When you see an older man making advances on a under age girl on here do you report it ?!

by Scott (o)(o) Posted 2012/07/10 17:25:52

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Pixie·MzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠ 2012/07/12 05:22:11 (edited)

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I personally have not it seen it. But I would. (and yes I kow it happens) But would you report an adult female making advances on an underage male?

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Scott (... to Pixie·... 2012/07/12 19:07:40

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truth ... prob not !

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Me 2012/07/11 03:49:51

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depends on the situation...i probably call him a pervo and to get away

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☆SPIDERPIECES☆ 2012/07/11 02:03:04

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Yes. Mid 40 tough guys messaging 16 & 17 yr old girls. Think of your estranged wife and daughters you perv.

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Chloey Hamer 2012/07/11 01:36:19

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I totally forgot about reporting. I guess that's something to consider when there are men 20 years my senior are flirting with me.

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Melizmatic 2012/07/10 23:51:09

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I report flagrant harassment, bullying and threats.

But flirting?

Meh. We have no proof that anyone here is actually whatever age (or ethnicity, or gender or any label) they claim to be.

For instance; prove that I'm NOT a disembodied set of fangs.

I dare you.

;-)

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historian to Melizmatic 2012/07/11 01:01:45

I know where you came from- PROOF!

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Melizmatic to historian 2012/07/11 01:19:29

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The only thing that YouTube proves is that people will record ANYTHING.

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historian to Melizmatic 2012/07/11 01:55:58

LOL!

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Pixie·... to Melizmatic 2012/07/12 05:23:05

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you are fangs though!

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Melizmatic to Pixie·... 2012/07/12 05:49:58

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I do have a pretty wicked bite...

=D

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**Bessie** 2012/07/10 23:45:10

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No. How the hell do any of us really know the ages of anyone on here?

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Barefoot Peace and Love∞ijm... 2012/07/10 21:31:12

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If I see it .....I would..... there is alot of fishy stuff going on here.....!!

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SA to Barefoo... 2012/07/10 23:14:09

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I agree!

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Barefoo... to SA 2012/07/10 23:43:33

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*big smiles*
hope you have had a wonderful day♥

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♥☯ ʂıoвнaп ☮♥ 2012/07/10 21:28:45

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First, I want to mention that I know how a girl in this situation would feel. A grown man has flirted with me. Not an 18 or 19 year old, which wouldn't really bother me. Try a guy in his late 30's instead. He didn't know I was 14 at first, but when I told him, he continued to do so and was even interested in pursuing an actual relationship with me, which I found extremely creepy.
However, I wouldn't report it. That is, unless...
A) The girl was showing signs that she didn't want to be bothered.
B) I, for some trivial reason, knew that the girl was actually as young as she claimed to be.
C) The guy in question was the same guy who was bothering me.

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Melizmatic to ♥☯ ʂıoв... 2012/07/10 23:47:25

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You're only 14?

You carry yourself well.

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♥☯ ʂıoв... to Melizmatic 2012/07/10 23:53:11

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Thank you :)

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Melizmatic to ♥☯ ʂıoв... 2012/07/10 23:53:22

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De nada.

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Pixie·... to ♥☯ ʂıoв... 2012/07/12 05:24:03

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I agree with Melz

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♥☯ ʂıoв... to Pixie·... 2012/07/12 05:28:17

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Well, thank you as well :)

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Nimitz 2012/07/10 21:00:25

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How would we know?

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**Bessie** to Nimitz 2012/07/10 23:45:34

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Exactly.

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Nimitz to **Bessie** 2012/07/11 00:51:58

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That obvious point won't keep hyper-zealous moms, dads and government goons from storming the castle with pitchforks, though.

My policy is this: if you're listed as under nineteen, I won't friend you or talk to you in anything but the most public of environments. If you lie about your age and say you're 20, I might--or at least until such time as I discover the ruse. Same goes for those who don't post their age at all. This rule not only applies here on SH, but on every other site I visit as well. THIS is a chance which I'm NOT taking. These days minors are just about as hazardous to the life/career of adults as playing mop boy at Chernobyl. Uh . . .thanks but no thanks.

(The word 'you' is used generically throughout, of course.)

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Radical Ed 2012/07/10 20:01:26

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GIRL = guy in real life.

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Melizmatic to Radical Ed 2012/07/10 23:47:01

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*lolz!

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Rose and Thorns 666 2012/07/10 19:14:14

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No, this is the internet. People lie about their age all the time to be younger or older.

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**Bessie** to Rose an... 2012/07/10 23:45:56

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I agree. I, however, really am 50!

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Scott (... to **Bessie** 2012/07/12 19:09:11

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me too

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♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒ 2012/07/10 18:22:06 (edited)

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I haven't reported it, but I think it's weird.

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Melizmatic to ♒ßεllεc... 2012/07/10 23:51:54

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Agreed; its rather creepy...

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Stef and the City 2012/07/10 18:17:57

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If the girl is fourteen and the man is over eighteen I would. However, if the man is in his twenties and the girl is sixteen or over I don't really see what the big deal is. I was capable of making my own decisions when it came to men who I was or wasn't interested in when I was that age. People tend to overreact far too often about all this age difference stuff.

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NPC 2012/07/10 17:45:21

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How do you know when this is happpening ?. Try not to answer children's questions unless they tell me how old they are. Don't jump to conclusions or you could find your self in trouble also.

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Sister Jean 2012/07/10 17:37:50

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have not seen it for a long time but I would

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Kashee 2012/07/10 17:33:08

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I don't know if it will work, but you could try this site. Maybe they can redirect you. I'm glad you have noticed.

www.usatoday.com/tech/news/20...

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Vision of Verve 2012/07/10 17:26:22
Scott (... to Vision ... 2012/07/10 17:27:42

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still we need to keep our young ladies safe tho !

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Beat Ma... to Scott (... 2012/07/10 17:37:59

16 year old girl on the internet = 55 year old man in real life.

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Profess... to Beat Ma... 2012/07/10 18:20:25

13 year old girl on the internet = 45 year old policeman in pedifile sting operation in real life.

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Melizmatic to Beat Ma... 2012/07/10 23:52:24

*lolz

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