When does the shit stop.....Give me a frigin' break

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When does the shit stop.....Give me a frigin' break

Posted November 06, 2009 19:42:29
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When did it become a friendly gesture for a "friend/lover" to give ultimatums?

Don't ever, ever ask me to delete someone because you don't like them, or are just plain jealous of them..........if your that insecure then just take me off your list or deal with it.

and, if I ever have a temporary loss of mind and ask someone to do the same, then please god of all things delete me from you list.......I would not be the kind of friend I would want or deserve........and neither should you.

People gets some balls and stand up for your friends or lovers and quit giving in to this manipulation..........good greef!!!

People who truly care don't act that way!!!

people balls friends lovers quit manipulation greef people care act

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+5 raves ๑۩۩..ßεℓℓεchεvεℓℓε®..۩۩๑Wra... November 06, 2009 19:50:54

Sheesh.

I second that spidermonkey.
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mach ~wants some political ... November 08, 2009 05:19:45

Whew!... close call! I was just preparing my delete list for ya monkeywoman. Glad you caught me in time!
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spiderm... to mach ~w... November 08, 2009 05:24:41

I'm so happy.......
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mach ~w... to spiderm... November 08, 2009 05:29:08

do= I'm so glad....
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Red Branch to spiderm... 6 days ago

and I am happy when you are happy.
spiderm... to Red Branch 6 days ago

Aren't you sweet!!
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Denny November 08, 2009 00:15:12

you are completely correct. I used to be a jealous type and it was hurting the one I loved most in the world. I took a long hard look at myself and figured out it was not jealousy it was envy. I was trying to be every person in the world for her and did not want anyone else spend time with her. It got so bad I found myself becoming envious of our children. I decided to fix myself and here is what is getting me to be a better person and get over this envious shit. I realized my lover is a complex and loving person who needs many people in her life just as we all do. Without these other people in her life she would be miserable. I also learned I need more friends in my life as well. She loves me and I love her, that is all I need to know. Whatever she says on SH or whomever she dances with besides me, they are just friends and aquaintances. Her and I are the real deal and when it is all said and done we go home together and share the real emotions with eachother. This is all just fun and games on here between friends for us and that is the way we like it. I love her enough to give her the room she needs to be herself and close enough for her to know that I will always be here for her and that she is my number one and only.
spiderm... to Denny November 08, 2009 04:25:50

You are very wise. Jealousy can kill a relationhip!
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Kennedy1st November 07, 2009 19:19:54

I don't block period.
Kennedy1
spiderm... to Kennedy1st November 08, 2009 04:31:42

Only the ones that bully and stalk me on the polls....saying bad things..
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Sunshine & Starshine November 07, 2009 19:18:23

I hate everything that has to do with jelousy or control.

It sickens me... I feel ya!
spiderm... to Sunshin... November 08, 2009 04:28:58

You hate everything.....and your name is Sunshine and Starshine?? hahaha!!
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Sunshin... to spiderm... November 08, 2009 19:18:06

LOL! No, just everthing that pertains to jelousy and control issues.

poo!
spiderm... to Sunshin... November 08, 2009 20:54:04

Yes....jealousy and control......I have always been the jealous type...but I don't get jealous of my hub.......ever! He's a saint....(jk)
I have to constantly work on my jealous tendencies.....
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The Rock November 07, 2009 15:47:43

Girl, you are upset! Are you?
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spiderm... to The Rock November 08, 2009 04:28:27

Not day.....I'm over it now....thanks
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SHER November 07, 2009 12:45:30

Amen sistah! You are not crazy!! I've had the same thing happen to me and "person" who asked me to was the one that got blocked!!! People need to take their anger out someplace else!!
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spiderm... to SHER November 08, 2009 04:28:08

I know you understand...
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SHER to spiderm... November 08, 2009 05:14:42

Yep! Been there and done that!!
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elptrek November 07, 2009 09:46:37

I would never ask you to delete anyone shoot them maybe but never delete them. lol
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spiderm... to elptrek November 08, 2009 04:27:52

Well now, Shooting is a different story....I would do that for a friend....haha