What might your significant other do that would make you resentful?

..........Foremost, in any kind of relationship, it would be a Man, and a Woman, I learned from my brief 3 year marriage that what is spoken at the wedding alter, over time may not be the case, I hold those wedding vows, deep within my heart, I would never hit a girlfriend or a wife, those kind of slime climb out beneath those rocks, they emerge from, I will always be a person that will listen intently to my Soul Mate, and then offer my input, although the end result, may be compromise on each other's part, certainly True Love, evolves from knowing a person as a Special Friend first, it's a new relationship for each person, not just one, certainly, the intimacy needs to be there, but knowing when to be intimate around groups of people, should be maintained in a committed relationship, wandering eyes for other persons, by either the Man or the Woman, will always doom a loving relationship, I learned, in my brief marriage, that it is not just being proficient in bed does not constitute everything else, that makes a lifetime of marriage grow and prosper, Heaven knows, my ex wife proved to be less loving overall, than me, I never cheated on my ex, during Our marriage, I don't believe She cheated on me, but in marriage, after the ceremony and reception is long past, some marriages that was once a roaring fire, can flicker, reduction to warm ashes, and eventually is nothing but cold ashes, very sad for each person, to realize, what was, is no more, so I'm leaving this post here, for the next day or so to help people that apparently Love each other, taking it to deeper levels in a committed relationship, all the things I've mentioned, need to be considered, before mechanically satisfying each other in the bedroom, commitment is a serious facet of sharing, not one person sharing, and the other person taking, because that is not healthy and the relationship will ultimately fail, I welcome sensible input on this post, anyone that just wants to shallowly trash with vulgarity and the like, including answering with graphic garbage, please answer to other posts, not this one........thank you for listening........