Not replying to this post specifically, but yea don't "screw up" ever but since this is a post on "after screwing up" all that has been written could work, depends on what type of girl youre dealing with. I like the never put in ink post, for 1 they'll keep it till you die or never see each other ad use it as leverage.. ie- "remember this...." What works is sincerity and not just words but actually proving that your sorry! Remember the old saying, actions speak louder than words!! Always helps! If you've cheated than give up move on, your a scum bag, (I'm a guy, this goes both ways!) if u cheated u obviously didnt care about the consequences & prob hurt the person more than any sorry/gift or action could repair, also the actions speak louder than words, doenst apply there! Hey its been 6 mos and I still havnt cheated!! Yea that'll go over as well as a fart in church. Anymore help be creative! Be honest! That's about it!! If u don't really care it'll be seen and you'll be right back to square one
I agree with the top opinion. But if you've already blown past that one, anything that is truly heartfelt and contains the words I am sorry will usually work.
Be honest with her. Be sincere. Have good eye contact. Admit you were wrong and tell her that you'll work your hardest at trying not to make whatever mistake you made. I don't know what you did...Don't try to impress her, because that's not what she wants. She's going to want you to prove that it won't happen again.
Being honest and just walking up to them and apologizing and then just walking away. That would be good for me. It would also, surprise me that you just walked away and I'd probably grab your arm to stop you or something. Possibly. Well it also, depends what are you trying to apologize for? I don't ever accept apologies if people have done certain things.
first of all, specify what you're talking about. otherwise she might not know what you're talking about and there will be misunderstanding. then tell her you were wrong, apologize.
Just say it as you mean it, and only if you are truly sorry and not just trying to get out of something. Maybe some roses and chocolate might help too:
By telling her you're sorry for whatever it was that you did. (note: don't SAY "for whatever it was I did" - that's asking for it....substitute that by naming whatever it was you did.)
Just you and her with no friends or family around. Give her a warm, promising hug and tell her how sorry you are and tell her that it will never happen again.
By saying you're sorry, without any distractions. Hugging her, looking her in the eye and saying that you were wrong. That you know what you did was wrong, and you'll do everything in your power to make sure not to hurt her again.
Ha, I have a funny story about this. After me and my friend had a little fight I was afraid we'd never talk again I apologize to an answering machine a few times finally get her on the phone and she said she wasn't sure if she would talk to me and that I really hurt her. Few days later ring, ring, ring, "Hello?" she answers "Hi Zach how are you?!" as if talking to me was the best thing in the world for her. I think she had every intention of forgiving me she just wanted to listen to me grovel and beg forgiveness. lol I'm not clueless when it comes to girls but sometimes I just don't understand what they're thinking. lol
one thing i have learned is that you can only "say" sorry once. what i mean is multiple apologies don't help. just one good sincere apology and owning up to your wrong is all you can do in that aspect. the rest is mostly up to her. oh, and if your musicly inclined, you can use that to your advantage also.
i find it sweet that they just want to admit that they are wrong, most guys I know wouldn't even go that far, let alone try to apologize for being wrong
tell her you were wrong.
if you don't mean it, don't even bother. she knows when you're lying and don't think for a second that you can fool her.
but whatever you do, don't put it in ink
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