When you're dating someone... when is it appropriate to try to have sex with him/her for the first time?

by Tabby Posted 2007/10/01 17:44:20

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		1st, 2nd, or 3rd date is fine
		not for at least a month
		you should wait for a three to six months
		not until there's an engagement ring on the finger
		on the wedding night
	Undecided (Please leave a comment)
	None of the above (Please leave a comment)

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	1st, 2nd, or 3rd date is fine	9 votes	16%
	not for at least a month	5 votes	9%
	you should wait for a three to six months	7 votes	13%
	not until there's an engagement ring on the finger	0 votes	0%
	on the wedding night	3 votes	5%
	Undecided	19 votes	35%
	None of the above	12 votes	22%

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Stephanie K 2007/10/02 23:34:31

Undecided

+16
I say when your ready. But most people don't know when they are. I think some confused readiness with wanting to be ready. I think you should be a certain age. And at least know the person for a month. But that's just my opinion.
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spider_brad 2007/10/01 21:25:40

None of the above

Before either of you sobers up.

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Mike (the original sodahead... 2007/10/01 20:58:47

1st, 2nd, or 3rd date is fine

Make it known you're willing and let the other person say when.

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ThatGirl 2007/10/01 20:55:17

Undecided

Whenever both people are ready. It should be a love thing, not a lust thing also.

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~Robin~ 2007/10/01 20:37:00

Undecided

If you both want it then whenever you feel the time is right. Just wrap it up you never know what is lurking in the aftermath...lol.

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Tabby 2007/10/01 18:02:07

1st, 2nd, or 3rd date is fine

I'm on the "if its two concentual adults" bandwagon here... its important to be caught up on tests though.. for sure.

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sluggostalker 2007/10/01 17:54:48

Undecided

the only problem with someone being eager to sleep with you is that person was like that before they met you!theese days (it was a lot different when i was dating)you are not just going to bed with that person but your going to bed with everyone they have been with for the last two years!if that list is long you need to be worried!in my day if you went to bed with the wrong girl you might have to go to the dr and get a shot,now you die and you die in an ugly way!anyway sex is special,no im not saying you have to get married but make sure this person means more to you than anyone else.sex is better when you know,love and trust each other,and that doesnt come on the first second or even third date.plus the anticipation is much sweeter than the payoff!

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Ant~ All Woman All Amazing~ 2007/10/01 17:47:08

Undecided

+1
Everyone is different , It is when it is right for both of you .. : )

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