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Which would be more painful, Being betrayed by your family or being betrayed by your significant other?

Peter Quan 2009/10/16 01:44:33
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  • twothunders 2009/10/16 01:58:29
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    twothunders
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    Family is not a choice. It is a relationship you are born in to. You choose your mate. You make a committment to him/her of your own free will and therefore the betrayal, IMO, is worse becuse your partner chose the path.

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  • Sheila 2010/03/16 22:49:25 (edited)
    Family Of course!
    Sheila
    +1
    No question--family. I was recently betrayed by a family member, and there are no words for the pain I felt. I sobbed so hard for so long that I injured my vocal chords, and it took over two months to heal. I've been betrayed by men frequently in the course of my life and gotten over it and moved on. Although it hurts at the time, you know what they say about more fish in the sea. But I have only one family. heal ive betrayed frequently life moved hurts fish sea family
  • mustangluver 2010/03/01 10:00:24
    Family Of course!
    mustangluver
    +1
    That's a hard one as some do not have family but for those who do, family is forever..mates are abundant.
  • ɟʇʇoɔs 2010/03/01 10:00:07
    Family Of course!
    ɟʇʇoɔs
    +2
    Family, I have been screwed by girlfriends in the past, so I am used to that. But my family, they have always been there for me.
  • Kanashii-urufu 2010/02/26 20:40:41
    Family Of course!
    Kanashii-urufu
    +2
    like the ones u protect would be the most painful if they btrayed u
  • DEVIN 2010/02/26 18:44:10
    Significant other, Obviously!
    DEVIN
  • Sandy 2009/11/01 20:01:40
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Sandy
    +1
    family is an assortment of nuts we don't choose... where as our significant others are our choice...
  • Sparky 2009/10/27 16:50:04
    Family Of course!
    Sparky
    +2
    My family probably.
  • insert name here 2009/10/26 18:02:58
    Significant other, Obviously!
    insert name here
    +2
    It would hurt more because your using a different set of feelings.
  • whiskey 2009/10/21 18:15:37
    Family Of course!
    whiskey
    +1
    though it is not possible...but as we have option so its more painful
  • Sweetness ~Loves her Lion~ 2009/10/21 10:38:48
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Sweetness ~Loves her Lion~
    +2
    My family and i have a much weaker relationship than i have with my boyfriend
    and half of my family have already betrayed me
    wheras i don't think my boyfriend ever ould, he's too good
    but that expectation would probably make it hurt more so yeah...
  • M@d3!ai%e&7 2009/10/20 17:55:31
    Significant other, Obviously!
    M@d3!ai%e&7
    +2
    I think it hurts more!! significant hurts
  • Chidogashi09 2009/10/19 00:29:56
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Chidogashi09
    +2
    It you othe cause they are maybe..er they most likley have loved you morebecause if your married then they probally live with you and if you were betrayed youd probally be devastated.
  • Banana999999999999 2009/10/18 15:45:02
    Family Of course!
    Banana999999999999
    +1
    your closer 2 your family and being betrayed by family would hurt more
  • Treasure ♥ijm♥ 2009/10/18 15:39:19
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Treasure ♥ijm♥
    +2
    Boy, that is a tough question. I have been betrayed by both unfortunately... in my lifetime. It is a tough call but when my ex-husband betrayed me that devastated me more than anything.
  • Gun665 2009/10/18 15:39:11
  • Nicki S... Gun665 2009/10/28 00:18:57
    Nicki Stoneman
    +1
    So true!
  • Firekitty ∞ijm♥G☮F♀U∞ 2009/10/18 14:40:35
    Family Of course!
    Firekitty ∞ijm♥G☮F♀U∞
    +3
    Although I love my husband and yes him betraying me would be awful. I have known and loved my family a lot longer.
  • Dayna_king 2009/10/18 07:52:01
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Dayna_king
    +1
    he/she is someone you choose to tell, family is already there.
  • dlyn 2009/10/18 00:20:42
    Family Of course!
    dlyn
    +1
    family of course !!!!! significant others come and go. family is forever.!!!!! you never have to see a boy or girlfriend ever again. but most family is always around.
  • Ki_Rin1970 2009/10/17 22:12:32
    Family Of course!
    Ki_Rin1970
    +1
    signifigant others come and go... Family is something your stuck with no matter what you do
  • Yep I Did It. So? 2009/10/17 18:05:25
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Yep I Did It. So?
    +2
    To be honest my family has betrayed me many times, so it would hurt more if my boyfriend did, as we are very much in love.
  • Amina 2009/10/17 11:04:17
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Amina
    +1
    i cant decide... both i guess
  • BananaGosip~pureawesomeness... 2009/10/17 04:18:29
    Family Of course!
    BananaGosip~pureawesomeness~808
    +1
    Because I have yet to meet my significant other.
  • ImgonaluvAztroBoi4eva 2009/10/17 04:04:35
    Family Of course!
    ImgonaluvAztroBoi4eva
    +1
    It's all painful, especially if we hold any of the people in question to a very high level of infallability.
  • snkypete 2009/10/17 03:58:31
    Family Of course!
    snkypete
    +1
    Well since you give no alternative answer and there is no one I consider an "insignificant" other I choose this one . And because the family members that have " betrayed "I already saw who they were before hand I have not been suprised.
  • Wayne 2009/10/17 03:23:31
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Wayne
    +1
    guess it depends on the quality of development of the relationships. The closer you are to one, the more the betrayal hurts.
  • XxXnitemareXxX 2009/10/17 03:20:02
    Significant other, Obviously!
    XxXnitemareXxX
    +2
    i say significant other cuz my family doesnt give a f*** about me anyways
  • Kari 2009/10/17 02:10:57
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Kari
    +1
    Well, I can't imagine that either would be pleasant, but I think that I would be more hurt if I was betrayed by my husband. That would be awful.
  • sweet girl -95 2009/10/17 02:08:03
    Family Of course!
    sweet girl -95
    +1
    the significate other is suppose to be as family so to me they all come under family so it would hurt just as equally
  • J03Y W@$ H3R3~In Kira I tru... 2009/10/17 01:55:04
    Significant other, Obviously!
    J03Y W@$ H3R3~In Kira I trust~►One Hit Rage Quit◄
    +1
    What family?
  • Lia1221 2009/10/17 01:04:28
    Family Of course!
    Lia1221
    +1
    actually is a tie bc ur significant other if u really consider it ur significant other then its like family so its on the same plane
  • WhoaIt'sSarah. 2009/10/17 01:02:02
    Significant other, Obviously!
    WhoaIt'sSarah.
    +1
    you choose them. though family would still hurt.
  • Sarah 2009/10/17 00:14:53
    Family Of course!
    Sarah
    +1
    I think they are closer at this moment in time
  • Ghostlyhaunt 2009/10/16 23:16:09
    Family Of course!
    Ghostlyhaunt
    +2
    Where is the choice for both?.. Either way being betrayed by either party has the same consequences.. Whether it's a family member or a significant other the fact remains that you can choose to distance yourself from either party. The feelings that derive from being betrayed for whatever reason have little or no cure. They choose to act in whatever manner they did to loose your trust. I choose to pretend they never existed and move on.. all the better for it
  • Absynthe, Lady of Snakes 2009/10/16 22:42:14
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Absynthe, Lady of Snakes
    +2
    I dislike most of my family.
  • WhoaIt'... Absynth... 2009/10/17 01:01:08
    WhoaIt'sSarah.
    +1
    me too.
  • timburton<3johnnydepp 2009/10/16 21:56:31
    Family Of course!
    timburton<3johnnydepp
    +2
    time heals all wonds but ur family is 4ever l;ike it will hurt reall bad 4 a while but after u get over it
  • Sarah 2 2009/10/16 21:16:31
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Sarah 2
    +2
    Sig other! significant sig
  • Fed Up in NC 2009/10/16 21:10:48
    Significant other, Obviously!
    Fed Up in NC
    +1
    I've been betrayed and would never tell my family. This is between my husband and I. Trust is gone. If my family knew it would be like throwing gasoline on the fire. If that ever happened the relationship would be unfixable. betrayed family husband trust family throwing gasoline fire relationship unfixable
  • DiViews2014 2009/10/16 20:52:34
    Significant other, Obviously!
    DiViews2014
    +1
    Being betrayed by your family is generally not your entire family and you are more likely to forgive family. Your family will be more loyal to you than anybody else ultimately. Being betrayed by your significant other will hurt you more, but in the meantime your family is still there waiting for you. However, the significant other would hurt more. But, I would choose my family over my significant other in a matter of betrayal!

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