What's the most important thing you should know about someone before you marry them?

Tryniti 2011/03/02 02:37:03

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  • Kathy 2011/03/04 01:01:29
    credit score!!! you know why! I explained it to you!!
  • Sista Nunya 2011/03/03 02:58:45
  • BlackwinterG36C 2011/03/03 02:44:33
    "Do you have bad credit?" lol You should know someone back to front before you marry that person.No secrets!!
  • Fran-Halen 2011/03/02 13:25:07
    Their credit score?....what side of the bed they claim? Actually, you should both be in agreement of wanting/not wanting children.
  • ChildOfOya 2011/03/02 05:55:38
    1. Are they already married? 2. Have/will they ever abused a child? 3. Do they have a criminal record?
  • kanaka 2011/03/02 05:23:12
    1. Whether they have killed anyone.
    2. Whether they have made frequent visits to jails or mental hospitals.
    3. Whether they have a permanent, contagious disease.
    4. Whether their family has ever killed anyone who previously dated your special someone.
    6. Religious beliefs or Ethical beliefs that either one of you is unwilling to budge on.
    7. That person's sexual orientation.
    8. Whether kids will be a yes or no, and if that person would be a good parent (you don't want to put kids through torture just because you "really liked the guy at the time")
    9. Whether or not you can work through arguments well and come out the other side with mutual acceptance and trust. (If you leave a conversation hating one another and embittered, then maybe you should re-think things. or at least try to change the way you interact).
  • tony 2011/03/02 04:56:17
    Whether or not she's a liberal retard! Zzzziiiiinnng!!
  • Surgeon ~The Egalitarianist~ 2011/03/02 04:40:06
    Surgeon ~The Egalitarianist~
  • themadhare ~IJM 2011/03/02 03:42:17
    themadhare ~IJM
    is she nuts and will she sign the prenup
  • andrea 2011/03/02 03:39:19
    make sure they dont have a bad temper, that could realy f*** up ur relationship
  • 2012 rick 2011/03/02 03:16:08
  • Tryniti 2012 rick 2011/03/02 03:21:00
    Oh yes. Never marry until you've lived, loved, and lost with the person you think you can legally bind yourself to for the rest of your life!
  • 2012 rick Tryniti 2011/03/02 03:30:34
  • susiefrown 2011/03/02 03:08:19
    Feelings on children top the list, but I think the most important things to know about your future partner are their values, ethics, and morals.
  • Veritas 2011/03/02 02:53:28
    Their financial philosophy and child rearing ideas don't seem important want you're madly in love, but down the line . . . you'd save a lot of heartache if there was FULL and COMPLETE disclosure!

    We worked it out . . . but very, very trying times. Married a dreaming man, musician. It is all the things that attract you to someone that could do you in down the line! At least we can say that the police have never been called to our home for a domestic disturbance! LOL!
  • ὤTṻnde΄ӂ 2011/03/02 02:52:49
    What they see the future will be like if two people got married, especially how to handle finances, children, religion (if any) You can never be 100% guaranteed of what will bring but the two should have views that support each other. Do not marry because you're madly in love. That doesn't last. You need to be friends with each other first
  • Panloker 2011/03/02 02:49:30
    What Jannbana said, that should be the most important thing of all.
  • Jannbana 2011/03/02 02:43:04 (edited)
    If they are a liar. If they are, you will never know anything important about them.
  • Panloker Jannbana 2011/03/02 02:49:02
    Nailed it

    nailed hit the nail in the head
  • Tudie BN 2011/03/02 02:41:19
    Tudie BN
    Is he Violent ? Does he have a record? Does he work ?
  • KoAm Tudie BN 2011/03/02 06:48:50
    Good list. Does that apply to "she" too?
  • Tudie BN KoAm 2011/03/02 06:58:01
    Tudie BN
    Thats what we want to kow /.
  • Lerro DeHazel 2011/03/02 02:39:27
    Lerro DeHazel
    Her name . . .
  • Tryniti Lerro D... 2011/03/02 02:40:03
    Well that's a damn good start!
  • Lerro D... Tryniti 2011/03/02 02:43:01
    Lerro DeHazel
    Not only that but IF she lies to you about that then it's likely that she will lie to you about other stuff in your future.
  • Twitch 2011/03/02 02:38:43
    Who all there Ex's were and if they were worth it

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