of 25 years.

    Sexual satisfaction for both women and men was associated with frequent kissing and cuddling, sexual caressing by a partner, high sexual functioning, and frequent sex. What a revelation right?

    Sexual satisfaction for women increased over time. Those who had been with their partner for less than 15 years were less likely to be sexually satisfied, but satisfaction increased significantly after 15 years. Both women and men were happier the longer they had been together and if they had higher levels of sexual functioning, the investigators found. Safe to assume than that it is not about the "fire," but about the "glow."

    Interestingly enough for men, the report said that having had more sex partners in their lifetime was a predictor of less sexual satisfaction.

    Men were more likely to be happy in a relationship if they were in good health and if it was important to them that their partner experienced orgasm during sex. Frequent cuddling and kissing also predicted relationship happiness for men, but not for women.

    Kinsey Institute director Julia Heiman goes into further detail:


    "Possibly, women become more satisfied over time because their expectations change, or life changes with the children grown. On the other hand, those who weren't so happy sexually might not be married so long. We recognize that relationship satisfaction and sexual satisfaction may not be the same thing for all couples, and in all cultures."


    Japanese men and women were significantly happier with their relationships than Americans, who were happier than Brazilians and Spaniards according to the published study.

    Japanese men reported 2.61 times more sexual satisfaction than American men, while Japanese and Brazilian women were more satisfied sexually than American women.

    Heiman continues:


    "Our next step is to understand how one person's health, physical affection and sexual experiences relate to the relationship happiness or sexual satisfaction of his or her partner. So, we hope for more couple-centered than individual-centered understanding on relationship functioning and satisfaction."
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  • Anna 2012/08/20 01:47:22
    both
    Anna
    +1
    Depends on the man and woman in question.
  • Jack 2012/08/20 01:36:40
    Men
    Jack
    +1
    Men, until you're in a steady relationship. Then it's women.
  • MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/08/20 01:35:09
    Women
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    Before my 30s I would have said men, my 30s taught me otherwise. I can't speak for other women but for me, they can't keep up.
  • L1Z2 2012/08/20 01:25:30
    Undecided
    L1Z2
    +5
    I actually think it comes down to the individual. There are women who want sex even more than men.
  • sean 2012/08/20 00:58:03
    both
    sean
    +2
    guys want sex from 16-35 years old..women from 30-45 years old..its when they meet in the middle, when the fireworks fly.
  • MlssCue... sean 2012/08/20 01:35:56
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +2
    Pretty darn close, which if you ask me was an odd way to be wired!
  • **StarzAbove** 2012/08/19 23:49:47
    Men
    **StarzAbove**
  • CwrazyLwina 2012/08/19 23:15:21
    both
    CwrazyLwina
    +1
    but men go on about it more. except for SOME ppl i know..lol. yeah some girls talk bout sex as much as guys.
  • mac9 2012/08/19 22:53:03
    Men
    mac9
    +1
    Most probably men.
  • AmericanVirus 2012/08/19 22:24:33 (edited)
    both
    AmericanVirus
    +1
    Depends on the age, hormones, and sexual maturity
  • Jana~ una chica loca 2012/08/19 21:22:41
    Undecided
    Jana~ una chica loca
    +1
    depends on age. young women want sex just as much as men
  • jai joshi 2012/08/19 21:21:31
    Undecided
    jai joshi
    +1
    i seriously don't know about this question, as i have never been in good relationship or maybe i m quite simple, i also wondering this question to me.. as i have just done 5 to 6 times i also can't say man and its really been hard for me to understand a girl,,

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