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What one thing about women mystifies you the most?

Woman of many faces~ijm 2012/06/16 23:50:09
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  • sglmom 2012/06/16 23:52:35
    sglmom
    +6
    Why do men complain they can't find any GOOD women ..
    then turn around and look for their dates in trashy bars?

    WHY do guys think that a GOOD Woman .. wants to be used as the guy's REPLACEMENT for his elderly MOMMA?

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  • Heavy 2012/06/17 17:25:32
    Heavy
    Why they always think they do everything for others and everyone treats them like crap.
  • Vision of Verve 2012/06/17 14:10:27
  • cmdrbnd007 2012/06/17 13:05:59
    cmdrbnd007
    Pretty much everything. confused
  • Phil 2012/06/17 10:00:20
    Phil
    Their weird need to change a man.
  • The River Rat 2012/06/17 06:21:12
    The River Rat
    +1
    Who the heck can pick out just one thing. I guess the one that has always bothered me the most is why women always seem to want the jerk. The poll showed that a large majority did.
  • CCRNRT 2012/06/17 06:12:58
    CCRNRT
    +2
    Their uncanny ability to get so turned on and off in the blink of an eye
  • Dark Angel CCRNRT 2012/06/17 06:16:45
    Dark Angel
    +2
    thats cuz you guys tend to say the wrong thing lol. if youre nice and sweet and romantic she'll be all ova you but the moment you say the wrong thing she wants nothing to do with you. for most women it's all in the sweet tlk.
  • CCRNRT Dark Angel 2012/06/17 06:28:25
    CCRNRT
    I'm always nice and sweet... I taste like sugar
  • Dark Angel CCRNRT 2012/06/17 06:29:12
    Dark Angel
    +1
    uh huh i totally believe that lmao XD
  • CCRNRT Dark Angel 2012/06/17 06:31:23
    CCRNRT
    you've seen my post. I'm a gentleman.
  • Dark Angel CCRNRT 2012/06/17 06:40:17
    Dark Angel
    +1
    hmmm true lol
  • CCRNRT Dark Angel 2012/06/17 06:41:36
    CCRNRT
    :)
  • Of Thee I Sing... 2012/06/17 02:25:28
    Of Thee I Sing...
    +2
    That they're NOT as complicated as they claim they are..........LOL
  • wtxwoman Of Thee... 2012/06/17 06:34:37
    wtxwoman
    +1
    We don't make that claim, you guys do.
  • beach bum 2012/06/17 01:52:29
    beach bum
    +1
    they plan ahead
  • rightside 2012/06/17 00:14:09
    rightside
    +2
    How totally selfish they can be and then how self sacrificing they can be for their children.
  • **Bessie** 2012/06/17 00:01:33
    **Bessie**
    +3
    The vanity of some.
  • Woman o... **Bessie** 2012/06/17 00:07:13
    Woman of many faces~ijm
    +2
    Hi Bessie!

    That's a good answer.
  • **Bessie** Woman o... 2012/06/17 00:08:18
    **Bessie**
    +1
    Hi WOMF! Thanks!
  • HarleyCharley 2012/06/16 23:52:42
    HarleyCharley
    +1
    there feelings...
  • XRenX HarleyC... 2012/06/17 02:08:19
    XRenX
    Funny, because I can't fathom a man's lack thereof.
  • sglmom 2012/06/16 23:52:35
    sglmom
    +6
    Why do men complain they can't find any GOOD women ..
    then turn around and look for their dates in trashy bars?

    WHY do guys think that a GOOD Woman .. wants to be used as the guy's REPLACEMENT for his elderly MOMMA?
  • themadh... sglmom 2012/06/16 23:55:29
    themadhare ~IJM
    +5
    It's more involved than that. I've never done either of those things and neither have any of my male friends. Yet the search continues.
  • XRenX themadh... 2012/06/17 02:09:58
    XRenX
    +2
    Wow, sounds like you and your friends are level-headed, b/c many men are notorious for bar-hoe hunting. lol
  • themadh... XRenX 2012/06/17 02:26:13
    themadhare ~IJM
    +2
    Oh yeah.... That kind is always sucking up to us trying to strike up a camaraderie. .
  • XRenX themadh... 2012/06/17 02:59:19
    XRenX
    +2
    Yes and as sick as that is, it is worse knowing that too many women say 'yes' too easily, giving these users what they want and nursing their egos.
  • themadh... XRenX 2012/06/17 03:01:18
    themadhare ~IJM
    +3
    That's a fact!
  • Woman o... sglmom 2012/06/17 00:14:22
    Woman of many faces~ijm
    +3
    I don't think men do either of those things..at least none of the men I ever met.

    My son is single and never complains like that nor does he go looking in bars.
    Sounds like maybe you met a few bad ones or something.

    Why would you say something like that...just curious
  • sglmom Woman o... 2012/06/17 00:31:03
    sglmom
    +3
    I've actually had guys ask me (and I'm single .. they know it)
    why they can't find a good woman (yet, curiously enough .. they spend their time trolling the dive bars for their dates .. and don't even bother asking the single responsible females out .. )
    I've observed this while not only serving in the Military ..
    but also while with friends/family after my Military Retirement too ..
    it is .. DUH GUYS .. you are looking in ALL the wrong places ..


    I've had to deal with way, way too many of single males my age (and older too)
    who have made a lot of wrong choices in their lives ..
    have dealt with several ..
    (while out in the Botanical Gardens, Museums, out hiking the trails)
    who happen to try to 'chat me up' ..
    and .. oh, my .. are they chatty indeed ..
    some have had diarrhea of the mouth ..
    can't stop themselves ..
    they mentioned my vehicle .. notice my camera and lenses .. notice my Art supplies ..
    (and I do go out and sketch too)
    and .. curiously .. state that they are living with momma
    (not too much concerned about that .. I help my elder relatives too)
    but .. then they go on to tell me that it is because they've not worked in years and the reason they are with momma is they can't pay their rent, can't pay their bills ..

    (and sadly enough .. even the ones that I've been set up o...











    I've actually had guys ask me (and I'm single .. they know it)
    why they can't find a good woman (yet, curiously enough .. they spend their time trolling the dive bars for their dates .. and don't even bother asking the single responsible females out .. )
    I've observed this while not only serving in the Military ..
    but also while with friends/family after my Military Retirement too ..
    it is .. DUH GUYS .. you are looking in ALL the wrong places ..


    I've had to deal with way, way too many of single males my age (and older too)
    who have made a lot of wrong choices in their lives ..
    have dealt with several ..
    (while out in the Botanical Gardens, Museums, out hiking the trails)
    who happen to try to 'chat me up' ..
    and .. oh, my .. are they chatty indeed ..
    some have had diarrhea of the mouth ..
    can't stop themselves ..
    they mentioned my vehicle .. notice my camera and lenses .. notice my Art supplies ..
    (and I do go out and sketch too)
    and .. curiously .. state that they are living with momma
    (not too much concerned about that .. I help my elder relatives too)
    but .. then they go on to tell me that it is because they've not worked in years and the reason they are with momma is they can't pay their rent, can't pay their bills ..

    (and sadly enough .. even the ones that I've been set up on Blind dates with .. YIKES .. more of the same .. )

    I am NOT .. repeat .. NOT .. going to date ANYONE who is looking solely for the easy life and REPLACEMENT for their Enabling MOMMAs!
    (NOPE .. I am not your "sugar Momma" .. I am NOT 'desperate' .. I do NOT want your 'warm body' .. I am NOT INTERESTED in supporting you in the lifestyle you decided to be comfortable in living off your momma now for over 6 decades of life .. )

    Want to see how fast a Singles mixer bails?
    I can find and engage in conversation .. at a very quick pace .. many ..
    love to speak on a lot of subjects indeed ..
    (including having walked many a historical site .. love talking about them!)
    YET .. when they get a whiff .. of the fact that I'm RETIRED Military ..
    WHOOSH .. you can hear them swiftly running away ..

    (even my sis-in-laws gave up on trying to set me up with their single male friends .. these guys see me as a 'threat' .. someone to compete with .. I'm not caring what they do .. just at least let the guys be a bit more confident in themselves and see strong women as REAL and Worthy )
    (more)
  • sglmom sglmom 2012/06/17 00:33:18
    sglmom
    +2
    Then there's the WHITE Elephant in the room ..
    MY Cane for the BLIND ..
    (it is usually folded up when I enter a place and get familiar with the layout)
    it still freaks out many when they realize ..
    that I truly AM Blind now ..
  • wtxwoman sglmom 2012/06/17 06:41:36
    wtxwoman
    +1
    Really? I'm sorry for your lose. That is one of my greatest fears, losing my sight. I am very nearsighted, but since getting older, my near vision is getting better.
  • XRenX sglmom 2012/06/17 02:05:53
    XRenX
    +3
    To the first question, I believe they are just looking for women in general wanting to see if she fits into one of these two categories: girlfriend/wifey material or fling material. Basically the mindset is: "If I find a relationship great, if it is just a fling, great either way. OR perhaps while they are looking for the good women, they still wish to satisfy themselves with cheap, willing women in the meantime.
  • sglmom XRenX 2012/06/17 02:32:44
    sglmom
    +2
    could possibly be ..

    (although .. most do not want the good women .. they deliberately set out for the trashy kind)

    What too many of these guys don't realize ..
    is that the good women .. do NOT want the drama .. the diseases .. after the guy has the 'fling' (or 'flings') ..
  • CCRNRT sglmom 2012/06/17 06:14:26
    CCRNRT
    +1
    my momma's dead, so I don't think that
  • wtxwoman sglmom 2012/06/17 06:35:34
    wtxwoman
    +1
    Excellent question! I'd like to know the answer, too.

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