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Who hates when ppl make an already depressed emo girl feel worst then she already feels bought her unforgiving life ?????

kayla 2012/09/21 23:27:50
i do
i dont
who cares what emos feel
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i hate it when im depressed an reaching for help an i get the saying ur not a true emo ur a fake i understand most emos dont show there emo i hide my cuts all the time but ppl still hate me i think a person needs help offer help dont hurt them even more :(
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  • Clifford 2013/04/08 10:10:42
  • rereblue 2012/09/22 23:13:04
    Undecided
    rereblue
    You may want to go talk to a teacher or counselor, don't hurt yourself, get REAL help. Stop trying to be part of a group that don't seem to want to accept you, be who you are, don't lable yourself, and stop caring about what they think.
  • Relay 2012/09/22 14:34:18
    Undecided
    Relay
    i think you should maybe talk to a school guidance teacher or call children's help line, someone who wont judge you or label you.
  • La 2012/09/22 05:19:47
    Undecided
    La
    Look, many people are not sympathetic with depressed people. They think they're weak, they just need to toughen up and deal with it, etc. This is multiplied by the fact that you're a teenage girl. Being a teenager sucks. Okay that's the end. It just sucks. It sucks for everyone. There are good times, but in general there will be times when you are depressed. It's a confusing, stressful time. Now because everyone knows it sucks to be a teenager, being a depressed teenager is not a good way to get sympathy. Many people feel like you have nothing valid to be depressed about; you're just going through the same thing as everyone else.

    That being said, of course depression is a real illness and you might need to get help with it. You need love and support from people around you. The way to express your depression is not "being an emo". Emo has become a standard stereotype. Likewise with cutting, you cut because you want someone to help you. You need to straight out ask. Tell your close friends "I am depressed and I need your help". Do you have any support from your family? Do you have good friends?
  • NYCbrit 2012/09/22 01:31:12
  • Ian 2012/09/22 01:25:50
    who cares what emos feel
    Ian
    I have a knife here for you
  • Clifford Ian 2013/04/08 10:13:51
    Clifford
    +2
    you're the devil!
  • Balladeer-PWCM-POTL 2012/09/22 01:20:38
    Undecided
    Balladeer-PWCM-POTL
    there is no such thing as a 'fake' emo....you are YOU...and there is only one of YOU...and that's good
  • Vision of Verve 2012/09/22 01:02:49
  • Pikachu 2012/09/22 00:32:18
    Undecided
    Pikachu
    +1
    Everything will be alright in the end, just hang in there.
  • kayla Pikachu 2012/09/22 00:33:40
    kayla
    +3
    thanks
  • METALheadMom 2012/09/22 00:23:46 (edited)
    Undecided
    METALheadMom
    +1
    I SAY, you KNOW you have very severe issues, you KNOW unless someone is a trained professional, they don't know how and shouldn't counsel you, AND who the f*** cares if you are a "true emo" or not - you have issues, and YOU need to get help yourself!! NOBODY could hurt you MORE than you already do to yourself. My life has no always been the best either - go visit some Veterans who have lost most of their bodies and then tell me your problems.
  • Ville Elo-Squiggles\(>.<)/ 2012/09/21 23:52:56
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    Ville Elo-Squiggles\(>.<)/
    +2
    your life REALLY that awful?
  • kayla Ville E... 2012/09/22 00:02:02
    kayla
    +1
    yes it is
  • Ville E... kayla 2012/09/22 00:07:57 (edited)
    Ville Elo-Squiggles\(>.<)/
    +2
    well I am sorry about that. I have been bullied as well..But honestly, you have to just ignore what people say.
  • Dryth 2012/09/21 23:47:01
    who cares what emos feel
    Dryth
    +3
    My dad is permanently disabled and I hardly saw him growing up because he was always in bed in pain. I got bullied in elementary school and the school didn't do anything about it. I got pulled out and was socially stunted for being homeschooled through middle-school.

    Your problems don't mean a whole lot to me. Grow up.
  • Bec. 2012/09/21 23:45:15
    Undecided
    Bec.
    +1
    What's the deal with you bringing in the word 'emo' here? "You're not a real emo"... what? If you really are clinically depressed, you are clinically depressed, what's the point in bringing up all these stupid labels that children used to use back in '05?
  • kayla Bec. 2012/09/21 23:53:01
    kayla
    thts wat im talking bout u dont know nuthing bout me i go to the hospital for medication because all i want to do i die ppl jugde me thhis is the second time iv ever told any one i slice my wrist for the pain to go away u dont know how i feel inside no one dose i just wanted some advise on how to deal with it but all im getting is the same answer no one cares
  • Bec. kayla 2012/09/21 23:56:06
    Bec.
    +1
    Well, it would help if you left the "emo" comments out of it. You don't need to use these childish labels. I have bipolar, so I have to take medication each and every day, too. I've had a therapist from the age of 13, so I do understand what it's like to have issues, too. My suggestion is to concentrate on your own life. Learn to move away from people's comments and focus on your thoughts and positive comments. Negative comments can eat people away and it will eventually destroy their confidence completely. Keep going to hospital, concentrate on things that make you feel at ease, and take the medication until you feel stronger. Best of luck.
  • kayla Bec. 2012/09/22 00:00:06
    kayla
    i would talk bout some of my problems to u but im always juged its been like it since i was a kid i was called uglay fat hideousness a discusting person then to find out my mom has canser an my dad disowned me cause he wanted to be born a guy not a girl iv used the knife so much all i have ia scares up an down my arm a leg
  • Bec. kayla 2012/09/22 00:05:01
    Bec.
    +2
    That's a lot to deal with, and I'm sorry you've had to go through that. It seems like your low moods are caused by life events, and even though you've been through things you really did not deserve to go through, in time, it should get better. I really hope life improves for you and you build some confidence. I was bullied in school, too and the kids said I was different to them (based on my appearance) I absolutely hated it! It's awful to be bullied when you're at school, because you can't escape from it. Kids can be awful, but just know that they pick on those that take their comments to heart. They chose people like us because we were easy targets (sensitive types) it's awful how they do that, but their comments are just words with little meaning. They use words like guns... it's just a weapon to hurt you. Try remember that, and believe in yourself, beautiful girl. Take care.
  • kayla Bec. 2012/09/22 00:11:37
    kayla
    thanks for the advise ill try to follow it iv just had a hard life my whole life this years the first year iv actualy had somewhere to live the rest of my years we lived on the streets an i wanna tell u more but there some rude ppl on here
  • Bec. kayla 2012/09/22 00:15:24
    Bec.
    +1
    Well, you can always message now if you want to chat. But I'm glad to hear you're going to try to follow my advice now.
  • kayla Bec. 2012/09/22 00:20:13
    kayla
    +1
    ur gonna be the first to message espesially cause how wise u sound
  • kayla 2012/09/21 23:41:16
    i do
    kayla
    idk how to feel anymore my only hope is to die anyways this questin doent even matter
  • King Anti-Christ 666 2012/09/21 23:39:39
    Undecided
    King Anti-Christ 666
    +2
    glock
    aww my friend here^^ wants to give you a kiss to make you feel better
  • Pikachu King An... 2012/09/22 00:30:07 (edited)
    Pikachu
    +2
    Waaaaaaaaaaaay too harsh dude.
  • King An... Pikachu 2012/09/22 00:33:59
    King Anti-Christ 666
    +1
    you think so?
  • Clifford King An... 2013/04/08 10:18:00
    Clifford
    +3
    yeah waaaaaaaaaaay too harsh you are going to get her killed and if you're in america you can be considered a terrorist
  • King An... Clifford 2013/04/08 12:45:15
    King Anti-Christ 666
    terrorist
    then i guess i am ...
  • 666_Maggots~PassionForGlory... 2012/09/21 23:34:59
    Undecided
    666_Maggots~PassionForGlory BN-1
    +5
    Stop calling yourself emo, then maybe people will treat you better.
  • kayla 666_Mag... 2012/09/21 23:39:00
    kayla
    i am emo i cant help who i am
  • 666_Mag... kayla 2012/09/21 23:40:26
    666_Maggots~PassionForGlory BN-1
    +1
    No, you're labeling yourself and it's stupid.
  • Linnster kayla 2012/09/22 02:17:29
    Linnster
    +1
    No - you aren't "emo" you're depressed and people who are depressed need to see a therapist, not go on a social site where you open yourself up to even more ridicule.
  • flaca BN-0 2012/09/21 23:32:40
    Undecided
    flaca BN-0
    +3
    Emo is a fad, just like punk rockers were a fad. American teens who think they have it rough should go to Africa and meet some kids who have lost everything: their parents to AIDS and spend their time bringing up their siblings in mud huts.
  • King An... flaca BN-0 2012/09/21 23:38:16
  • Sister Jean 2012/09/21 23:31:57
    Undecided
    Sister Jean
  • meg 2012/09/21 23:30:20
    Undecided
    meg
    +1
    No one is at fault but the individual person, no one can make someone feel certain ways that's up to the person.
  • kayla meg 2012/09/21 23:32:25
    kayla
    it just y would someone juge a person saying there not a true emo when they have no idea wat has happend in there life
  • meg kayla 2012/09/21 23:33:45
    meg
    Every single person on this planet judges everything on this planet, I don't understand the big deal.

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