When do you know when and when not to put your foot down with your significant other?

Sour Dime 2012/09/16 03:47:00
I can imagine everyone in a relationship has things that bother them about their significant other, my question to you is when do you set ultimatums or put your foot down, what things are too much for you?
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  • METALheadMom 2012/09/26 04:07:19
    When something directly affects YOU.
  • Pam 2012/09/24 07:16:27
    You have to choose your wars, there will always be something about your SO that is going to piss you off and you have to choose which are the most important to you.
  • Cricket 2012/09/20 06:41:38
    Nonconstructive criticism; judgment
  • BOOGIE-WOOGIE-MUSIC-MAN-ROC... 2012/09/16 11:12:38
    Play it by ear.
  • Jdogg 2012/09/16 04:45:59
    You can only comprimise so much, Sometimes you just have to stand your ground,
    And I don't do ultimatums.
  • CrazyJason 2012/09/16 03:49:38 (edited)
    Put your foot down when she's bein' a bitch. Simple. She can play that game with someone else for all I care.
  • Sour Dime CrazyJason 2012/09/16 04:02:31
    Sour Dime
    Do you have a example/scenario of when she's being a bitch?
  • CrazyJason Sour Dime 2012/09/16 04:03:11
    only when she's breathing
  • Sour Dime CrazyJason 2012/09/16 04:04:17
    Sour Dime
    This sounds like you just don't like people in general...
  • CrazyJason Sour Dime 2012/09/16 04:12:18
    that's not far from the truth
  • Sour Dime CrazyJason 2012/09/16 04:13:32
    Sour Dime
    Could you be realistic and answer the question seriously, if it isn't too much of a bother?
  • CrazyJason Sour Dime 2012/09/16 04:15:21
    Join the service, get out, be homeless twice and be on the verge of being homeless again.. and then tell me how much you like people, mmkay? :)
  • Sour Dime CrazyJason 2012/09/16 04:20:35
    Sour Dime
    Wouldn't join the service in the first place unless I knew exactly what I was supporting.
  • Sour Dime Sour Dime 2012/09/16 06:25:09
    Sour Dime
    Seriously dude? It isn't enough that you take a jab at our four year age differences (hardly anything at all) but you also have to poke at my weight? Are you really that sensitive about your poor choice to join the service? That isn't my fault, I didn't even insult you about it I just said that it isn't something I would do, meaning I have strong opinions and wouldn't want to be forced to go against them. I'd love to tell you you are just as ugly as your personality, but you're not that unattractive. Even though actions speak louder than words; words speak louder than physical appearance.
  • METALhe... CrazyJason 2012/09/26 04:09:53
    If that happened to me, I would be on my nearest Veterans Office doorstep with all my belongings. It's not OUR fault, it's THEIR fault. I know for a fact that they will do everything possible to help you get a job and a place to live.
  • Bibliop... CrazyJason 2012/09/16 07:35:44
    Yeah... misogyny always helps relationships a bunch. There's no wonder she's pissed at you.
  • Zervur 2012/09/16 03:49:05
    I think it would be a sign of a relationship problem. My wife and I talk, discuss, make good sound arguments. We don't use ultimatums.
  • sickofpolitics 2012/09/16 03:48:46
    I choose my battles wisely!!! It is about respect and communication.
  • Sour Dime sickofp... 2012/09/16 04:03:03
    Sour Dime
    What battles do you choose and what battles do you discard?
  • sickofp... Sour Dime 2012/09/16 04:04:49
    It is always situational. We don't battle too much though our communication helps us to avoid fallout!!
  • Sour Dime sickofp... 2012/09/16 04:12:07
    Sour Dime
    May I have a couple scenarios, if it isn't too personal or too much of a bother?

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