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What do you do if you love someone but you are too afraid to tell them?

Sheldyn 2013/03/25 04:36:25
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  • fallen angel 2013/05/02 15:17:31
    Tell them
    fallen angel
  • Minx_BOY_666 2013/05/02 14:42:37
    Tell them
    Minx_BOY_666
    if im in love i let them know by kissing them. n ot like one you give a lover diring sex, one oyu do when your in the rain with you beloved angel.
  • Swamp Wizard 2013/04/20 14:05:20
    Tell them
    Swamp Wizard
    +1
    Grow a pair
  • Sheldyn Swamp W... 2013/05/02 11:10:45
  • Swamp W... Sheldyn 2013/05/02 15:13:06
    Swamp Wizard
    Then he wasn't worth your time to begin with, and if you didn't grow a pair you would have never found out.
  • ButterbeerMe 2013/03/27 05:58:56
    Tell them
    ButterbeerMe
    +2
    You could do what I did.

    Not tell them when you should, wait three years, and THEN tell them. And then realize you should have told them a long time ago when they felt the same way but now you've missed your chance.

    But that sounds terrible doesn't it? Might as well tell them now. Regardless of what they say, knowing is a thousand times better and easier on the heart than never knowing, and wondering, and always asking those 'what if?' questions, trust me.
  • Sheldyn Butterb... 2013/05/02 11:10:10
  • Butterb... Sheldyn 2013/05/10 05:34:39
    ButterbeerMe
    Then it probably wasn't meant to work out in the end anyway. At least you found out early so you can move on quicker. I wish I'd done that instead of wasting 5.5 years of my life.
  • The New Old School 2013/03/26 20:28:38
    Tell them
    The New Old School
    +1
    Either tell them or forget about it and move on. They're not going to read your mind.
  • Sheldyn The New... 2013/05/02 11:13:56
    Sheldyn
    I told him and he used me
  • Jen 2013/03/26 17:57:58
    Tell them
    Jen
    +1
    get some guts
  • Giannna 2013/03/26 00:51:04
    Undecided
    Giannna
    +1
    maybe show them and they will figure it out.
  • vio-sonne 2013/03/26 00:35:01
    Undecided
    vio-sonne
    +1
    Only 2 options,... take a chance and tell them and possibly risk rejection, or suffer in silence. If you don't think it will hurt too much if they aren't as into the idea then definately share your feelings.
  • Sheldyn vio-sonne 2013/05/02 11:11:37
  • vio-sonne Sheldyn 2013/05/03 10:45:39
    vio-sonne
    Sorry to hear that. It's always a risk. But you bravely tried. It won't always have a bad result. Sooner or later better people come along.
  • emily 2013/03/26 00:14:08
    Tell them
    emily
    +1
    tell them, for sure!!
  • Rumble-bee 2013/03/25 21:55:05
    Undecided
    Rumble-bee
    +1
    depends on the situation. if they have a girlfriend or boyfriend then by all means DON'T say or do anything.. but if not then yea tell them
  • Crym 2013/03/25 21:46:26
    Dont Tell them
    Crym
    +1
    Obviously if you're literally too afraid to tell them, you don't tell them. =/
  • Tattoo Nana 2013/03/25 21:35:28
    Tell them
    Tattoo Nana
    +1
    It may be very hard, but try to be brave and talk to the other person. You may be very pleasantly surprised that they love you back!!
  • Sheldyn Tattoo ... 2013/05/02 11:12:34
  • alex 2013/03/25 21:26:44 (edited)
    Tell them
    alex
    +2
    You grow some balls and tell them. I know its scary, believe me I know, I had crushes on a few select people for years but said nothing. I truely regret that now. And if I had not grown balls to ask my current boyfriend out three years ago, I would have never known what a wonderful person he is. In the end, the worst they can do is reject you, and never knowing what would have happened if you had just asked is far worse than rejection. Take it slow though, most people don't react well to strong feelings just put out in the open when they least expect it, drop hints that you're into them first then ask them out on a date if they don't catch on.
  • Makel 2013/03/25 21:08:51
    Tell them
    Makel
    +2
    Just tell them and get it over with---He may feel the same--or at least you will know how he feels.
  • Airwool 2013/03/25 21:08:21
    Tell them
    Airwool
    +1
    be open and honest in everything
  • Tashia florez 2013/03/25 21:03:14
    Undecided
    Tashia florez
    +1
    i would tell my cuzion to tell him that i like him and ya
  • Lady 2013/03/25 20:52:20
    Tell them
    Lady
    +2
    If you're sure,then do it,you might regret it if you don't
  • Harley Squiggles the God \(... 2013/03/25 20:34:01
    Undecided
    Harley Squiggles the God \(#o#)/
    +1
    Good question...
  • Grind2Shine313 2013/03/25 20:20:06
    Tell them
    Grind2Shine313
    +2
    jus do it
  • Zepland 2013/03/25 20:18:47
    Tell them
    Zepland
    +2
    Don't be afraid of people you love. Love knows no fear.
  • BaylorT 2013/03/25 20:14:27
    Undecided
    BaylorT
    +2
    I think you should first send little hints like smiles, light touches on him. If he replies bakc with smiles and starts to talk to you more and more, He most probably likes you. I think then it will be the right time to tell him then.
  • Fluttershy 2013/03/25 20:09:13
    Tell them
    Fluttershy
    +1
    i had the same problem with my boyfriend before we got together. i was too shy to say anything. until i backed him into a corner and he confessed first lol
  • questionsparks 2013/03/25 20:07:27
    Dont Tell them
    questionsparks
    +1
    I ince told someone that I loved them... and they said they loved me. It was awful.
  • carl 2013/03/25 20:04:49
    Tell them
    carl
    +1
    Definitely tell them or you will have regrets
  • Car1u5~PWCM~JLA 2013/03/25 19:57:26
    Dont Tell them
    Car1u5~PWCM~JLA
    +1
    It sucks I hate being shy. or not wanting to get shot down.
  • AngryGabby 2013/03/25 19:54:28
    Tell them
    AngryGabby
    +1
    I told the person I loved the truth, and, as it turned out, he felt the same way. :)
  • gkirmani 2013/03/25 19:52:06
    Dont Tell them
    gkirmani
    +1
    keep it within............let the other KNOW...........
  • Tandi Carter 2013/03/25 19:25:40
    Tell them
    Tandi Carter
    +1
    I told Them..but i pit my feelings in letter form because I'm shy
  • Crime Time 2013/03/25 18:08:10
  • Bob Anderson 2013/03/25 15:24:52 (edited)
  • Professor Wizard 2013/03/25 14:28:42
    Tell them
    Professor Wizard
    +1
    You tell them.

    OR.. you accept that you don't have the guts to do it.. and you get on about life.
  • Caedus01 Sith Lord of the P... 2013/03/25 14:18:08
    Undecided
    Caedus01 Sith Lord of the PHAET
    +2
    Spend your life wondering..... "what if?"

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