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What is more important to you, looks or personality?

Shadow 2011/09/23 03:31:08
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  • bman~AVA~BTTB 2011/09/23 04:09:02
    Personality
    bman~AVA~BTTB
    +6
    I've said this before in the past. The looks are like a resume. They will get you in the door but the personality will keep the job. Now if you get a nice looking significant other with a personality then that is a bonus

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  • irene 2011/10/21 20:45:56
    Personality
    irene
    i think personality is more important than looks
  • Milodic_Mellodi 2011/09/27 23:51:33
  • Shawna 2011/09/27 14:59:54
    Personality
    Shawna
    +2
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say. While there are some commonalities in what people all over the world find attractive, there are also enough differences that most of us can find someone who thinks we look good. Also, liking someone's personality goes a long way to making them appear attractive and vice versa.
  • Shadow Shawna 2011/10/03 02:25:13
    Shadow
    +1
    I agree =)
  • Sabrina 2011/09/27 14:57:40
    Looks
    Sabrina
    +1
    ugh. i meant to put personality. the thing is, if you like their personality, you learn to like their looks, no matter how awful they seem to you at first. i mean, doesn't everyone become at least a little more attractive if they're funny or smart?
  • Dawn 2011/09/27 02:01:59
    Both
    Dawn
    Lets face it, the chances of an unattractive person getting hit on are much lower than that of a physically attractive person. LOOKS are what interest a person first way before their personality. In my opinion, it's what drives one human to go after the other.
  • Tim 2011/09/26 06:16:59
    Personality
    Tim
    As long as the looks are not grotesque.
  • Chase Martin 2011/09/26 01:41:52
    Both
    Chase Martin
    Looks can reflect personality. Like an overweight person, you can kind of understand their personality. They eat when nervous, happy, etc.
  • BattleBunnys 2011/09/25 18:41:32
    Both
    BattleBunnys
    I have a thing for long hair... so in that sense, looks do count, I guess...
  • Jensola 2011/09/25 11:23:56
    Both
    Jensola
    I'll be honest, looks are important too - by that I mean they have to be good looking to ME!! Both are vital.
  • All Hers 2011/09/25 02:20:19
    Personality
    All Hers
    The looks of someone may be what initially attract you, but the personality is what you may love
  • ltlsmky 2011/09/24 20:48:29
    Both
    ltlsmky
    personality is a definite, but looks...you cant look at him skenting your eyes all day, lol. His confidence builds your confidence
  • Jensola ltlsmky 2011/09/25 11:24:36
    Jensola
    LOL, 'skenting'??
  • ltlsmky Jensola 2011/09/25 15:59:37
    ltlsmky
    it a southern thing, LOL!!!
  • Jensola ltlsmky 2011/09/25 16:51:43
    Jensola
    Hehe, I really do learn something new every day on SH! :)
  • Coco Allie 2011/09/24 14:13:24
    Personality
    Coco Allie
    Personality! And I'm not gonna be cheesy, looks do matter, it's always good to think the guy is cute. I just see looks more as a bonus.
  • Jo3y_gO3s_RaWr 2011/09/24 13:17:34
    Personality
    Jo3y_gO3s_RaWr
    i seriously hate it when people just think about the looks :/
  • Craig 2011/09/24 10:44:04
    Undecided
    Craig
    their handwriting, lol
  • GayButNowFree 2011/09/24 09:41:01
    Both
    GayButNowFree
    But let's be honest, if the looks don't get me interested, the personality really won't matter.
  • vampire_lord 2011/09/24 08:33:13
    Both
    vampire_lord
    i find i can't have a relationship based on looks alone, but i do want 2 have a nicelooking girlfriend
  • Bonboyl 2011/09/24 03:45:22
    Personality
    Bonboyl
    Personality is more important to me, but if you have looks along with the personality, that is even better.
  • thebomb 2011/09/24 03:44:30
    Both
    thebomb
    ilike nice and hot
  • joe ramirez 2011/09/24 02:40:38
    Undecided
    joe ramirez
    Where your heart's at!
  • Jack's Pearl 2011/09/24 02:30:23
    Personality
    Jack's Pearl
    Doesn't matter what you look like on the outside, you stink on the inside I go the opposite way.
  • melody_K 2011/09/24 02:21:17
    Personality
    melody_K
    Absolutely, without a doubt personality. And no, I am not some ugly troll! Sarcastic humor and warm sensitivity will win me over any day.
  • asheeey 2011/09/24 01:32:17
    Both
    asheeey
    Id much rather have someone with an amazing personality but i wouldnt want someone who looks like a creeper either! personality creeper creepy guy
  • Aly Hart 2011/09/24 01:28:44
  • kaka702 2011/09/24 01:10:24
    Personality
    kaka702
    personality of course, but you can't lie and say that looks don't matter at all. i mean like the way they Smile, the color of they're eyes, hair etc...
  • Welshtaff 2011/09/24 01:04:59
    Both
    Welshtaff
    Both, well dressed and good manners and well groomed. PS, always clean underwear.
  • Jenna ☮♡ッ 2011/09/24 01:03:50
    Personality
    Jenna ☮♡ッ
    Personality! <3 Call me weird, but I can't like someone unless they have a great personality.
  • sonofason 2011/09/24 00:53:42
    Undecided
    sonofason
    I apologize to everyone for my answer here. I must assume that you are asking what is more important to me now, rather than 30 years ago, when I was a young man. Also, it is not clear to me the conditions in which you are looking for an answer. For example, if I were looking for a model to be on the front cover of my magazine, I might prefer to consider looks more important. Personality traits seem a little superfluous when it comes to images on the front covers of a magazine, but then again, I suppose that depends on the nature and content of the magazine, if you get my points.

    If we are talking about romance, and looking for the girls or guys of our dreams, I must say that when I was young, I usually was not very attracted to people that I did not consider attractive. But if I established a relationship based on looks, I then found that personalities very quickly disqualified many persons from having a lasting relationship with me. So I would say that when I was young, I would have said both, but that looks were first, and backed up by personality. I never really had the opportunity to establish a relationship with a really nice ugly person, although I have met many.

    Today, I don't really care. I'm not looking for the love of my life. I already have one. Now I ...

    I apologize to everyone for my answer here. I must assume that you are asking what is more important to me now, rather than 30 years ago, when I was a young man. Also, it is not clear to me the conditions in which you are looking for an answer. For example, if I were looking for a model to be on the front cover of my magazine, I might prefer to consider looks more important. Personality traits seem a little superfluous when it comes to images on the front covers of a magazine, but then again, I suppose that depends on the nature and content of the magazine, if you get my points.

    If we are talking about romance, and looking for the girls or guys of our dreams, I must say that when I was young, I usually was not very attracted to people that I did not consider attractive. But if I established a relationship based on looks, I then found that personalities very quickly disqualified many persons from having a lasting relationship with me. So I would say that when I was young, I would have said both, but that looks were first, and backed up by personality. I never really had the opportunity to establish a relationship with a really nice ugly person, although I have met many.

    Today, I don't really care. I'm not looking for the love of my life. I already have one. Now I have the best of both worlds. I can look at those who are beautiful, and I can have wonderful conversations with people that have awesome, wonderful personalities.

    But then again, I come here and subject myself to and converse with people that have some of the worst personalities I have ever seen. So, who knows?
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  • Bomb a 2011/09/24 00:00:14
    Undecided
    Bomb a
    +1
    Are we talking TV or radio?
  • lolitalovely 2011/09/23 23:37:11
    Both
    lolitalovely
    The look suggests chemical balance that matches mine and the personality suggests someone I can deal with. I've liked some guys that my friends think are ugly but they had the mind and personality I needed.
  • Riobhca 2011/09/23 23:29:15
    Personality
    Riobhca
    Personality lasts a lifetime. Caring about someone for their looks is so superficial.
  • Annie 2011/09/23 23:27:57
    Personality
    Annie
    To me, the personality decides the looks.
  • Jimbo 2011/09/23 23:04:11
    Personality
    Jimbo
  • luisofsuburbia 2011/09/23 23:00:45
    Personality
    luisofsuburbia
  • King Cenwulf 2011/09/23 22:47:50
    Undecided
    King Cenwulf
    Living.
  • rand 2011/09/23 22:41:19
    Personality
    rand
    I can close my eyes but not my heart. Besides cosmetic surgery is more guaranteed than psychotherapy.
  • malicious mel 2011/09/23 22:17:32
    Personality
    malicious mel
    +1
    one of byf was but ugllyy!!!
    but he ws such a sweet heart

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