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Were you traumatized by the nuns in Catholic grade school?

Simmering Frog 2012/06/12 22:36:51
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Now that I've been out of Catholic high school for quite a few years, I can look and put my experience of it in better perspective. I look back on that time period with a lot of anger. Here's the thing, I don't mind being Catholic. In fact, I actually enjoy it and would never consider leaving the Catholic church. It's the most intellectual of all the denominations, hands down. However, the schooling itself had a lot to be desired. When it came to the nuns, something was sorely lacking. These women were not likable people. They weren't then and I honestly don't think they would be now. We had a nun who had a paralyzed arm. Sadly she earned the nick name of "Sister Mary Dead Arm" because she would sneak up behind you and use inertia to whack you across the head with it. How was that not traumatizing? How could any kid experience this without psychological scarring for years? But it wasn't just the nuns. It was the whole private Catholic institution in general. While there were a few good teachers who I had plenty of respect for, the others people in the school, particularly the administration, were downright just bad people. It seemed like the students whose parents came from money were slightly more favored in the eyes of the administration that those of us who came from families that didn't have any money. Looking back on that, that wasn't a teaching of the Catholic church that the administrators were following. What a bunch of frauds. As a 16 year old, I very clearly saw this going on. For years, I've had built up anger over this. I'd like to go back there and really tell them how incredibly hurtful they were.

Here's another thing. I went to Catholic school for four yours. However, it took me at least 10 years to get my curiosity of learning back. And it took me about another 10 years to even go back to church. I don't think was a coincidence.

Just wanted to know if anyone had similar experiences.
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  • Tunnel Vision 2012/06/14 02:05:35
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    Tunnel Vision
    Not traumatized, but I did develop strong opinions of them during my youth, being a catholic school student..
  • 0cean3yes 2012/06/13 05:12:21
    No
    0cean3yes
    I went to public school.
  • pdarkow 2012/06/13 02:23:47
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    pdarkow
    Never went to catholic school
  • DM Twin 2012/06/13 02:15:04
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    DM Twin
    +1
    Still hate Penguins .

    They did not know how to teach a Lefty how to write. So Sister Mary Teresa took her wood ruler with the metal edge , moved the pen from you left to your right hand, and smacked the back of your left hand with the ruler . Sometimes the rulers metal edge would cut your hand , sometimes it would'nt . I still have many scars on the back of my right hand and I still write left handed...but I had to teach myself .
  • Katherine the Renaissance W... 2012/06/13 02:03:55
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    Katherine the Renaissance Woman
    +2
    I didn't have nuns in grade school, but in the children's shelter where I lived, nuns ran the home and they were lovely.
  • Chanch 2012/06/12 23:48:25
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    Chanch
    +2
    I was traumatized by Nuns. And I'm not Catholic. LOL
  • betz Chanch 2012/06/13 00:37:58
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    +1
    I'm Catholic and take no offense to your comment. LOL
  • oldlady 2012/06/12 23:35:10
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    oldlady
    Their under your bed, in your closet, at McDonald's, Sears, fishing at the local river, just around the corner, sky diving, picking weeds out of your garden in the night ooooooh :/
  • betz 2012/06/12 23:02:37
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    betz
    Those people back in the 50's were total wack jobs. Mean, spiteful "women" who took their anger out on innocent children. What made them so vicious? Your guess is as good as mine. I wonder if they'd had a man in their life they would have been a bit more content. The thought of those nuns disgusts me.
    Women have become so much smarter in this day and age....hence there are very few nuns left.
    The only time I see a nun is at Halloween. LOL
    Trick or Treat.
    nun trick or treating
  • Simmeri... betz 2012/06/12 23:07:12
    Simmering Frog
    +1
    Here's the thing! The Catholic church does a very good job with educational institutions. They do a far better job than their public school counterparts in many cases. However, these nuns were just emotional wrecks. And it actually wasn't just the nuns. I ran into a priest many years later who actually insulted me with a comment when I mentioned my experience at my school. I will never forget that.
  • betz Simmeri... 2012/06/12 23:10:17
    betz
    You are correct SF. The Catholic High Schools in our area are wonderful. Great students, athletes and well rounded intelligent kids. I'm talking about the crazed penguins who taught in the 50's. Frustrated old farts.
    BTW... I love the story about "Sister Mary Dead Arm." Beautiful.
  • Simmeri... betz 2012/06/12 23:20:45
    Simmering Frog
    +1
    Sister Mary Dead Arm was an actual nun. She was in competition with our geometry teacher, Sister Mary Hypotenuse. Now, I actually didn't have any problem with Sister Mary Hypotenuse. She was actually an ok lady. True story. Her problem was that she would experience hot flashes. But here was the problem: She would open up the windows in the classroom when it was about 10 degrees below zero. I remember hearing the moans of 30 students but the window remained open. It's funny what you remember as a kid.
  • Shawna 2012/06/12 22:58:22
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    Shawna
    I'm sorry you had such bad experiences. My dad spent a few years at Catholic school and really thrived. He liked the very safe and structured environment. I do not know how he was admitted to Catholic school since he was not a Christian and neither were his parents and his grandparents were Presbyterian.
  • Simmeri... Shawna 2012/06/12 22:59:54
    Simmering Frog
    +1
    There were plenty of kids who weren't Catholic in mine. We even had some Jewish kids.
  • Shawna Simmeri... 2012/06/12 23:05:23
    Shawna
    Sometimes parents have to choose whatever denomination is available if they want their child in a Christian school or a school that teaches about God. In my town there is only one option-it is a Christian school of no particular denomination.
  • betz Simmeri... 2012/06/12 23:05:50
    betz
    Unfortunately SF I didn't take the time to read all of your entry until after I answered. We had a nun named Sister Mary Bonaventure (can you imagine that one) whom the older kids dubbed "Sister Mary Boney Vulture." We also had a Sister Mary Perptua who would fall asleep in class (yes she was around 110) and when she got into her second REM the boys would throw spit wads in her mouth. Priceless.
  • Simmeri... betz 2012/06/12 23:31:13
  • Deliciously Melicious 2012/06/12 22:48:26
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    Deliciously Melicious
    +6
    I love nun's... two of my favorite cousin's are nuns. Love them.
  • Jackie G - Poker Playing Pa... 2012/06/12 22:46:14
    No
    Jackie G - Poker Playing Patriot
    No, but I sure learned a great deal
  • Lydecho Rain (Лидия) 2012/06/12 22:41:36
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    Lydecho Rain (Лидия)
    I don't go to Catholic school.
  • TasselLady 2012/06/12 22:40:51
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    TasselLady
    Thankfully no. I never went to a Catholic school. I went to public school.
  • Chukroast 2012/06/12 22:39:14
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    Chukroast
    +1
    Didn't go to Catholic school but was traumatized by the Nun that taught us for our 1st communion.
  • Simmeri... Chukroast 2012/06/12 22:40:55
    Simmering Frog
    +1
    What did she do?

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