What do you do if the guy/girl your friend likes tells you that he/she's attracted to you?

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What do you do if the guy/girl your friend likes tells you that he/she's attracted to you?

by ~Dark Angel~ Posted October 30, 2009 02:13:55

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+2 raves Maine Guy October 30, 2009 06:27:36 (edited)

Answered: None of the above
1. That's never happened to me.
2. I don't have friends.
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Krazy Archy Gurl October 30, 2009 21:18:43

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its happened many times...and trust me your friends are more important...i learned that the hard way
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Dorkola -Insane && Lovely- October 30, 2009 19:33:48

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Blush wildly and tell him that he should go out with my best friend
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captkirk999 October 30, 2009 19:17:34

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I would try to get that person interested in my friend. If she is still interested in me, then I would tell her that I don't want to hurt my friend and kindly say I am not interested
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☮PEACE_LOVE_WELKIE☮ October 30, 2009 18:23:48

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i would go and talk to the friend if u like that person to and if it is ok with yr friend then go for it but make sure they are not like no it dnt bother me when it really does just talk it out and if u dnt like that person tell them and try to c if u can push them toward your friend. at least that is what i would do.
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Maine Guy October 30, 2009 06:27:36 (edited)

Answered: None of the above
1. That's never happened to me.
2. I don't have friends.
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espania October 30, 2009 05:09:22

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ouch tricky Q!
and an interesting conundrum too!
despite my not knowing many people and not getting out much in general, i have still managed to run into this problem, yeah i know odd! i tell you what, fate really has it in for me!
unfortunately i can really only say from the point of view of the unlucky friend on the outside of the triangle! since this tends to be where i am! it can hurt but knowing that it was not her fault is helpful and it is possible to get over it!
now if i put my very vivid but very inexperianced imagination to work and try to see this from the point of view of the guy/girl who's making the move then things obviously change! he/she cares enough to make the move, does the person in question know of your friends feelings? also what are your feelings towards this person?
and how much of a friend is the friend in question?
if i were in this kind of situation i would sit down and talk with both, first separately then all together, that is of course if you value this persons attentions enough to actually want said person, so yeah, sit and talk is what i would do!
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melissa October 30, 2009 03:33:48

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Things would not be the same any more because you just tell your guy/girl friend that you are attrected to him/her. Personally as a friend point of view if anything is going on in that friend life him/her would not confine in you any more because you just told that friend you are attracted to him/her.
~Dark A... to melissa October 30, 2009 03:37:21

I think you misunderstood the question. This guy that my friend likes told me that he's atractted to me.
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melissa to ~Dark A... October 30, 2009 03:46:46

Sorry about that! If he is attrected to you well then he should make his move. One mintue you can be friends and the next you can be soul mates you never know.
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Maine Guy to ~Dark A... October 30, 2009 06:35:12 (edited)

"This guy that my friend likes told me that he's atractted to me".
Is the attraction mutual?
If so then you need to ask yourself: How much of a friend am I?
The question you should also be asking yourself is: if this person would go behind my friends back would he go behind my back too? He sounds like a player to me.
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Kim October 30, 2009 02:52:30

Answered: None of the above
I was the one telling my guy friend that I liked him... so idk what I'd do..
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Baine October 30, 2009 02:41:04

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Depending on how much your freind likes that person if its just a crush your good go in for the kill. If your freind is realy into that person and your not so much into them try to hook your freind up. But if its an obsesion find a new freind then go in for the kill.
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Annie October 30, 2009 02:37:07

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If I'm attracted to them too: I would talk to my friend first and tell them how I feel.

If not: I would be blunt and tell them I don't feel the same.
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~Chelsea~ October 30, 2009 02:31:27

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You should tell them that your friend likes them and that you don't want to hurt your friend. Ask yourself whats more important your friend or having a fling with this person that could possibly go nowhere and ruin your friendship forever?
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Annie to ~Chelsea~ October 30, 2009 02:37:57

Thats a bad idea, you shouldn't confess for some one else...
~Dark A... to Annie October 30, 2009 02:39:04

No, he already knows she likes him
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Annie to ~Dark A... October 30, 2009 02:40:14

So? It is still bad to confess for some one else?
~Chelsea~ to Annie October 30, 2009 02:42:35

In a normal circumstance, no you shouldn't. But in this case it would be better than hurting your friend.
Annie to ~Chelsea~ October 30, 2009 02:44:56

how would you know? Maybe it would hurt her if you told.
~Chelsea~ to Annie October 30, 2009 02:48:09

It would hurt her more if you stabbed her in the back and went out with the guy that you knew she liked.
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Annie to ~Chelsea~ October 30, 2009 02:51:53

well what if you liked him too then if she went out with him it would be like her stabbing you in the back, you talk to your friend and tell her he likes you and you like him and ask if it would be okay.
~Dark A... to Annie October 30, 2009 02:52:47

But she is obsessed with him! She calls and texts him all the time
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Annie to ~Dark A... October 30, 2009 02:54:01

wow no wonder he doesn't like her...
~Dark A... to Annie October 30, 2009 03:01:11

I know. But I just met him on Sunday. I hung out with him yesterday and thats when he told me he likes me.
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Annie to ~Dark A... October 30, 2009 03:03:35

wow already? humm
~Dark A... to Annie October 30, 2009 03:18:00

I know. I've only been nice to him. And I joke with him and we talk about basically everything. We found out he knows everyone in my family. He is friends with my siblings
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—»♫♥☮яєвєccα™☮♥♫«— October 30, 2009 02:24:47

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Because I have no idea.
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EKSimilon October 30, 2009 02:22:59

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I'm taken, so not a lot. lol
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Just another nobody. October 30, 2009 02:19:02

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Are you attracted to the person? If yes then go for it. If no then whats the big deal?
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chaoskitty123 October 30, 2009 02:18:29

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Tell them you have herpes ;P

That might cause them to lose interest O_O
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PriyaMJ October 30, 2009 02:17:51

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Well I'd say, I am attracted to your friend and not you, so better get lost!
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Twisted Jesse October 30, 2009 02:17:14

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You don't do anything and just ignore the person for life