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When Someone Spills Their Guts To You, Are You Ever At A Loss Of What To Say?

Sir Anthony Of Camelot 2013/09/24 23:31:14
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  • NYCbrit 2013/09/25 06:44:53
    I always know what to say.
    NYCbrit
    +4
    I'm usually pretty good at figuring out something to say.

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  • P. Sturm 2013/09/30 02:40:10
    None of the above
    P. Sturm
    Often I am. I need to think about it.
  • TKramar 2013/09/25 21:51:50
    None of the above
    TKramar
    I never say anything. I allso don't pay that much attention to what they're saying.
  • Beck∞♥☮♫♫♫∞ 2013/09/25 17:27:28
    None of the above
    Beck∞♥☮♫♫♫∞
    +1
    I dont always know what to say or how to respond, i try hard to be the friend i would want someone to be for me in the same situation.
  • Jesus the Nectarine 2013/09/25 13:34:02
    None of the above
    Jesus the Nectarine
    +1
    It depends on what they say
  • Pete 2013/09/25 09:13:01
    None of the above
    Pete
    +1
    Depends on the problem, some problems are very complex and some are easy to work with.
  • Haole 2013/09/25 07:28:32
    I always know what to say.
    Haole
    +1
    I just look at them and burp real loud.
  • NYCbrit 2013/09/25 06:44:53
    I always know what to say.
    NYCbrit
    +4
    I'm usually pretty good at figuring out something to say.
  • Danielle 2013/09/25 03:26:59
  • dredd lewis smith 2013/09/25 03:22:48
    None of the above
    dredd lewis smith
    Nope, cause if it hapens to be something that can damage their reputation or be used against them for whatever reason, then I'll definitely save it for future references.
  • Melicious Kiss of PHAET 2013/09/25 02:22:52
    Gross, spilled guts...
    Melicious Kiss of PHAET
    +2
    Yeah, sometimes. But sometimes the best thing you can do is listen. spilled guts
  • Kashee 2013/09/25 01:39:48
    None of the above
    Kashee
    +1
    sometimes there isn't anything to say
  • mike 2013/09/25 01:27:43
    Yes, I don't know how to respond.
    mike
    +2
    When I was a Christian, it was much easier because I could say "I'll pray for you" to just about everything.

    Now that prayer is off the table, yea, I don't know how to respond to really deep, tragic stuff.
  • David 2013/09/25 01:05:38
    None of the above
    David
    +1
    The first thing is to get off your phaet because it could take hours, the second is to leave a generous space between yourself and the one doing the gut spilling.

    Am I at a lost for words, it depends on the flow!
  • Sweetpea 2013/09/25 00:40:14
    None of the above
    Sweetpea
    +1
    Sometimes I am at a loss for words. Not always..
  • No One 2013/09/25 00:04:20
    Yes, I don't know how to respond.
    No One
    +2
    There's someone on SodaHead who spills her guts to me and I don't always know how to respond.
  • Joe Finsternis 2013/09/25 00:03:03
    Yes, I don't know how to respond.
    Joe Finsternis
    +3
    When someone tells me something unbelievably sad, it's hard to think of a proper response.
  • fallnhope 2013/09/24 23:51:10
    Yes, I don't know how to respond.
    fallnhope
    +1
    It's part of the reason I've never told ANYONE my whole story. It's a little scary not knowing what to say when someone's that open to you.
  • NYCbrit fallnhope 2013/09/25 06:39:48
    NYCbrit
    +1
    I know just what you mean.
  • DiViews2014 2013/09/24 23:48:07
    I always know what to say.
    DiViews2014
    I had the opportunity to share in the raising of a very intelligent boy throughout his adolescence years into two master's degrees from college later. We were very close and I always encouraged him to to tell me anything. He could tell me things when he could not tell his mother or anybody else. God in heaven knows how I fought the panic and the alarm in my heart and mind when I would wrap my mind around some of the things he told me and asked me, but we made it. I think it would be hard to stump me. ;)
  • Boy Whatz-- SortaDead Guru 2013/09/24 23:44:56
    Gross, spilled guts...
    Boy Whatz--  SortaDead Guru
    +4
    If someone spills their guts to me, I want bleach, rubber gloves, a mop bucket, and a HazMat uniform so I can clean it up. Then I want some Glade air freshener or potpourri for afterwards. (and a shot of tequila. Hell, maybe even a cigarette)
  • NYCbrit Boy Wha... 2013/09/25 06:44:14
    NYCbrit
    +1
    A real "cleaner", eh?

    breaking bad mike cleaner
  • Danielle Boy Wha... 2013/09/25 12:04:41
  • Boy Wha... Danielle 2013/09/25 17:35:50
    Boy Whatz--  SortaDead Guru
    +1
    I even left out the part about needing a barf bag :)
  • JohnT 2013/09/24 23:43:27
    I always know what to say.
    JohnT
    +2
    As a ex-cop I have seen a lot and heard worse. Depends who says it to me, and I would try to be empathetic that is the best you can do.Many times folks just want to be heard and not necessarily looking for solutions.
  • Melizmatic 2013/09/24 23:32:47
    Gross, spilled guts...
    Melizmatic
    +3
    Depends upon who it is and what their "guts" consist of.

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