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What Makes You Happier, Money or Respect?

SodaHead Living 2012/06/22 18:00:00
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Was it Lil' Kim who rapped the lyrics "Money power respect... It's the key to life"? Turns out, she was only partly right. New research suggests happiness has a lot more to do with respect than it does with money, Medical News Today reports.

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In a series of studies, psychological scientist Cameron Anderson of the Haas School of Business at the University of California, Berkeley, found that:

1) Respect and admiration, but not socioeconomic status, predicted students' social well-being. 2) The relationship between respect/admiration and well-being was partly due to the sense of power and social acceptance that the students felt in their personal relationships. And 3) Changes in respect/admiration corresponded to changes in MBA students' well-being. And respect/admiration predicted well-being more strongly than socioeconomic status.

"I was surprised at how fluid these effects were -- if someone's [social] standing in their local ladder went up or down, so did their happiness, even over the course of 9 months," said Anderson. What makes you happier: money or respect?
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  • jackie 2012/06/22 23:25:40 (edited)
    Money
    jackie
    +16
    Im a loner. People always had bad opinions of me and talked about me.

    some people like it when you are poor and pathetic like them, but when you get some money they all hate.

    thats what stop some people from being successful. because of what other people think.

    let them hate. they can

    kiss my ass

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  • Love_is_Supernatural 2012/06/24 08:10:00
    Money
    Love_is_Supernatural
    +1
    I've learned from some people that having money makes people respect you more...
  • Rodrigo Love_is... 2012/06/24 16:41:59
    Rodrigo
    +1
    Yes, i agree with you.
  • Creep 2012/06/24 07:37:51
    Money
    Creep
    +1
    Money can buy respect so I'll go with that. You can be the most respected person in the world, but if you're dirt poor, I doubt life would be as fulfilling as someone who's filthy rich.
  • Sonny 2012/06/24 06:31:04 (edited)
    Money
    Sonny
    +2
    Money is the root of all evil and the root of all happiness, It buys every damn thing, even friends, attention, better treatment and love. money can make even people who don't like you to like you, because everyone has red eyes. There is no suck thing as true love and friendship. because if you looked very ugly because of lack of care with severely crooked teeth in old rags and live on the street with no shoes on your feet looking like Oscar from sesame street who lives in a trash can everyone would pretend they don't know you anymore.

    old hag
  • thє вlu... Sonny 2012/06/24 19:08:18
  • Red Sonny 2012/06/25 14:52:55
  • TheAvengers#1Fan 2012/06/24 05:15:59
    Money
    TheAvengers#1Fan
    in this economy, money would REALLY make me happier, but respect is always good too.
  • vinone 2012/06/24 05:15:28
    Money
    vinone
    +1
    Money makes me happy, respect just makes me feel normal.
  • Red 2012/06/24 05:07:04
  • thє вlu... Red 2012/06/24 19:09:21
  • Red thє вlu... 2012/06/24 19:24:23
  • Night 2012/06/24 04:16:20
    Money
    Night
    +1
    If I were a leader or an example for someone I would choose respect but as I'm not at the moment and I really need the money I have to choose money.
  • John Boy 2012/06/24 04:14:15
    Money
    John Boy
    +1
    Money to the point of living comfortable !!! I will just be myself and whoever respects me, great ! Whoever does not, who cares ?
  • ☼ Supersonic Jocy 2012/06/24 04:01:09
    Respect
    ☼ Supersonic Jocy
    It's a nice feeling.. :)
  • Red ☼ Super... 2012/06/25 14:53:38 (edited)
  • ☼ Super... Red 2012/06/27 01:20:09
    ☼ Supersonic Jocy
    But if you get a lot of money it can get boring if you have no friends or family. Don't get me wrong, yes, money CAN buy happiness, but not forever. Respect, on the other side, is always a nice feeling. :)
  • Red ☼ Super... 2012/06/27 07:53:53
  • Nekosarethebest 2012/06/24 03:56:55
    Respect
    Nekosarethebest
    Yup.
  • The Doctor's Rose♥ 2012/06/24 03:49:07
    Money
    The Doctor's Rose♥
    +1
    I know it seems like a dumb answer. But I'd rather have money to help people out, than have people respect me.
  • Red The Doc... 2012/06/25 14:55:00
  • Alummina 2012/06/24 03:30:09
    Money
    Alummina
  • nightcrawler2005 2012/06/24 03:15:23
    Money
    nightcrawler2005
    +2
    Sorry I'll take the Money. I have very good self esteem so worrying if others respect me isn't really my interest.
    I treat everyone fair if they have a problem with me or want to play silly games I'm not interested in that BS. Life is too short to worry about those types of people so as I said I'd take the money.
  • Xinea 2012/06/24 02:35:01
    Respect
    Xinea
    The key to life, not happiness. What keeps you more alive, money or respect?
  • Red Xinea 2012/06/25 14:56:07
  • KarenInKenoshaWisconsin 2012/06/24 02:13:45
    Respect
    KarenInKenoshaWisconsin
    Or?
  • JeanLouiseCollins 2012/06/24 01:51:32
    Respect
    JeanLouiseCollins
    That's refreshing !
  • Azrael-In GOD we trust 2012/06/24 01:31:34
    Money
    Azrael-In GOD we trust
    +2
    I can't pay the bills with respect; on the other hand, I'm a loner, so it doesn't matter if I have respect or not-just need the money.
  • Lord Emperor of Dune 2012/06/24 00:44:30
    Money
    Lord Emperor of Dune
    +1
    I have found that the people around me make me sick (speaking in broad strokes). I have worked hard my entire life, and still don't get the respect I deserve. Moreover, why go out of my way to make these people feel good about me? Screw their respect. Give me the cash.

    Now, if you're talking about self-respect, that's as hard to come by as any other kind...
  • sherdon2 2012/06/24 00:33:23
    Respect
    sherdon2
    +1
    Respectful money!!!
  • GaolBlaze 2012/06/24 00:30:16
    Respect
    GaolBlaze
    +1
    Not gonna lie, love money, but respect comes with a lot of things that money cannot buy, things that aren't tangible, and they're usually the best things of all :)
  • tobe 2012/06/23 23:55:40
    Respect
    tobe
    +1
    but if a job offered me respect as my only pay id have to find another job.
  • Anonymousguy 2012/06/23 23:38:40
    Respect
    Anonymousguy
    Being rich is nice, but just because you're rich doesn't mean you're a better person. I'd rather people respect me for who I am than have "friends" who only think I'm cool because I have alot of money.

    But then again, being loaded wouldn't hurt either.
  • Thatdude 2012/06/23 22:54:58
    Money
    Thatdude
    Whether you broke or rich you arent going to get respect anyways. So Ill be more happy with money
  • opinionguy 2012/06/23 22:37:23
    Money
    opinionguy
    You need money to mov on in life
  • Hotcho 2012/06/23 22:12:06
    Money
    Hotcho
    +2
    Actually, I prefer Sex
  • Thatdude Hotcho 2012/06/23 22:55:40
    Thatdude
    I shoulda put that as my answer Lol
  • LoneWul... Hotcho 2012/06/23 23:21:47 (edited)
    LoneWulfStud
    Dang... Good answer.... Don't need money and the hell with respect!!! LOL!!!
  • Amelia 2012/06/23 21:51:35
    Respect
    Amelia
    +1
    Both earned, one will get you internal Happiness forever
  • Kurbdog 2012/06/23 21:38:11
    Money
    Kurbdog
    +1
    Because more money means a better life for my REPTILES!! My pets (and wife) just let me live in their house. happy snake
  • tatilee(: 2012/06/23 21:16:37
    Money
    tatilee(:
    I know this sound so bad, but if the question was "What would i rather have: Money or Respect?" I would definitely say respect. But i'm thinking in the perspective 'What would make me happier: having someone tell me they have respect for me or finding $100.00 dollars on the floor?' I personally choose the latter. But i don't agree with Lil' Kim's statement. Money does not power respect.

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