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What to do when ur boyfriend tells he loves u and wants to be with u but he doesn¨t like ur past?

Timche 2012/08/28 22:17:37
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  • laydeelapis 2012/08/29 05:21:43
    laydeelapis
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    It depends but I'd say if he can't accept all of you, including past decisions and actions, good or bad, it can't really be love, can it? I'd tell him it's okay that he has a hard time accepting it and that if it's something he wants to work past, you'd be willing to try to help him with that but if not, then it's not worth continuing with him. Good luck :)
  • taylordoesntdeserve 2012/08/29 03:00:53
    taylordoesntdeserve
    +2
    Tell him to get over it and read Gone With the Wind.
  • FortunaVeritas 2012/08/29 02:18:07
    FortunaVeritas
    +1
    Well, you can't change your past. So either he wants to be with you or he wants to make you feel bad about the past and not be with you, is what it sounds like, though, admittedly, there's not a whole lot of context to go on, haha.
  • moomoof 2012/08/29 00:52:06
    moomoof
    +1
    Screw him then
    He doesn't like your past he doesn't like you simple as that
  • peaches 2012/08/29 00:47:23 (edited)
    peaches
    +2
    Well if you love him back and he loves you like he said he does, then the past would simply be just that, in the past. And he wouldn't/shouldn't worry about it.
  • Rosalie 2012/08/29 00:35:44
    Rosalie
    +2
    My past was a lot to be desired but it is just that MY PAST and I can never recall asking for any approval from my old man and if he would have said anything he would have been my PAST..............
  • Moonage 2012/08/29 00:35:10 (edited)
    Moonage
    +1
    I don't like my wife's past all that much. So, we made our own past that we both like a lot more.
  • Huki68 2012/08/28 23:35:07 (edited)
    Huki68
    +2
    Just tell him that the past is past you cannot changed your past, but you will never live a life living in fear because him cannot stop thinking in the past, don't let him make you live in the past, you are different now.
  • rand 2012/08/28 23:28:33
    rand
    +2
    Head the other direction. It's DISHONEST to say "I love you" but with conditions. You can hope that he'll grow up some day, but in the meanwhile, look elsewhere for a GENUINE boyfriend.
  • SICARIO 2012/08/28 22:56:46
    SICARIO
    +1
    You dump Him ..the Only thing you can't change is your Past,
    Remember your past made you who you are today..they go hand in hand..can't separate one from the other.. Find a guy who Loves you for who you were, are and will be..
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  • SA 2012/08/28 22:56:42
    SA
    +2
    There is nothing you can do. Your past is just that, your past. It's your choice whether or not you are willing to be with somebody like that.

    If your boyfriend loves you he will accept you, mistakes and all. If he can't get passed your past.....think twice.
  • Woody 2012/08/28 22:51:28
    Woody
    +2
    Your past made you who you are, love or leave it...
  • BUNNIES 2012/08/28 22:23:21
    BUNNIES
    +1
    be like ":D OK YA I'LL JUST DETACH MYSELF FROM IT RIGHT NOW, JUST FOR YOU BBY"
  • Lovatic135 2012/08/28 22:19:37
    Lovatic135
    +4
    If he doesn't like you for who you are tell him to shove off. Move on.
  • Transquesta 2012/08/28 22:18:46
    Transquesta
    +2
    Tell him to get over it or move on.
  • Sister Jean 2012/08/28 22:18:45
    Sister Jean
    +2
    drop him

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