What is more important, earning enough money or being in your dream job?
La
2012/05/22 23:18:45
My mother is in this position right now. She is on WorkCover (the Australian version of her employer paying her a certain amount because she was injured while at her job a few years ago). Her dream was to be a midwife. She can no longer perform the clinical tasks involved because she needed back surgery, but she has stayed working in the hospital doing various administrative tasks, still working with pregnant women where she can.
She has spent a long time now being very involved in a program to involve Aboriginal women in midwifery, but the government has half cancelled, half rearranged it and her role is no longer needed. Since she is still on WorkCover, and it's a public hospital, they need to give her a new job in the public sector somewhere. WorkCover operates under the principle that the victim of the injury must be paid the same amount they were getting paid before the injury.
She could either fight to stay in the hospital and work with out-patients, but this is a job where she would earn 2/3rds of what she is earning now. WorkCover would fight to put her in a higher paying job because that is what she is supposed to do under the scheme. This is as close she can get to doing her dream work of working as a midwife. However, the pay cut would mean we can only pay back our mortgage at the minimum rate, would be living paycheck to paycheck, and would put a lot of pressure on dad (who owns his own business) to earn enough money as well.
Or, she could let WorkCover find her different work within the public sector, so she would stay on the same wage and wouldn't have to stress about money so much, we could still afford a few extra things like going out to dinner once a week, and dad would not be pressured to work more when really he wants to work a bit less (he has worked incredibly hard, 6-7 days a week for the past 20 years). If she did this, she would be giving up her dream completely and may end up being put in a job she hates.
What would you do?
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- beach bum 2012/06/11 11:44:03Earning enough money for my family+1earning enough cashreply
- cate 2012/06/08 13:00:15Following my dreamThere are people in Africa that won't ever have a job. Gosh, how could you be so self centered?reply
- ticlo7 2012/05/23 15:56:13Following my dreamIf you mum is in a job she hates, that could cause more problems like stress (worst case scenario; depression). As long as you can actually pay things off, then I would say to follow your dream job. Maybe if your mum's situation gets better (medically) then she can get two jobs prehaps? I'm not sure, but I think it's probably better for her to be happier then face to possibility of working in a job you hate.reply
- BlytheSpirit~bn0 2012/05/23 11:36:37Following my dream+2I think it totally depends on your circumstances. When I was raising my children, I worked jobs I didn't necessarily like because they paid me enough to support my kids. Now that my children are grown I have the luxury of choosing a job more in line with my beliefs even if it doesn't pay as much. Personally, I think your mother should go with her heart, but I don't know what her financial situation is. I hope it turns out for her. She sounds like a wonderful woman.reply
- Chaya2010 2012/05/23 11:11:01Earning enough money for my family+1Its all about the money and the options it gives.reply
- hrailey 2012/05/23 10:38:13Following my dream+1I had to rearrange my situation after a series of disasters, health, wife, then job. It happens that sometimes one must regroup and realize the most important things of life. We must be real with ourselves and understand when situations must change, it doesn't have to be the end, but an opportunity for a beginning.reply
- Sister Jean 2012/05/22 23:32:15Following my dreambothreply
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>.> But what if you can't do both? You have to pick.....reply - the judgebigdogeagle 2012/05/22 23:21:33Earning enough money for my family+1working on both.Its just me.reply















