Left an abusive relationship after he physically hurt me and then told me exactly how he was going to kill me. I was never so scared in my entire life. But, I got away....thank God.
Left an abusive relationship after he physically hurt me and then told me exactly how he was going to kill me. I was never so scared in my entire life. But, I got away....thank God.
I am so glad you did Treasure. No one should ever have to go through that but to have it happen from someone you thought you could trust has to be the very worst. So sorry you had to go through that. After that ordeal I am amazed that you would ever trust a man again. It seems you do and I know it will take a very special person to let you trust again.
Yes, it was very frightening....but this happened a couple years ago now...I have faith that the man God wants me to be with will be someone I can completely trust...even though that trust make take some time.
Well you do have the time to take and if he is worthy of you he will be more than happy to give you all the time you need. If he is smart and caring enough to do that for you he will indeed be a very lucky man.
Well, thank you very much my friend. That means a lot coming from you! I really love to spoil my special man....and always make him feel loved. Will see if that is in God's plan....time will tell. Thanks for your kind words. :)
I don't think of it as brave really, more like pretty damn stupid on my behalf...
Some years ago I was witness to a woman getting her head slammed in the door of a car by the president of a biker club.There was a great deal of blood pouring from her head and face and I just couldn't stand back and watch.....There were many other guys there that stood back and did nothing and most of them were bigger and older than myself.(and probably wiser).....
I stepped up and did my best to stop him from what he was doing and his attentions turned to me and me alone..I've always thought that I was a pretty good fighter and have trained in Martial arts for some years but this guy was much bigger and stronger than me,
...I took quite a beating but eventually he went down and as I turned to walk away somebody hit me from behind with what I was told later was a baseball bat...
...needless to say I ended up face down in the dirt and then 15 or so of his buddies proceeded to kick the crap out of me....
...they did a lot of damage,4 broken ribs,4 broken bones in my right hand and I lost most of my teeth when I was kicked in the face by one of them...there was more bruises and cuts than I could count.
The lady escaped while these guys were concentating on me so I guess overall I did save her....I never ever saw her again.
You were very brave in my eyes.....You were her hero! I am just sorry that they beat you so badly.....all because you cared enough to get involved and help this poor woman. Speaks a lot about your character! Now, you're a hero in my eyes. That was very brave!!!!!! :)
Some of the injuries that I recieved that night are making my life a living hell now and sometimes I wish I'd kept right out of it but there's no way of doing it over so I just have to live with it. I don't think of myself as a hero...just a guy that likes to do the right thing.
I have had a few but the one that the family gave me the atta boy for was when I was around 8 our apartment caught on fire in the middle of the night. Some ember had flown in our open window and went into the couch in the living room and than burst into flames around 1 am. I woke up hearing crackling sounds. I called the fire department, woke everyone up and got them out along with our dog and they got there quick enough to put out the front wall that was burning. There was nothing brave about it, it was just doing what you have to do
I don't really think it was that "brave" in the general perspective of the word, but it took a lot of courage on my part...
I had to open up about being in a relationship with another girl to my parents, friends, family, etc.
Well, I knew that my family and friends were generally accepting. So, it was just an awkward topic to bring up, but it took courage nonetheless. I'd feel bad for complaining when I know that so many more LGBT people have it a lot worse than I do! (:
That was very brave of you and had to be so very hard. I am so sorry you had to do that and that you lost your dad.... I am sure you do miss him everyday. It's so hard to lose the ones we love so deeply.
It seems you do and I know it will take a very special person to let you trust again.
Some years ago I was witness to a woman getting her head slammed in the door of a car by the president of a biker club.There was a great deal of blood pouring from her head and face and I just couldn't stand back and watch.....There were many other guys there that stood back and did nothing and most of them were bigger and older than myself.(and probably wiser).....
I stepped up and did my best to stop him from what he was doing and his attentions turned to me and me alone..I've always thought that I was a pretty good fighter and have trained in Martial arts for some years but this guy was much bigger and stronger than me,
...I took quite a beating but eventually he went down and as I turned to walk away somebody hit me from behind with what I was told later was a baseball bat...
...needless to say I ended up face down in the dirt and then 15 or so of his buddies proceeded to kick the crap out of me....
...they did a lot of damage,4 broken ribs,4 broken bones in my right hand and I lost most of my teeth when I was kicked in the face by one of them...there was more bruises and cuts than I could count.
The lady escaped while these guys were concentating on me so I guess overall I did save her....I never ever saw her again.
I had to open up about being in a relationship with another girl to my parents, friends, family, etc.