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When Anyone Asks You for Help, Can You Say "No"?

RV ~ The Peacekeeper of PHAET 2011/03/18 16:10:07
Related Topics: Saying No
Yes, easily.
Nope, I can´t.
Depends on the person.
Depends on the help.
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  • Rakohammas 2011/03/18 16:17:28
    Depends on the help.
    Rakohammas
    +4
    if its somthing I can consider that would affect me or that, that person can do it perfectly without my help why would I help?

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  • Mrinmoy Chakma 2011/03/21 15:41:43
    Nope, I can´t.
    Mrinmoy Chakma
  • Merry 2011/03/21 11:29:27
    Nope, I can´t.
    Merry
    +1
    It's really hard for me to say NO to people.
  • Yes, easily.
    *~кåιѕєяïη σƒ ѕтяαωвєяяÿ ριяα†єѕ~*
    +1
    Depends on the person, the help, and, whether I WANT to, whether I'm able to do it or not. My grandmother is the only person I can't say no to, regardless.
  • Sonia 2011/03/19 15:33:56
    Nope, I can´t.
    Sonia
    +1
    because you never know when that same person might return back the favor you gave him/her.
  • richie 2011/03/19 03:18:31
  • ♥ Emily the "Cutie Banana P... 2011/03/19 02:11:49
    Depends on the help.
    ♥ Emily the "Cutie Banana Pie" ♥
    +2
    I can say "No" when I need to, but I wouldn't out of spite or selfishness.
  • OzSin 2011/03/19 02:03:50
    Depends on the person.
    OzSin
    +1
    Massive cleavage gets you anywhere and anything from me........
  • mrbadexample 2011/03/19 01:38:57
    Depends on the help.
    mrbadexample
    +1
    i get around, vacation in vegas, i spent 3 years going every few months to downtown chicago for an eye surgery study (i was in an experimental lens implant study for 3 years) and i saw the same people, on the same corners for YEARS! a couple honest ones in vegas had signs that said they needed a beer! i wonder what they did for housing, they didn't look that bad off. the salvation army, red cross and the local food pantry, i give to them. my neighbor was unemployed for an extended period of time, she got stuff from the food pantry. i've never collected welfare, unemployment or anything from the pantry, for the grace of God, go i. i been close a few times, unemployed, injured. i researched food stamps a few years ago and for about a dozen years, i qualified for FREE FOOD via the government/tax payers. i could have had a better car or domicile, if i didn't have to pay for food. i never thought of going for food stamps or any other aid. i just did my best and got by. those that live on "aid" will "get by", but they will never become a success. adversity promotes success. nobody exceeds in anything if they are given everything. i'm not a millionaire, but i'm not poor, i've worked the last 35 years, and i'm proud to be a working class fool, who the leftists made fun of for many years, and now...FEAR!!! democrats...fear ME/this!
  • FencerCat 2011/03/19 01:38:25
    Depends on the person.
    FencerCat
    +2
    I only help those I can help. I can't be everything to everyone.
  • Lyric 2011/03/19 01:20:35
    Undecided
    Lyric
    +2
    It depends on the person and depends on the help but usually the word "no" is my biggest weakness.
  • Snickers 2011/03/19 00:35:23
    Undecided
    Snickers
    +1
    I don't take enjoyment out of denying or accepting a plea for help. Honestly, the person asking for my assistance couldn't matter less to me.

    I hate to sound cruel, but I don't like being put on the spot when someone comes to me for help. I of course do everything I can in order to provide an uplift to the situation; but sometimes my mood or temper gets the better of me and I find myself offering an outright "NO"
  • ljhfldsj 2011/03/19 00:09:04
    Depends on the help.
    ljhfldsj
    +2
    If its something they're just too lazy to do themselves, I would say no. But if anyone genuinely needed my help for something, I'd be glad to help them :)
  • wtxwoman 2011/03/18 23:00:47
    Yes, easily.
    wtxwoman
    +1
    If I don't want to, I don't want to and I'm not going to be bullied or guilted into anything.
  • Jim 2011/03/18 22:50:23
    Nope, I can´t.
    Jim
    +2
    Alway's make myself available to help my neighbors, especially, the elderly.
  • Anna E 2011/03/18 22:02:02
    Depends on the help.
    Anna E
    +2
    I can say "yes" to someone I don't even like if it is feasible. Or I can say "no" to someone I like if it doesn't seem like a good idea.
  • Curious Pierre Balloon 2011/03/18 21:43:56
    Undecided
    Curious Pierre Balloon
    +1
    i debate about whether or not to. i want to be a nice person, but i know that you shouldn't let people take advantage of you. i usually regret it either way
  • vannuck 2011/03/18 21:41:23
    Depends on the help.
    vannuck
    +1
    both on the help and the person asking me to help.
  • Andy 2011/03/18 20:31:42
    Yes, easily.
    Andy
    +1
    All the time...it's not in my nature to help.
  • Miko 2011/03/18 20:19:09
    Depends on the person.
    Miko
    +1
    yea depends on the person. when i see kindly person really need a help. i will help him with a pleasure.
  • GirlyGirl™ 2011/03/18 20:13:42
    Undecided
    GirlyGirl™
    +1
    I was. The saying "Fool me once, shame on you...Fool me twice, shame on me" is a motto that I've learned by.
  • FUS RO DAH! 2011/03/18 20:07:49
    Yes, easily.
    FUS RO DAH!
    +1
    In a heart beat
  • Lyric 2011/03/18 19:53:53
    Nope, I can´t.
    Lyric
    +1
    - Idk ... I just Like To Help :)
  • The_Red-fox 2011/03/18 19:41:35 (edited)
    Depends on the person.
    The_Red-fox
    +1
    really i can't say no to a woman unless she asks me to have sex with her or anyone else
  • B 2011/03/18 19:05:21
    Nope, I can´t.
    B
    +1
    especially when ppl put me on the spot...I always end of doing things I don't want to like helping ppl move, babysitting, cleaning for others, etc. I think ppl tak advantage of the fact that I never say no
  • Nikki 2011/03/18 19:04:35
    Depends on the help.
    Nikki
    +1
    definitly depends on what there asking for...
  • Rocky 2011/03/18 19:03:27 (edited)
    Depends on the help.
    Rocky
    +1
    It depends on the kind of help a person asks for. If it is a long time friend...they can cash any check they want to with me...up to and including my entire fortune.There were only three people who could call in that chip...and one of them is dead!

    Not including my sons and daugher..they all could call on me anytime...any.....time! And I'd be there for them!
  • ★misfit★ 2011/03/18 19:00:54
    Depends on the person.
    ★misfit★
    +1
    And the help. I usually have trouble saying no but I can do it.
  • Uncommon Confusion 2011/03/18 19:00:48
    Depends on the help.
    Uncommon Confusion
    +1
    I enjoy saying yes but I refuse to compromise myself to do so
  • Ashley S. 2011/03/18 18:51:16
    Depends on the help.
    Ashley S.
    +1
    Depends on what they're asking for.
  • Philanthropic Misanthrope 2011/03/18 18:41:41
    Depends on the person.
    Philanthropic Misanthrope
    +1
    Everyone in my clan - people I care about and by extension those they care about - get help from me, no questions asked.
  • Mila Rei 2011/03/18 18:34:03
    Depends on the help.
    Mila Rei
    +1
    i'm bad ><
  • `~maggie~` 2011/03/18 18:15:25
    Nope, I can´t.
    `~maggie~`
    +1
    unfortunately, hehe ;) sometimes I really would like to be more assertive...
  • Tudie BN 2011/03/18 18:01:59
    Depends on the help.
    Tudie BN
    +3
    might be illegal !
  • Twitch 2011/03/18 17:18:16
    Nope, I can´t.
    Twitch
    +2
    Its very hard for me to say "no" but ive been sayin it lately bc some people abuse the system
  • Tiffers 2011/03/18 17:16:59
    Undecided
    Tiffers
    +2
    i use to be like it depends. now i find myself being wwwaaayyyyy to nice these days. wtf got into me i have no clue but i always always over extend myself! gonna have to get back on the hell no train soon lol. but i try to help everyone i can!!
  • Shadow's Companion 2011/03/18 16:54:39
    Yes, easily.
    Shadow's Companion
    +1
    Naturally, I will always consider whether I'm able to help someone, whether that person has helped me in the past, etc. I've also gained sufficient wisdom to understand that certain people ask for help not necessarily because they need the help, but because they know you'll say yes. I have no use for such narcissists and users. Here's a very insightful blog:

    http://narcissists-suck.blogs...
  • shadow knight 2011/03/18 16:47:47
  • Mariana Gallegos 2011/03/18 16:40:11
    Depends on the help.
    Mariana Gallegos
    +1
    I've just about had it with people treating me like I'm an answer sheet. So, I'll help with just about anything as long as it doesn't involve some guy I've only talked to one in my life asking for the answer to an assignment.
  • *~Chris~* 2011/03/18 16:31:02
    Depends on the help.
    *~Chris~*
    +2
    Some things are out of my control or means of help, but I help if I can, especially if I really care about the person.
  • ☠Błéêd įt øút☠ 2011/03/18 16:25:19
    Depends on the help.
    ☠Błéêd įt øút☠
    +2
    depends on the help

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