It means "ew, gross, never" because I find it to be a repulsive act that I don't want to partake in. So having it would mean it was either not voluntary on my part or I must be getting something I seriously want in return for it (which would essentially be like prostituting myself). And I really don't like either option, so yeah.
Basically, sex isn't something I have an interest in, therefore I don't have an interest in having sex either. That and I'm repulsed, I find the whole act to be rather gross.
No, it's not. Pleasure is entirely subjective. Besides, I'm Asexual so I don't experience sexual attraction to begin with. I just so happened to be repulsed by and disinterested in sex as well. Not sad, just different. And again, pleasure is subjective. Pleasure for me is eating cake, for example - but that can't be said for everyone. Some people just don't like cake after all.
That's exactly my point. But it's still not sad, the way I feel about sex I mean, it's just how I am and it doesn't bother me - so what's to be sad about when I'm not even sad about it? That's what I was getting at really.
I'd say just about anything involving 2 people making dermatological contact with genitalia. I can be for fun, to express affection and, I suppose, chilling.
Its fun and healthy, but nothing special, if you tell yourself it is, then it will make it hard for you to get, and mess up your emotions at the same time.
It CAN be any one of those things. It can be just for fun with no commitment attached, which is great when you don't want to be tied down, and it can be serious commitment. It is often infinitely better when you love the person, at least in my experience, but that doesn't mean it's not amazing when there's no feelings attached.
Basically, sex isn't something I have an interest in, therefore I don't have an interest in having sex either. That and I'm repulsed, I find the whole act to be rather gross.