What Turns You Off on a First Date?

None of the above:

The date ends immediately after she asks me how much money I have.

Definitely the Cellphone Dependency ,never went for dinner on a first date :P +women who lick their fingers are sexy!

When guys talk about their ex alot during the first date -there's nothing worse than that. Except maybe people who make noises when they eat.

If there were an option for all, I would put that. IHATE it when people do that!!!!

Burping, tipping poorly and cell phone dependency were my top 3. I can understand an accidental burp, it's happened to me before, but when you do it intentionally or not caring then that's a big no-no...Other than that, the cell phone dependency and tipping poorly are huge turn offs. If he can't put the cell phone down and give you some one-on-one time then he's not that into you.

All of the above

I wouldn't like any one of these to happen on a first date, but to me the top 3 baddies are "Grabbing food without asking" "Saying it and spraying it" and of course "Cell phone Dependency"

I know none of us are perfect but can't we at least try to be gentlemen/ladies?

The other behaviors sound awfully unpleasant; I know i kissed a lot of frogs way back when, but I don't think anyone ever burped,(not on the 1st date!) licked their digits, grabbed more than a fair share of the nachos, or sprayed me. Cellphones were not commonplace before I met my husband, (er, prince!) but a few did have car phones - clunky and unsexy, but did add a bit of the wow factor! Anyway, these oral behaviors speak more to poor parenting than who a person is inside... (And the right woman can work to gently and subtly change that "beastly behavior") Tipping appropriately shows you are smart, that you appreciate others - and that you understand the way the service industry works. It is an excellent litmus test for a 2nd date!

See that seems like it would back fire for example if the waitress is a cute young lady , and I give a big tip the first thing that I can think about is my date getting upset with me for giving " THAT WOMEN" such a nice tip.

That is why i just write it down on bill with out her seeing it .

These are all disgusting and reason enough for me to not go out with him ever again. If he does this already on the first date then what will he do on the second or third? fart or perhaps ask to borrow money? Gross.

Finish chewing!
I don't want to see what is in your mouth.

My mom always said to us kids, "Chew your food 10 times, and more if you need to." she says this to cut off the choking factor. When my dad eats a hamburger, it's gone in less than a minute. So do this to avoid spraying.

This was before cellphone so poor table manner was a big turn off.

All of the above Plus if this ever happened: picking there nose, walking away for a call, not talking at all, awkward conversations, stuffing food in your face, etc.

My advice, date at some place with a discreet rear exit near the ladies room. Iggy his frantic calls later.

Burping is bad? How are you supposed to let them know that you liked the food?

Go throw up and come back 4 more?

Yes burping is bad! It's plain gross!!!!!!!!!

And then vomiting all over everyone while doing a big stinky in her pants leaving a brown mark on the back as her dentures fall out of her mouth and hit the floor.

If you step on her dentures thats an extra 5 points!

I forgot to mention that there's a piece of corn over her left canine and she's masturbating in public.

I always carry a pocket rocket in my purse to rub off a quick one.

Turn the phone off.

Good gawd, when will people learn to put "all" or "none" of the above!?

If you can't manage to part with the damn phone for one date & spend time with me...then the first date will be the last!

I hate cellphone dependency with a passion! Not just on a date either but with anyone I'm hanging out with.

It was a first date with a good looking 22 year old. She belched a couple of times and after the 3rd I was ready to take her home. There wasn't a 2nd date because I figured the pooting couldn't be far behind.

So, how has the quest for the woman with no gas gone for ya?

It wasn't a quest for a woman with no gas. It's all about manners and not sharing all your personal secrets on date #1. I could understand one slipping out but after the 3rd it was a major turnoff. I thought there was more class than that. After the honeymoon is over your certainly more understanding.

such a turnoff (im not lesbian,but its even worse wen women do it. there's just NO class watsoever!

All above would be very annoying or embarrassing on any date. I would calmly tell my date, possibly never date that person again. They have already shown their character. Tipping poorly shows lack of respect, to you as the date, lack of class, and someone too cheap.

cell phone

I don't know of many women who have problems with everything else.

All the above already show the person's bad manners. Speaking and spraying would make me sick. Obviously this person does this often. Don't forget one is usually on their best behaviour on a first date. Grabbing food, no manners, poor upbringing. Burping out loud, disgusting. Tipping poorly, no class, no respect for the waiter or the date. The guy is cheap, dump him. Licking fingers is gross. Even eating ribs use a napkin. Cellphone dependency, very rude, does not care much about you. I think many women would have a problem with all the above.

Hmmmm....I've never seen women, even those that don't like me, do any of that on a date except for the cell phone thing.

I understood that you meant most women would not care if their date did those above.

and being unwilling to first date sex

An icepick in the back...don't make no 'points' with me...

When you pull out your cell friend it's pretty much telling the other person they have other places they want to be. That or saying they're boring.