Were you hpaked as a chid and if so, with what obect?

by Assassin Felinious Posted 2007/11/07 22:46:40

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	No, I have never been spanked a day in my life.	111 votes	10%
	I was spanked occasionally to rarely and only with hand to bottom.	288 votes	25%
	I was spanked with a paddle.	285 votes	25%
	Other	473 votes	41%

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TxTeamster 2007/11/08 13:59:27

Other

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Here we go. I got my ass beat with everything my Mom could swing. Belts, coathangars, EXTENSION CORDS!! I know I was the only kid ever to throw away my own HotWheels set because I kept getting beat with the tracks. I'm talking brutal beatings - not just one swat. Beatings that would send a parent to prison for double digits. I'm in my 40s and have a 9yo and a 2yo and they're disciplined by my wife, occasionally I have to be the bad guy and yell for a minute and threaten to throw away the playstation. My mom once commented on how I was being 'a little rough" and I suggested I beat them like she beat me. She said I deserved it. I said "Bye now. Have a nice day". At age 13 I violated the terms of my 'restriction' and was found playing basketball at the school one day when mom came home early. She had a broomstick and kept snarling for me to get inside the house through clenched teeth. Said she was going to count to 3. I said count to ten - I dont care, you aint beating me no more. She told me to pack my shit. I did and couch surfed for 6 months with friends and family. I WAS 13!!! I've had issues with my violent Mom and my alcoholic Dad all my life. Drugs, prison, unemployment - whatever bad shit life could throw my way I just figured it was my fate for being born into the family...

Here we go. I got my ass beat with everything my Mom could swing. Belts, coathangars, EXTENSION CORDS!! I know I was the only kid ever to throw away my own HotWheels set because I kept getting beat with the tracks. I'm talking brutal beatings - not just one swat. Beatings that would send a parent to prison for double digits. I'm in my 40s and have a 9yo and a 2yo and they're disciplined by my wife, occasionally I have to be the bad guy and yell for a minute and threaten to throw away the playstation. My mom once commented on how I was being 'a little rough" and I suggested I beat them like she beat me. She said I deserved it. I said "Bye now. Have a nice day". At age 13 I violated the terms of my 'restriction' and was found playing basketball at the school one day when mom came home early. She had a broomstick and kept snarling for me to get inside the house through clenched teeth. Said she was going to count to 3. I said count to ten - I dont care, you aint beating me no more. She told me to pack my shit. I did and couch surfed for 6 months with friends and family. I WAS 13!!! I've had issues with my violent Mom and my alcoholic Dad all my life. Drugs, prison, unemployment - whatever bad shit life could throw my way I just figured it was my fate for being born into the family I was born into. The lady I married never ever got a spanking in her whole life and I was shocked to find out some people actually grew up like that. My kids are well behaved - very bright and intelligent kids who will never know the pain I knew and I'm very thankful for that. But one of these days that playstation is going in the trash!
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artist1963-Progressive Patr... 2008/12/15 10:08:10

Other

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My "father" spanked both my sister and me bare bottom with a belt from toddlers on. When my mother got her divorce and he was gone, it was the happiest day of my young life. My step-father was the father I never had and he is the kindest, loving man who is so good to my mother, us and our children. I took his name when I turned 18 and disowned my father. Have'nt seen the jerk in 30 years and don't ever plan to as he was as selfish as he was hateful.

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Assassi... to artist1... 2008/12/15 18:58:46

I'm happy to hear you had a good experience with your stepfather. :)

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sqrlysweetp 2008/12/01 15:11:31

Other

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I was spanked with a wooden spoon by my mom and with my dads bare (rough, calloused) hand. both bare butt. When I was spanked I deserved it. I'm a firm believer, especially now that when a child does wrong and a "talking" doesn't work something else has to step in.

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DEEJ 2008/11/29 06:26:05

Other

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I WAS SPANKED WITH ANYTHING THAT WAS CLOSE TO MY PARENTS OR GRANDPARENTS...

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peacesi... to DEEJ 2009/12/29 00:38:52

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like with whut

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paddled 2008/11/19 04:42:28

Other

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I was not spanked much growing up. It wasn't until I was older and extremely immature that
I was given paddlings, corner time, and time outs. I was mortified at the time but now I know it was absolutely necessary and gave me the attitude adjustment I desperately needed.

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Assassi... to paddled 2008/11/19 19:47:16

Thanks for your honest answer. Do you think you'll paddle your kids?

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DEEJ to Assassi... 2008/11/29 06:27:42

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RIGHT NOW I WOULD SAY NO.. BUT WEN I GET OLDER I COULD CHANGE MY MIND

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Assassi... to DEEJ 2008/11/30 00:23:02

Makes sense. :)

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Kimber 2008/11/11 03:22:13

No, I have never been spanked a day in my life.

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I, myself, am 14. Yes, I'm a girl. XD And Basically, this is how my family lays out...
Mom
Step-Brother
Dad
Henry (step-dad)

I live with my mom, brother, and Henry, and see my dad every now and then. Henry was a teacher at my school when my mom met him and he was actually my math teacher the year he and mom got married! He respects me and knows I'm "the bad-girl type". As for my stepbrother, Sam...well I hear them fighting alot. My mom got me a mini-fridge to make up for the headaches I get from it!

Usually Sam just wants to be rude and talk back, well Henry will NOT hear of it. Sam winds up in his room, and about fourty five minutes later, I hear a belt, paddle, switch, shoe, riding whip (I'm an equestrian of 9 years), and Sam has mentioned a wet rag or wooden spoon.

San really! I'm a very good person. Usually...I'm a mostly A student, captian of the Girls' Cross Country team. Riding. A wonderful BF (Sam's best friend), Garner. And Sam isn't too bad either...he has a nice-ish GF, Amy. Decent grades (little dork could be GOld Eagle like me if he'd review MY notes from 7th grade!) ...so, yes. spanking is both good and bad.

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curlysue -"In God We Trust" 2008/11/09 04:46:30

I was spanked occasionally to rarely and only with hand to bottom.

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I was spanked and don't see anything wrong with spanking children.

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zcberry 2008/11/08 23:32:29

Other

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WHATEVER MY MOM CAN GET HER HANDS ON.
RACE TRACK
CORED
SWITCHES
SHOES
BELTS
YOU NAME IT, NOW DO NOT GET ME WRONG MY MOM DID NOT ABUSE JUST WHIP MY ASS WHEN I WAS OUT OF LINE.

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sexhumpsex 2008/11/02 19:20:29

Other

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I was spanked with a hairbrush bare bottom a lot, until my butt was completely red. It works, because then I had to sit in a wooden chair!

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yobzz 2008/10/23 22:49:19

I was spanked with a paddle.

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my mom used to put me in the diaper position or over the knee when she spanked me and my siblings she always did it bare butt usually pullting down our jeans and knickers herself she sometimes used her hand, hairbrush, shoe , flyswatter or the paddle! it was the sorest!! she also spanked us standing up by grabbing one of our arms pully down our jeans and pants with the other and spanking us with watever was in reach..! usually wooden spoon as most ofen in kitchen and it stung!! we were then sent to the coner after each spanking with our red bums still on show. we had to stand there for a minute of each year of age. we weren't allowed to rub our bums and we usually couldn't sit down for a few hours after. i usually got spanked a few times a week.

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Toonmaster 2008/09/28 10:15:19

Other

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I was spanked with:

a) a paddle
b) a fly swatter
c) a hand
d) a belt
e) a tree branch

The only thing I ever used on my children was my hand - and then only on the butt and only hard enough to get their attention.

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AlaskanPrince 2008/09/08 08:13:29

I was spanked occasionally to rarely and only with hand to bottom.

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yes i got spanked alot mostly otk bared by the hand

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Assassi... to Alaskan... 2008/09/08 18:34:28

Thanks for sharing. Do you think kids should receive that kind of discipline?

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jacko 2008/08/08 08:37:06

I was spanked occasionally to rarely and only with hand to bottom.

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i was spanked by my auntie for spelling rown sauce on her sofa

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SIC-SEMPER-TYRANNIS 2008/06/30 04:32:07

Other

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All of the other kids would blame stuff on me, and i would do the same to them, but i would either get a hand, or a belt

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dewthirty 2008/06/28 19:54:19

Other

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mostly got popped on butt with hand but I have felt a belt and a switch. And I learned REAL quick not to do that stuff anymore.

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err 2008/06/22 19:15:11

I was spanked with a paddle.

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And I'll be doing it to my kids too.
It worked for me.

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Miss Lori 2008/06/17 09:50:34

Other

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I was hit with whatever was handy, plus some improvised stuff. Razor belts, paddles, fan belts, fence boards, lathe, switches, broom stick, wooden spoons, and a hammer, once. I don't think that counts as spanking, though. I was also confined to bed for a month one summer, for eating an entire bag of potato chips. No sitting up, no getting up, no reading, no talking, no lights, no music, no company, no toys. No one was allowed to talk to me. I could go to the bathroom every four hours, and I could come down for meals. (That was a pretty standard punishment after a beating. "Go to bed" meant "Go to bed and stay there until we say you can get up". Sometimes, weeks.) My grandmother snuck me the Sunday funnies only 3 days before my time was up, and they caught me reading them, and added another month! I most definitely did NOT visit the same discipline on my children, although I did spank them occassionally. Most of the time, I didn't even know WHY I was getting beat. I left home for good the day I found myself with a knife in my hand, and realized I intended to use it. Years of therapy and self-loathing later, I sat down with my mother, who had finally divorced the psychopath she had chosen for my step-father, and told her I needed to hear that she was sorry for letting those things happen. She said, "I will never apologize. I did the best I could, and I'm not sorry". We don't speak anymore.

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Assassi... to Miss Lori 2008/06/17 16:54:56

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That's awful. I'm so sorry that you endured such atrocity at the hands of someone your mother chose to love. My prayers go out to you.

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artist1... to Miss Lori 2008/12/15 10:13:49 (edited)

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That's horrible...I am so sorry and you were able to get help to get through it. This makes me sick to know someone would have to suffer like that.

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mark 2008/06/07 15:41:21

Other

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I grew up in the late 60sand 70s when just about everyone i knew got spanked.I was frequently spanked at school with a plimsole often with shorts down,and home by my mother.She used a carpet slipper or hairbrush always on the bare bottom.She spanked me as soon as i misbehaved, it didnt matter if there were family or friends around she would do it.She never did it in public .No matter what the time after a spanking i was sent to bed.If i got spanked at school, then she would repeat
it.I only got "thrashed"once age 11 with a switch.Yes i deserved it.
It was humiliating being spanked in front of people, but it was just what everyone got then.
I have never spanked our children,but my wife(who herself was spanked as a child)does,but not with an implement.But unlike when we were growing up
its a rarity.
I have just seen this link and i cant believe how many poeple there are with similar experiences from the 60s and 70s,Many sadlymuch much worse than my wife or i got.We dont consider our spanking as abuse.

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Robertswifey 2008/04/29 06:01:05

Other

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I was spanked when I deserved it (sometimes even when I didn't deserve it, but I'm pretty sure I blamed my sister enough times for us to even out lol) but it depended on who was spanking as to what was used. My mom used her hand, my dad used the belt. We weren't abused though, just disciplined :)

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Lyssa 2008/04/28 21:34:21

I was spanked occasionally to rarely and only with hand to bottom.

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The frequency just depended on how often I got in trouble. By the time I was 9 or 10 my mom didn't spank me anymore, she just grounded me all the time.

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Lollipops Rock!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2008/04/28 15:17:07

Other

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I was spanked with watever my mother could get her hands on.

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Mandee 2008/04/24 03:20:36

Other

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Yep, I was spanked with the belt across my bottom from my father for crossing a 2 lane fairly busy highway when I was 5. That was the last time as a young child that I ever attempted to cross any road without having permission to do so. The year was 1961, that road is now a 6 lane highway, today.

I got another spanking with the belt when I was 13, when I stole a candy bar from the grocery store. My father was furious because I had money in my pocket. My father gave me a choice to get grounded for 2 weeks, no TV, no friends, no phone... or a spanking with the belt... 2 swipes across the butt. I took the spanking. I have never felt that I was abused.

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slic 2008/04/23 03:27:57

Other

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With a hand or fly swatter.

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highdesertgemini 2008/04/18 07:42:30

Other

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Depending on our offense, Mom used her hand, a hairbrush or the crevice tool from the vacuum cleaner. If we were really in need of a paddling, her last weapon was Dad's hand! We didn't get spanked all that often, but it didn't "hurt" us to get spanked!

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666 n my heart® 2008/04/18 02:16:08

Other

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belts, hands ,fists, walls, floors, tree limbs, wire hangers, whatever was there, and if we did not cry it got worse... alls good and well now.....

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lin 2008/04/17 23:37:11

Other

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this comment's for james I had similar child hood dad a drunk,violent,irronically mom stressed out constantly & I got the switch ,god I still feel it's sting & remember the whelps, I raised five they never knew this & I never raised a hand to them ,& if they ever hit my grandbabies,I would spend the rest of my day's fighting for custody. kids never forget James & I are prime example's.

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Assassi... to lin 2008/04/18 02:11:57

You may want to hit "reply" under his comment so he sees it. Or you can send him a private message.. I can help you - just message me.

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Rosalie 2008/04/17 04:21:53

Other

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I got beat from one end of the house all the way to the other.
I don't beat,I spank.

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Tracy 2008/04/16 19:27:00

Other

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I grew up with four brothers on a horse ranch so a quirt or whatever was handy at the time. No, I was not abused and I love my loving parents for doing so. We have all grown up to be well adjusted adults with great families.

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Ouch 2008/04/14 00:29:16

Other

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I was spanked with hand, switch, razor strop. My mother did this. My dad never spanked me. I was a very well-behaved child. I had to be.

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Assassi... to Ouch 2008/04/14 16:44:54

Ouch.. :(

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NIKA 2008/04/13 15:05:07

Other

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with slippers,belts,books and hand

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