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When The One You Love Wants to Leave

Trouble 2012/03/19 13:41:26
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  • Confused 2012/11/09 19:44:54
    Trying to fix what's wrong
    Confused
    Just got an email from my fiance that she doesn't know what she wants in life...she said she still loves me but has always been with someone and doesn't really know it's like to find herself. We have an 18 month old son...I feel like I got punched in the gut and can't breath. This happened about 8 months ago but she never ended up leaving, she was on mat leave at the time and advised that when I got home from work that they would be gone and that I could see my son on the weekend....but later she emailed back saying that she'll be home when I get home, it'd be too tough for her to leave and not be able to see us (when she didn't have our son). Now we're back in the same situation. I'm a genuinely good guy, help with everything around the house (cooking, cleaning, laundry etc.) and I have no idea where this is coming from. She says she still loves me but needs to figure out what she wants to do with her life....she is my life...my son is my life...can't picture my life without her by my side....help
  • Queen Katherine 2012/03/26 16:28:55
    Let go
    Queen Katherine
    Let them go if you try to hold on to them that will just drive them away from you even more.
  • <3 Xina )O( Wolfe <3 2012/03/22 19:11:55
    Let go
    <3 Xina )O( Wolfe <3
    +1
    As an old saying goes "When you truly love someone, you must learn to let them go. If it was meant to be they will return. If they don't, it wasn't meant to be, they were never yours." Try for so long to fix whatever is wrong, but don't spend the rest of your life, and all of your energy in trying to fix a hopeless case. There are others out there who would be more worth your time. Easier said then done tho. I know I wouldn't be able to let go easily of my fiance if he ever decided he wanted to leave, and same as vice versa.
  • Krystle 2012/03/21 10:08:29
    Let go
    Krystle
    Peace out! Don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya!
  • Jordache 2012/03/21 00:06:08
    Trying to fix what's wrong
    Jordache
    +2
    If you don't try, then it must not really matter to you. True?
  • Just me ♥ 2012/03/20 15:14:55
    Let go
    Just me ♥
    +1
    Let them go. Why go through this over and over again?? If they stay, it will be short lived and whatever it was that caused them to want to leave in the first place will resurface in a couple of months and you'll be right back to square one again.
  • xXScarlettXx 2012/03/20 13:39:28
    Trying to fix what's wrong
    xXScarlettXx
    +1
    I'd do everything in myy power to find out what was wrongg and fixx it. If I cant, thenn I'll lett them go >:P
  • Trouble xXScarl... 2012/03/20 14:15:54
    Trouble
    Agree
  • xXScarl... Trouble 2012/03/21 11:24:04
    xXScarlettXx
    I've had to let go of many peoplee that I've lovedd in myy life, but eventually it all turns out for teh better. ._.
  • Freebird 2012/03/20 05:28:23
    Let go
    Freebird
    +1
    Can't hang on to someone who doesn't love you too, not fair to you!
  • Mrkando 2012/03/20 03:29:01
    Let go
    Mrkando
    +1
    Letting go of the one you love has to be one of the most difficult things you will ever have to do in life. But when you come to understand that they do not love you any longer you also understand that they are not yours to keep. This happened to me after 37 years of marriage and it turned out to be a very good thing for both of us. It hurts at the time but if you can let go often your life will get a whole lot better.
  • Trouble Mrkando 2012/03/20 04:33:09
    Trouble
    +1
    Thank you :)
  • Shady 2012/03/20 01:18:03
    Let go
    Shady
    See ya later bye, cant make love love you. And if a person wants out you can do whatever you want they are still gonna burn the road up. So good riddins. It will all heal in time. Been there done that.
  • Scooter 2012/03/20 00:23:09
    Let go
    Scooter
    +1
    If they don't want to be there...let them go...
  • bert 2012/03/19 21:52:43
    Let go
    bert
    I would think...
  • Herb 2012/03/19 21:27:16
    Let go
    Herb
    if you have tried everything time to let go. may hurt things could work out later. let go let god.
  • Delilah 2012/03/19 21:25:42
    Let go
    Delilah
    +1
    If the person has already made his/her mind made up to leave… Then let go… If you love something, let it go, if it was always yours, it will come back, and if not, it never was…. Letting go of something you love is hard, but in the end, everything will work out!
  • MandaLynne 2012/03/19 20:54:50
    Let go
    MandaLynne
    +1
    Always try to work things out, but if they are adamant about leaving, let them go.
  • Trouble MandaLynne 2012/03/20 05:18:46
    Trouble
    +1
    Thank you
  • Jackal 2012/03/19 20:49:55
    Let go
    Jackal
    If you love someone, sometimes you have to let them go.
  • Mrs.Lautner <3 2012/03/19 20:30:46 (edited)
  • KilrQueen 2012/03/19 19:51:04
    Let go
    KilrQueen
    +2
    If they want to leave then what is the point of trying to hold on?
  • peggy 2012/03/19 19:51:00
    Let go
    peggy
    Pack his stuff for him to make sure he dosent take anything of yours. LOL!
  • Mz Understood 2012/03/19 19:29:04
    Let go
    Mz Understood
    +2
    Because it will allow you to find the one who loves you back.
  • LittleMistersMom 2012/03/19 19:18:54
    Let go
    LittleMistersMom
    +1
    Don't make your life miserable with someone that doesn't love you. Move on and find the one that was meant for you.
  • ScarletBlood 2012/03/19 19:18:37
    Let go
    ScarletBlood
  • gkirmani 2012/03/19 19:15:32
    Let go
    gkirmani
    +1
    i will think otherwise and shall allow for the sake of my LOVE
  • wtxwoman 2012/03/19 17:51:50
    Let go
    wtxwoman
    +2
    I like the alternate version: "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours; if not, hunt it down and kill it." :-)

    Seriously, you can't make someone love you. And, you can learn to NOT love a person. I speak from experience on both counts.
  • Trouble wtxwoman 2012/03/20 05:21:25
    Trouble
    +1
    Thank you
  • MitsukyWkfChang 2012/03/19 17:36:23
    Let go
    MitsukyWkfChang
    +1
    if you love something let it go if it come's back to you it's yours forever
  • Sister Jean 2012/03/19 13:58:04
    Let go
    Sister Jean
  • Trouble Sister ... 2012/03/19 14:15:40
    Trouble
    +1
    Thank you, ^__^ I think I already know the answer but just too pain to accept at the moment
  • TheDude 2012/03/19 13:43:32
    Let go
    TheDude
  • Trouble TheDude 2012/03/19 14:15:57
    Trouble
    Thank you very much! ^ ^
  • TheDude Trouble 2012/03/19 14:17:51
    TheDude
    I'm in a similar situation. My lady has been cheating and I am still trying to decide whether I want to stay or go. If I stay, I will definitely "even the score," but do I really want to play that game? I don't know.

    She seems sincerely apologetic and of course, came up with a good story. But the issue is once you breach someones trust, it's VERY difficult to gain it back.
  • Trouble TheDude 2012/03/19 14:21:21
    Trouble
    +1
    I'm sorry to hear that, The one who really know the answer is You,
    Big hug like a good friend (^__^)
  • Heat Her TheDude 2012/03/19 17:42:26
    Heat Her
    +3
    If she's a cheater just get out. No one that loves you would do that to you.
  • Shady TheDude 2012/03/20 01:19:27
    Shady
    +1
    Thats nice, beautifully said and true

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