Your very first date should be in a very public place that lends itself to not being interrupted. This first date should be all about getting to know each other which means give and take conversation. One of the most important things to consider is listening to the other person and giving feedback. The more you talk about yourself showing no interest in the other the less likely there will be a second date.
And a very key factor is confidence. With that you make it clear that you are good with however the meeting comes out and lends to great conversation.
Just be yourself.....and relax and enjoy yourself. I am going on a first date with someone and it's been a few years since I have dated.....I am nervous...lol :)
Of course that is perfectly natural but I can tell you that you have no reason to be so. I have no doubt that you would be a great person to date. But I would have to admit that if it were me, meeting you, I would be nervous too. :) Good luck my friend!
It's just a coffee date at a restaurant....I am sure he is nervous too. I will keep that in mind. Thanks for thinking I would be a great person to date....that is so sweet! Thanks so much for your well wishes.....I didn't expect to be asked out for a date. I suggested the coffee date and said that it could be the longest cup of coffee we've had or the shortest...and we both laughed. Takes off some pressure, I think. ;)
Just be yourself, don't worry about what other people thinks, wear whatever you want to wear that includes wearing sweatpants on a date, and if the person doesn't like it than that person really doesn't care about you, because all they care about is looks. Don't try to be someone that you're not to get that person's attention.
Oh good enjoy yourself Sweetie, If I may add another from the serial dater that I've become, remember he's the lucky one to have pleasure of your company.
And a very key factor is confidence. With that you make it clear that you are good with however the meeting comes out and lends to great conversation.