What is a reasonable weekend curfew for a 16 year old girl?

by lucy Posted 2012/07/09 00:45:00

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I say midnight, my parents say 10

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Mikewlf337 2012/07/09 00:57:21

10

+4
It is your parents decision until you are an adult but 10 pm sounds fair.
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Sinister Ken Doll™ 2012/07/10 18:23:52

11

depends on the curfew for minors in your state....

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lucy to Siniste... 2012/07/10 19:52:41

We don't have any here in good ol' blighty.

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Siniste... to lucy 2012/07/10 20:06:05 (edited)

ooh, lucky
if you're under 18 here and are out after 10 pm w/o a parent or guardian, the cops can get you :O

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lucy to Siniste... 2012/07/10 20:13:53

With my parents, I might as well live in the States.

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flyingseaturtle BN 2012/07/09 17:30:41

None of the above

It just depends on if it is a school night or not. 10 if it is a school night and 12 if it is not ;-)

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Haley Martin 2012/07/09 11:41:49

None of the above

Whatever your parents decide

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Luke 2012/07/09 10:42:24

10

maybe 11 on weekends....

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Rohit 2012/07/09 10:05:52

Midnight

Midnight is okay unless you are a rockstar!! :-)

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Gaven Small 2012/07/09 09:12:53

Midnight

i never had one tho. I was allowed to do whatever.

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Scream 2012/07/09 07:37:38

None of the above

+1
11 would be a good general time. But maybe change it depending on where you're going. If you're at a friend's place you could be able to stay later than if you're out in town, or something. Especially if the friend lives close.

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Party of One 2012/07/09 06:45:29

11

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As a parent, I wanted to say 10 before I saw what you posted, though I remember wanting midnight as a 16 yr old, so my compromise is 11 - stretching it past what I think is comfortable but fair to both since we're giving-in equally ;)

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Fariborz-Zak 2012/07/09 06:44:41

None of the above

+1
2100pm in summer and 2000pm in winters

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Donnie 2012/07/09 03:50:49
Party o... to Donnie 2012/07/09 06:47:55

+2
Yeah, that's on my mind constantly :-|

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Party o... to Donnie 2012/07/10 09:37:09

+1
I can see how my comment could look like sarcasm...I was being serious, though :) Abuse and murder of any innocent person is a serious concern. Now I'm thinking I should've suggested 8pm but the author would've killed me, instead :)

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lucy to Party o... 2012/07/10 09:55:15

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Why go outdoors at all? I should stay in my room and not go on the net in case I meet a weirdo.

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Party o... to lucy 2012/07/10 10:04:26 (edited)

lol...well, i just see a lot of young girls get taken advantage of in so many mean and vicious ways...i'm naturally a worrier :) no offense to you, lucy. if i err, it's with your safety in mind more than an extra hour or two out at night...i was your age, i can appreciate the desire you have, really :) no offense, okay? :D

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Donnie to Party o... 2012/07/10 15:22:27
Party o... to Donnie 2012/07/11 06:49:53

I would, too. My children are really young but I'm sure I'll always be concerned for their happiness and safety...I think that's what caring parents do best, lol

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kfallslady 2012/07/09 03:44:30

10

+1
I say 10

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Andy Fletcher 2012/07/09 03:34:25

11

+2
Mine was 10 but I had strange parents and it was a long time ago. I started working 4-12 shortly after so that kind of went out the window, especially with my days off being Tuesday and Wednesday.

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The Masked One 2012/07/09 03:31:06

11

+2
It's not too late and not too early in my opinion. There also is the matter of whether of not homework is done or not.

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LunarRain 2012/07/09 03:26:04

None of the above

+1
Depends on what your doing some times I'm out untill 3.

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jgh57 2012/07/09 03:12:31 (edited)

10

+1
If all homework is done before going out.

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Space Invader 2012/07/09 03:10:37

None of the above

+2
unless you work; 9:00; on the dot!!

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Bob, the reasonable one 2012/07/09 02:59:14

10

+2
In our town, curfew for teenagers is 10:00....there are some exceptions though...work related or with parent...

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Platinum Fangs 2012/07/09 02:44:46

None of the above

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No curfew. She'll have to learn her own schedule. If she want's to stay up all night, fine let her, she's just gonna pay for it waking up late on Sunday and trying to get enough sleep for Monday. Life lessons.

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Biki 2012/07/09 02:42:40

11

+2
I never really had or enforced curfews for my boys. Just always knew where they were. At 16, 11:00 on the weekend is reasonable I'd say. 10:00 is a little early IMHO.

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rand 2012/07/09 02:38:11

10

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Until you're paying your own way, whatever your parents say is what's reasonable. Should they have to remain awake until midnight worrying about you? Demonstrate that you're responsible (and possibly learn karate or some form of self-defense) and they will be willing to "reason" with you and up the ante ...maybe.

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Vitalani 2012/07/09 02:37:56

None of the above

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Id say it depends on the kids maturity level and local laws.

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Lord Emperor Kami Guro Bage... 2012/07/09 02:37:27

None of the above

+1
Check your city's curfew

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ScatterJoy! 2012/07/09 02:24:37

None of the above

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Check your city's legal limits. I think 11 is late enough for a 16 year old, but quite honestly it might be early where you live.

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Vision of Verve 2012/07/09 02:16:44
MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/07/09 02:07:23

11

+2
Whatever your parents think is reasonable :)

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peaches 2012/07/09 01:58:23

11

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At least 11, if not 12. I'm 16 too, and my parents vary the times I have to be home at. The way I see it, it's not a problem if I get home past 11 as long as I text them to tell them that I'll be home soon and where I am. Depends if your responsible and mature enough.

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Rose and Thorns 666 2012/07/09 01:52:40

None of the above

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I didn't know you were supposed to have a curfew at 16.

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Mrkando 2012/07/09 01:47:59

None of the above

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What really counts here is not what we say but what your parents say. They feel it's important so that they know where you are and, once you become a parent, you will indeed see their point.

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Knight Of Blood 2012/07/09 01:44:19

None of the above

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pshh i dont know. im 15 and stay up till 3 am xD

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Party o... to Knight ... 2012/07/09 07:00:47

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I'm guessing the curfew's related to when to be in the house if she's out. :) I used to stay up around the clock as a teen Saturday through Sunday, lol

I haven't seen you on in a long time :D

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Knight ... to Party o... 2012/07/09 07:07:11 (edited)

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my mom doesnt usually care if i call. and as long as im not out with a boy.

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