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What do you do when everyone is trying to break you and your boyfriend up?

Angel Of Death 2013/06/03 00:52:31
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  • MsDianna 2013/06/13 07:30:45
    Undecided
    MsDianna
    why is everyone trying to break you and your boyfriend up?
    what does your best friend say?
    what does your Mama say? what does your Grandma say?
    there has got to be a reason. all of your family and friends love you and they want what's best for you.
  • Angel O... MsDianna 2013/06/18 04:10:32
    Angel Of Death
    shes one of the ones that is trying to break us up
  • Angel Of Death 2013/06/11 02:19:38
    Fight
    Angel Of Death
    the adults are acting like little kids
  • XoSouthernBelleXo 2013/06/08 20:08:43
  • Libijac 2013/06/07 12:53:14
    Undecided
    Libijac
    +1
    need more contex
  • Missy little 2013/06/04 17:55:29
    Undecided
    Missy little
    +1
    I guess I would listen and think if my bf is truly worth some friendship. If someone only tries to help me, I would take their opinion into consideration but if I know that they are only trying to harm us.....weeeell I guess someone will be missing a tooth or two :D
  • Summer The Husky 2013/06/04 06:23:49
    Fight
    Summer The Husky
    i would be pissed. but i never had a boyfriend
  • Professor Wizard 2013/06/03 20:51:19
    Break Up
    Professor Wizard
    +1
    I am old.. and I have learned in life :: that if EVERYONE seems to see something I am not seeing with my chosen mate, maybe I am blinded, and should pay more attention to what they are saying.

    I would break it off.
  • john 2013/06/03 19:39:28
    Undecided
    john
    +1
    Try to work out why no one likes him and then make your own mind
  • Zella 2013/06/03 17:37:48
    Undecided
    Zella
    Consider what the people are saying. You are the only one that truly knows what's going on in the relationship so if what they are saying is off then ignore it. But if they get to the point where they are causing dram to break you two up then you need them to be out of your life. If you are happy and you aren't being abused or used in anyway then that's all that matters.
  • Lynn 2013/06/03 16:53:11
    Fight
    Lynn
    Tell them to go away! It's our relationship not there's, if we're happy then leave us be, well do what we want to
  • Peewee ~PWCM~JLA 2013/06/03 15:52:46
    Undecided
    Peewee ~PWCM~JLA
    +2
    Your friends care about you...stand back and take a look at why.
  • SteveMarine- JLA 2013/06/03 15:21:16
    Undecided
    SteveMarine- JLA
    +2
    Well i dont have boyfriends. But in other situations with women lol I have had their whole family tryin to break us up. Calling me names sayin I am a bum lol when every thing she had was because I bought it cars a house clothes etc some times people just cant stand people being together and being tryin to be happy. In the end me and her fought like every day all day and ended up ending our relationship after 5 years because of other people makin our lives miserable. But in the end I am better off with out her anyways.
  • Th8nos 2013/06/03 13:18:35
    Undecided
    Th8nos
    +4
    Question it....maybe there is a reason why, you're friends / family (or whoever is doing it) may be trying to do you a favor
    Or on another hand they all could just be jealous and or petty...
    as I said, you need to question it and find out the reason
  • DDevlin780 2013/06/03 13:10:52
    Undecided
    DDevlin780
    +2
    Think about why your friends do not like him. Most friends have your best interests at heart.

    Do you you feel good after spending time with him? Does he make you laugh? That is a very important element of a long term relationship.

    I have been married 38 years.

    Good luck.

    Good luck
  • BIG BAD JOHN R. 2013/06/03 12:56:20
    Undecided
    BIG BAD JOHN R.
    +1
    Not going to happen because I don't have a boyfriend!
  • Maureen C. 2013/06/03 11:17:44
    Undecided
    Maureen C.
    +2
    I am not an expert for sure, but I have learned that 90% of the time, when true friends want you to break up, it is for good reason...reason they're not telling you for fear you may end their friendship. How true it's been in me and my husband's case, with our ex's, I mean. :)
  • Sara 2013/06/03 10:11:50
    Undecided
    Sara
    +3
    need more context...
  • Lillsista 2013/06/03 08:14:10
    Undecided
    Lillsista
    +3
    Think about it. Is it a healthy relationship? Are they looking out for your behalf? Some relationships are not meant to be. Especially if it has violence, fighting..or someone is going down the wrong road.
  • MadMax 2013/06/03 07:09:06
    Undecided
    MadMax
    Cry about it on the internet.
  • Miss Anthrope 2013/06/03 06:22:02
    Undecided
    Miss Anthrope
    +3
    It depends on the situation. If they are trying to break you up because they are jealous and have nothing better to do with their time then ignore them and spend time with different people. If they are trying to break you up because the relationship is destructive and they care about you try to think clearly about whether they have a point before you decide what to do
  • ♥♥SammiBoo♥♥ 2013/06/03 04:49:57
    Undecided
    ♥♥SammiBoo♥♥
    STAY TOGETHER. if you love each other
  • Sinister Ken Doll™ 2013/06/03 04:39:08
    Undecided
    Sinister Ken Doll™
    +1
    go through extensive lengths to alter my appearance to resemble kim kardashian's, make a sex tape with aforementioned boyfriend, sell it for bajillions of dollars, then laugh at my friends while I drive by in my mazaratti and fan myself with a fist full of benjamins.
  • Faye 2013/06/03 04:38:56
    Undecided
    Faye
    +2
    You need to take a break from all who are involved and then follow your heart.
  • METALheadMom 2013/06/03 04:36:18
    Undecided
    METALheadMom
    +2
    I would have to find out why everyone hates the guy. Emotions cloud reality, obviously being in an emotional state, your judgement is impaired. When EVERYONE is telling you there is a snake about to bite you, it's wise to listen.
  • Truth Matters 2013/06/03 03:45:10
    Undecided
    Truth Matters
    +5
    Pay attention to the advise of wiser ones and consider what they are saying.
  • Amber 2013/06/03 03:36:06
    Undecided
    Amber
    +5
    If you care about him, ignore it. People tried to do that with me and my boyfriend because they thought he's not cute enough for me. It actually used to tick me off a little, especially considering it normally came from adult family members who I thought should know better. I normally let it slide, but if they irked me enough, I'd point out how well their relationships with attractive men have gone (most of them were single or divorced and have constant relationship problems). It's been four years and we're still together. People got over themselves.

    However, if they have valid points, listen to their advice. For example, if he has a criminal record or is a dead beat, you may want to consider if it's really smart for you to be with him.
  • Angel O... Amber 2013/06/03 03:37:36
    Angel Of Death
    +1
    thank u for saying that
  • chris 2013/06/03 03:28:49
    Undecided
    chris
    +2
    ignore it and keep on loving each other as if nothing was happening.
  • Bratz chris 2013/06/03 14:32:05
    Bratz
    +1
    agreed
  • Crime Time 2013/06/03 03:27:47
  • ★misfit★ 2013/06/03 03:24:49
    Undecided
    ★misfit★
    +3
    Why are they trying to break you guys up? Are they concerned about something, or are they just being douchbags? If they're genuinely concerned, listen to them and consider what they're saying. They might be seeing something you can't see right now. If not, then you can tell them...
    talk to the hand
  • laydeelapis 2013/06/03 02:32:02
    Fight
    laydeelapis
    +1
    "This is between A and B so C yourself out of here" ;)
  • ilikechickensandcows :3 2013/06/03 02:26:26
    Undecided
    ilikechickensandcows :3
    +1
    It reminds me of a song....Nobody wanna see us together but it don't matter no, cuz I got you. Yes we gone' fight. If we gone' fight, fight for our right to love yea and smurf smurf smurrrrrr lol xD I don't even think that's the correct lyrics....
    I dunno I never dated so I can't say.... XD points yay :)
  • Haole 2013/06/03 02:15:41
    Undecided
    Haole
    +1
    I would go with a shooting spree
  • 666_Maggots 2013/06/03 02:08:31
    Undecided
    666_Maggots
    +2
    Nothing. I dare them. Because I don't give a hoot. It's not like it'll actually work. One of the many things my boyfriend and I have in common, we are both extremely Apathetic.
  • PandahSixx 2013/06/03 01:59:03
  • Gracie - Proud Conservative 2013/06/03 01:53:44
    Undecided
    Gracie - Proud Conservative
    +3
    I'd take a serious look at their motives. Sometimes people close to you can see what you refuse to.
  • Leasheryn/Lady Willpower 2013/06/03 01:46:24
    Fight
    Leasheryn/Lady Willpower
    +1
    It happened to me. I fought for all it was worth but lost in the end. :-((
  • Deborah 2013/06/03 01:36:20
    Undecided
    Deborah
    +3
    Wonder why everyone knows you and your boyfriends personal business????

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