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What do these things mean for you on SH?

Jack's Pearl 2011/03/24 14:47:24
Related Topics: Religion, Race, Time, Listen
`Blocking
`Politics
`Religion
`Sexual orientation
`Bullying
`Blanket statements



To me this equals a frenzied rat race to spew hate and cruelty to others. This is mostly done by extremists on this site who only see in black and white. They are very hurt and angry people. I'm sure they have intelligent things to say that we'd be happy to listen to them, but they don't often do that. Too busy throwing punches at what they perceive to be the opposition. Participating in this type of discussion only wastes time and kills valuable brain cells.

Luckily, most of us realize that there is a lot of gray area in life. Things aren't just one way and we can discuss how to handle these issues together in a none combative way. Name calling and clustering groups of people as one is NEVER correct. It is false and pointless. It does not prove any sort of argument whatsoever. Sticking to the facts of the situation does. Don't get slamming others confused as fact. You would be wrong.

Finally, the truth is none of us like to be pigeon holed into a mold that does not fit. And none of us like to be bashed for our thoughts. Most of us are completely respectful in expressing our beliefs and are still bashed. On this site, that is really nuts, because the site is all about opinions. I do believe in the blocking feature to protect from stalking type abusers, but those should be turned in and SH will take care of it. I don't believe in using blocking to hush entire groups of people simply because they express and opinion I do not like. That is abuse of the feature.

To conclude, I hope we can start here and in other posts, with intelligent conversation. I hope we can bridge gaps between groups and find come common ground. And if you can't, leave it be. Just walk away, Why make a SH drama out of it? You are most important. Don't let yourself get risen to that level of anger. Do better for yourself.

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  • **Bessie** 2011/03/24 15:09:44
    **Bessie**
    +14
    `Blocking - don't do it!

    `Politics - it's IMPORTANT to be discussed...although sometimes I just observe and don't offer my opinion.

    `Religion - Don't preach to me, and if you are true to your religion, don't judge others!

    `Sexual orientation - Everyone should be happy.

    `Bullying - Be nice!!

    `Blanket statements - sometimes necessary, if your opinion does not change on a certain subject.

    I have rarely been angered on here...if ever!

    I have fun here...I like that!

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  • jellycakes999- BN-8 2011/04/02 00:57:10
    jellycakes999- BN-8
    +3
    `Blocking- For some people
    `Politics- Boring
    `Religion- Not me
    `Sexual orientation- We R Who We R
    `Bullying- they aren't like that in real life and they think they are cool
    `Blanket statements- What?
  • BlondieBrownEyes 2011/03/30 21:27:39
  • wildcat Blondie... 2011/03/31 15:02:49
    wildcat
    +4
    good answer, I agree totally answer totally fonz
  • Blondie... wildcat 2011/03/31 15:08:13
  • Jack's ... Blondie... 2011/06/12 02:39:06
    Jack's Pearl
    I miss you Blondie!
  • Charlie 2011/03/30 18:21:29
    Charlie
    +3
    Since the majority of the topics you listed seem to be 80% of what SH is about maybe the question you are be asking is what is in it for me to be on this site? I know I have. A trillion mundane questions listed in order to gain meaninless points, people you don't want to discuss but insult and run and ask a questions then block you because you gave a civil logical answer. It's getting worse by the day. IFrankly, it's not gonna take much more abuse for me to leave.
  • Jack's ... Charlie 2011/03/30 18:44:42
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    If anyone hits you below the best turn it in to SH. They will take care of it.
  • Razzy Ratchets 2011/03/30 16:38:02
    Razzy Ratchets
    +5
    I think the majority of people who post the aforementioned just want to whip people up into a piranha type frenzy. Few and far between are actually interested in an understanding of other people's thoughts and opinions. It is just a forum for standing on their soapbox, pimping out some bizarre agenda.
  • future blk 2011/03/30 16:37:36
    future blk
    +3
    rules that if i don't like i travel off or around the computer. they mean nothing, unless i want them to. rules travel opinions and views
  • LesWaggoner BN 1 2011/03/25 05:16:10
    LesWaggoner BN 1
    +5
    Political questions are ripe for meaningful discussion and I have learned a lot from them. As for the rest...they are primarily antagonistic.

    Just don't get your hopes up that the bullying is going to stop. Stupidity does not recognize stupidity.
  • Jack's ... LesWagg... 2011/03/25 11:54:38
    Jack's Pearl
    I know it won't stop, but it sure feels good to get out those feelings. And it may change some. If we ALL just didn't put up with it whatsoever. Didn't even acknowledge it, I'm sure many would stop.
  • LesWagg... Jack's ... 2011/03/25 11:58:36
    LesWaggoner BN 1
    +1
    I don't acknowledge it any more. I just ignore it.
  • Jack's ... LesWagg... 2011/03/25 12:02:14
    Jack's Pearl
    I just wish everyone would. Many get swept up in it and look jus as bad as any bully. LOL
  • EWH53~POTL~PWCM~JLA 2011/03/24 23:14:57
    EWH53~POTL~PWCM~JLA
    +4
    Well ok then. After that quite nice little speech and getting straight to the point and calling certain individuals out, you have my vote in 2012 for President of the United States. Well Said!
  • Jack's ... EWH53~P... 2011/03/24 23:32:24
    Jack's Pearl
    +2
    Thank you, but I'm not insane enough to run and I certainly don't have the money. LOL Sad huh. You need tons of money to run for public office. Many good people could never run.
  • EWH53~P... Jack's ... 2011/03/24 23:40:06
    EWH53~POTL~PWCM~JLA
    +1
    True. But YOU don't have to have the money. You just need to know who has the money and convince them to give YOU their money and then go and help the free world to become a better place. It's just that simple.
  • Jack's ... EWH53~P... 2011/03/25 11:53:28
    Jack's Pearl
    Ok, sounds easy enough. LOL :) Thanks a bunch.
  • coffeeaddict10 2011/03/24 22:11:23
    coffeeaddict10
    +3
    I wouldn't block anyone unless they were making personal attacks at me that were way over the top. Bully is vacuous and blanket statements....well sometimes I make them for entertainment sakes. As far as the rest of it goes, everyone has a point of view most the time it's based in life experience rather than a programming, so I will listen with respect and expect the same in return.
  • kitkat42 2011/03/24 22:05:31
    kitkat42
    +3
    Blocking - I don't do it. (my one is an old deactivated person I can't get rid of)
    Politics - Some questions I can't resist. I don't argue with anyone, wasted time.
    Religion - I have mine, you have yours, no problem.
    Sexual Orientation - None of my business, no judgement.
    Bullying - Ignorant and cowardly, especially done on the internet anonymously.
    Blanket Statements - Too much like labeling... I don't like it, I try not to do it.
  • merlinskiss 2011/03/24 20:36:28 (edited)
    merlinskiss
    +3
    `Blocking - I don't do it except maybe for name calling trolls.

    `Politics - There are to many people who really don't have a clue about the people they elect and who owns their votes in congress.

    `Religion - Pro or con, if you can't accept both, your are a wacko!

    Sexual orientation - To each his own.

    `Bullying - It's not necessary and you might just get pimp slapped or worse...

    `Blanket statements - Rote has no place in an open mind.

    I enjoy a challenge but, I do not suffer fools well...
  • Jack's ... merlins... 2011/03/24 20:45:11
    Jack's Pearl
    +2
    I'm done with these political bullies who have no facts at all. Just spew hate in the name of their party. I'm sick of that crap.
  • merlins... Jack's ... 2011/03/24 20:51:28
    merlinskiss
    +1
    Do it my way or else?
  • Jack's ... merlins... 2011/03/24 20:52:06
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    I guess that's what they think.
  • Bronar 2011/03/24 20:20:30
    Bronar
    +2
    When I get the same question (this one) shared with me six times in a day I start to think maybe I should be defriending people.
  • Jack's ... Bronar 2011/03/24 20:45:58
    Jack's Pearl
    Oops! Sorry. It has been shared 4 times. You can see in the tool bar to the left. If you must delete friends, I'm sorry. :)
  • Bronar Jack's ... 2011/03/24 20:50:29
    Bronar
    +1
    Didn't mean to sound so angry you had to apologize, I assure you. But since you did 100% accepted!
  • Jack's ... Bronar 2011/03/24 20:52:33
    Jack's Pearl
    What do you think of the topic above?
  • Bronar Jack's ... 2011/03/24 20:58:00
    Bronar
    +2
    I never let extreemists bother me (unless they are breaking the law). I know they have the loudest voices, but not the most votes. A site like this lends to extreemism as do MSNBC and FOX. I never block and have never been blocked even though I have gotten into it pretty heavy with some users. All it takes is a little civility. If they continue to insult or pull the race card or call me a Nazi I just stop wasing my time debating as I know I won't learn anything from them. I am here to learn, inform be informed and hopefully sway a few when I am occasionally correct!
  • Jack's ... Bronar 2011/03/24 21:02:20
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    You sure got that right. Nothing can be learned from hate and hitting below the belt. We've been around as human beings long enough, you would think more people would get it.
  • Bronar Jack's ... 2011/03/24 21:07:40
    Bronar
    +1
    Cheers!
  • Queen Tamara/Tamar Mepe 2011/03/24 19:53:39
    Queen Tamara/Tamar Mepe
    +2
    Blocking- never done it. if it happens it is probably for a good reason.

    Politics-I try to stay out of them if I stumble and comment I usually feel foolish because people get MEAN! Oh well this is a site for comment and attacking them is unnecessary. What have you got to prove except you NEED something along the lines of a good work out!

    Religion- It is mine and I will respect yours dont try to convert me I like to learn about other people's beliefs tho.

    Sexual orientation- It is a persons decision mind your own bidnes,s Im pretty sure everyone has them!

    Bullying- Somebody needs something! UGH a life ,sex, a good work out?

    Blanket statements- If one does want to be specific so be it! We dont need anybody on here whining and complaining about personal freedom
  • TashiaHeartsBrandon 2011/03/24 19:31:23
    TashiaHeartsBrandon
    +2
    Blocking-only people who stalk or bully you!

    Politics- I read em, but don't comment!

    Religion- everyone is entitled to their own opinion

    Sexual Orientation- everyone has one!

    Bullying- Now that's just childish and mean!

    Blanket statements- try to avoid!
  • Jack's ... TashiaH... 2011/03/24 19:38:50
    Jack's Pearl
    +2
    Great answers.
  • TashiaH... Jack's ... 2011/03/24 20:14:57
    TashiaHeartsBrandon
    +1
    thank you ^_^
  • Piperpc 2011/03/24 18:31:51
    Piperpc
    +3
    You expressed that very well Pearl. Discussing politics and religion will always get people inflamed, but it shouldn't have to get ugly. It seems like the refusal to resort to name calling or those "blanket statements" you're referring to gets some people on this site even angrier and more insulting, go figure.......It is kind of annoying to find you are blocked when visiting a post, when you know you are always respectful in a discussion. Evidently those who do that are only interested in getting raves by those that agree with them, and not interested in discussion with those with differing opinions.
  • Tau_Seti 2011/03/24 18:26:16
    Tau_Seti
    +1
    Drama free Reality ... what a concept. Let me know when that catches hold.
  • Jack's ... Tau_Seti 2011/03/24 18:54:33
    Jack's Pearl
    +3
    Be a part of making it catch hold!
  • alexhead 2011/03/24 18:23:40
    alexhead
    +1
    Agree agree agree
  • Jack's ... alexhead 2011/03/24 18:54:56
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    Thank you Alex! Can you spread this around for me?
  • Drachen 2011/03/24 16:35:20 (edited)
    Drachen
    +3
    `Blocking -- You disagree with me so I get all butthurt and block you

    `Politics -- Conservatives own it, 90% of them push down liberals, dont even give em a chance

    `Religion -- I say Christianity and Atheism are the top

    `Sexual orientation -- 50/50 for gays\against gays

    `Bullying -- If you don't agree with someone.

    `Blanket statements -- uncalled for.


    As for me:

    Blocking -- A no no. I don't block
    Politics -- Conservative
    Religion -- Christian
    Bullying -- A big no no. Why do it? Just why?
    Blanket Statements -- Try to avoid, but everybody uses them.

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