Quantcast

When Your Friends Start Fighting, What Do You Do?

luv2skate89 2009/01/12 21:41:28
Related Topics: Friends, Work, Friend
Ignore them till they stop fighting with each other
Choose a side that you agree with
Try to discuss and work things out between them
Other
You!
Add Photos & Videos
Having friends is great but things can become complicated when they argue with each other and want you to choose a side. Sometimes you may feel confused, as if no matter what you say you'll still lose a good friend. Your friends may even pressure you into making a quick decision that could result in even more unnecessary problems. When your friends get into a fight or argument what do you do about it?
Add a comment above

Top Opinion

Sort By
  • Most Raves
  • Least Raves
  • Oldest
  • Newest
Opinions

  • poproxy360 2014/04/27 00:42:16
  • Megan Cui 2012/11/10 20:54:04
    Ignore them till they stop fighting with each other
    Megan Cui
    I just give them the silent treatment and every time they fight, I say," Wow, you guys sound like a married couple *cough* *cough*" Then they stop fighting and are friends again.
  • XDRandomXD 2011/03/29 00:12:03
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    XDRandomXD
    i make a joke about the argument and point out how stupid this fight is and we all hug:D
  • Joy 2010/09/01 01:49:16
    Ignore them till they stop fighting with each other
    Joy
    +3
    Gather all the info and talk to them at same time
  • patricia 2010/08/08 03:34:05
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    patricia
    +3
    my best friends are fighting - two against one. i want things to be solved with them, so we can all be friends but i dont know how. they dont want to see each other - should i lie and lead them to the place i am at so they will see each other with out meaning and try and work things out or step back? either way im trying to convince them!!
  • Natalie 2010/08/05 02:35:12
    Choose a side that you agree with
    Natalie
    +2
    my friends are fighting too but im on one side. but sometimes when theyre fighting i just ignore, sit back, and watch. its fun too.
  • totalgirl2008 2010/02/06 02:51:14
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    totalgirl2008
    +2
    I think we should sit down work things out without causing a fight
  • kayla 2009/10/17 18:50:16
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    kayla
    Tell them to shut up and just forget about it.
  • Mazz Loka 2009/04/21 23:58:45
    Other
    Mazz Loka
    Slap 'em both in the face and then make them eat cow shit until they stop!
  • kija 2009/04/21 22:11:08
    Other
    kija
    I'll yell at them and scare them with my borderline psycho personality and they fall in line. >:)

    ill yell scare borderline psycho personality fall line
  • Jackie 2009/02/10 21:30:27
    Other
    Jackie
    Tell your firends you are not taking sides cause this is happening to me this my two best friends and they both want me to take there side but i like them both alot they are a few of my best friends and i dont wanna loose any of them so if they are asking you to take sides and if you say no and they are saying you have to then they are not a true friend if they are making you take a side
  • SelGome... Jackie 2012/03/07 20:55:48
    SelGomez1024
    +3
    im in the same exact situation right now and i have no idea wut 2 do but ya...
  • poproxy360 SelGome... 2014/04/27 00:40:07
  • potter101 2009/01/26 17:21:28
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    potter101
    when friends start going at it, the last thing you want to do is take sides,if anything, talk it out between the two & work from there
  • portowannabe 2009/01/26 14:05:55
    Other
    portowannabe
    normally since its just between the two of them .......... i like ti keep it that way
  • SelGome... portowa... 2012/03/07 20:58:07
    SelGomez1024
    +3
    thats a good idea...i shud try it
  • TWILIGHTLOVER3 2009/01/25 14:24:30
    Other
    TWILIGHTLOVER3
    Make smart elic remarks and tell them to get over thereselves.
  • ashley 2009/01/20 19:19:12
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    ashley
    i would not want to choose sides but i also would not want to get in the middle of it. i would try to get them talking again somehow and help them work it out to a point because i should kind of stay out of it. they would have to work it out and get what ever made them fight out of their systems.
  • Lovey Lyndsey ;)) 2009/01/19 18:14:58
    Other
    Lovey Lyndsey  ;))
    Tell them to get over yourself and move on gahhh
  • Mariposa[◕‿◕Gleek❤PHAET] 2009/01/19 17:39:05
    Other
    Mariposa[◕‿◕Gleek❤PHAET]
    i never choose sides that is really childish....what i do is i say flat out NO SIDES then i see what the problem is if i can fix it i try if not i let them do what they want it just really depends on the situation.
  • Ves~Sailor Soldier of PHAET 2009/01/18 20:38:53
    Ignore them till they stop fighting with each other
    Ves~Sailor Soldier of PHAET
    That or I leave. I don't have time for BS
  • edwardgurl 2009/01/18 18:26:46
    Ignore them till they stop fighting with each other
    edwardgurl
    i really dont care wat they do let them fist fight for all i care
  • agentchewy 2009/01/18 07:32:52
    Ignore them till they stop fighting with each other
    agentchewy
    i let they duke it out until they are satisfy. i my experience when some one attempts to stop it, it becomes bigger, more stress and anger, and usually end with an awkward moment with you having to choose which friend you're going to hang with more because they will never talk to one another again.
  • BkWrm94 2009/01/18 00:42:56
    Other
    BkWrm94
    It depends on what they are fighting about.
  • jules77 2009/01/17 21:53:40
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    jules77
    You could do this or just beat their heads together lol
  • $aNdcAstlePrincess 2009/01/17 19:58:12
    Other
    $aNdcAstlePrincess
    tell thm 2 shutup! thm 2 shutup
  • Egg † "In God We Trust" † 2009/01/17 06:34:59
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    Egg   † "In God We Trust" †
    Try that and break 'em up. Its probably something small anyway.
  • BreakingDawn4 2009/01/17 04:26:44
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    BreakingDawn4
    it works out way better
  • Electra~Greekbby♥ 2009/01/16 22:01:13
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    Electra~Greekbby♥
    +2
    FRIENDSHIP IS A SHIP THAT NEVER SINKS, although the storms you'll have ti deal with would not be few...So try to keep the together!!!
  • confused 2009/01/16 08:28:12
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    confused
    they are both my friends hwo can i chose ,i'll try to work it out,& i'll never chose one of them
    & if i had i'll left them & never talk to them till they come back togather againe
  • pop_princess_08 2009/01/16 02:58:57
    Other
    pop_princess_08
    usually i would choose a side, but recently i have had to deal with that over and over again. now i would choose to stay neutral and show them how stupid they were being
  • Regina 2009/01/16 01:02:41
    Other
    Regina
    I know that people will be stubborn and trying to discuss things will probably make them turn against me and let them think that I'm taking the other side, and I never take sides because I know that sometimes people will have their little quarrels and if the person on the outside just stays out it, then that is what it will stay, just a little quarrel that the two opposing sides will get over.
  • tokio hotel freak 2009/01/16 00:13:10
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    tokio hotel freak
    im not the kind 2 choose sides. i luv my friends equally so i don't have 2. discuss work 2 choose sides luv friends equally 2
  • Vickytoria600 2009/01/15 21:50:16 (edited)
    Try to discuss and work things out between them
    Vickytoria600
    i will not choose a side, even if i agree with one friend over another. most of the time i don't even get involved, let them figure it out, it's their problem not mine. but if i have to i'll try to reason with both of them. the fights usually about something stupid that doesn't even matter anyway
  • BlondeBrandi 2009/01/15 21:25:06
    Choose a side that you agree with
    BlondeBrandi
    I know its kind of mean to take sides, but I usually agree with one and then back talk to the other. But can't we all just get along??? choose sides talk
  • AXX2009 2009/01/15 20:39:16
    Other
    AXX2009
    you make a joke and they will probably stop
  • Krissa 2009/01/15 15:07:06
    Ignore them till they stop fighting with each other
    Krissa
    yea i sorta do this, but i will still talk to each over the phone, but i wont talk to them in person
  • Tigger 2009/01/15 04:41:59
    Ignore them till they stop fighting with each other
    Tigger
    i never get involved. it's for them to work out i'm tired of getting dragged into others arguments. it's better to just stay away.
  • terri 2009/01/15 04:08:32
    Other
    terri
    +2
    kill them and buy new friends. quiet, submissive ones.
  • Crazy926 terri 2010/04/10 20:08:03
    Crazy926
    +3
    uh....... ok.....I hope your joking LOL :-)

See Votes by State

The map above displays the winning answer by region.

Living

2014/10/24 05:33:01

Hot Questions on SodaHead
More Hot Questions

More Community More Originals