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Weinergate Scandal: Is Tweeting the Same Thing as Cheating?

SodaHead Living 2011/06/09 11:00:00
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As the first House Democrat called for Rep. Anthony Weiner to resign on Wednesday, average Americans were wondering: Is tweeting the same thing as cheating?

On one hand, we wouldn't want our significant other sending obscene pictures of himself to strange women online, thank you very much. But the married New York Democrat did seem to stop short of cheating, didn't he?

Not everyone agrees with that statement.

Jon Austin's wife, Amy, of Minneapolis told her hubby, "You'd be dead," according to The Associated Press. And her husband seemed to agree that Weiner cheated when he tweeted.

"Would you text it, post it, send it with your spouse looking over your shoulder?" asked Austin, 52, who works in public relations. "If yes, then it's not infidelity. If no, you're cheating."

Weiner admitted Monday that he engaged in inappropriate communication of a sexual nature with six women, both before and after his marriage. Do you think he cheated on his wife?

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  • Scott 2011/06/09 12:26:00
    Yes
    Scott
    +12
    I think it's a statement on society that the question is apparently so hard to answer. My personal feeling is that if I feel good about telling my better half about what I'm doing - then it's not cheating. If I feel a need to hide what I'm doing or lie about it - even if you won't call it cheating, it's not healthy for the relationship. And if you're happy with doing things that are unhelthy for the relationship, it doesn't matter if your cheating or not; you've already left the relationship.

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  • spike 2011/06/12 02:57:14
    Yes
    spike
  • Bureauc 0webama 2011/06/11 20:53:18
    No
    Bureauc 0webama
    No, but what Weiner did is far more perverted.
  • sherry 2011/06/10 07:32:43
    Yes
    sherry
    Out of the heart comes cheating...
  • star 2011/06/10 06:38:00
    Yes
    star
    I would divorce my husband if he ever did any of that or anything else. I want him all to myself. They can look but don't touch.
  • Myrle Hulme 2011/06/10 06:10:25
    Yes
    Myrle Hulme
    Where he was concerned yes
  • CUDDLY BUT STILL CRABBY 2011/06/10 06:09:34
    Yes
    CUDDLY BUT STILL CRABBY
    People who do that/or send that sexually explicit stuff onto the internet have NO SHAME.

    The longer Rep Weiner stays onboard in the US Congress, the weaker the Democrats/Progressives become, as if obama hasn't done enough damage by now to keep the aforementioned out of power for at least a couple of generations.
  • Ben~ Libertarian Socialist 2011/06/10 05:45:08
    Undecided
    Ben~ Libertarian Socialist
    What happens in anybodies love life is none of my buisness. I don't care if your a Democrat or Republican.
  • Red Wings DIVA16 2011/06/10 05:37:00
    No
    Red Wings DIVA16
    It's shady, no doubt, but it isn't cheating.
  • meeshuk 2011/06/10 05:26:58
    Yes
    meeshuk
    +1
    It is when you're hanging your schlong out there for the co-eds to enjoy. It is supposed to be used for YOUR WIFE after marriage.

    JMHO
  • Dave Brewster 2011/06/10 05:11:02
    Yes
    Dave Brewster
    Cheating is not just a physical thing, it's an emotional thing. If you're unsure, just ask your spouse!!!
  • MAMMY51♥POTL~PWCM~JLA♥ 2011/06/10 05:08:56
    Undecided
    MAMMY51♥POTL~PWCM~JLA♥
    Ask Peanut Jimmy?
  • Experience 2011/06/10 05:08:30 (edited)
    Undecided
    Experience
    +1
    If you're all wrapped up in a warped fantasy uncontrollably masterbating and jerking your gerkin to the thoughts and passions of someone else, I wouldn't consider that being loyal, but it isn't cheating.
  • CUDDLY ... Experience 2011/06/10 06:07:05
    CUDDLY BUT STILL CRABBY
    gerkin. LOL thanks, I needed that.
  • mg's haven~POTL~PWCM~JLA 2011/06/10 04:04:07
    Undecided
    mg's haven~POTL~PWCM~JLA
    Im military and i'd rather have him do that than put his hands on someone else. Obviously it worked for them or she'd jump ship now.
  • lcky9 2011/06/10 03:31:30
    Yes
    lcky9
    it's bring fantasy (mind) to reality by exchanging them with others of the opposite sex.. PUBLICLY.. unless it's something you could tell your mama it's something you shouldn't do..
  • Bomb a 2011/06/10 03:13:26
    No
    Bomb a
    How strange were the women?
  • Big Bo 2011/06/10 03:02:28
    No
    Big Bo
    Verbatim the question is not what was intended, I believe. Tweeting by itself is not even close. It depends (classic response) on what you are tweeting. IF you meant is sexting on twitter cheating; yes. Cybersex is sex even if you are choking your chicken between tweets!
  • kresge 2011/06/10 02:48:41
    No
    kresge
    Not cheating, but surely enough to pi$$ off a wife and maybe make her say buh bye!
  • SunnyOne 2011/06/10 02:21:48
    Yes
    SunnyOne
    In this case it certainly is, because he contacted women solely for sexual gratification.

    It isn't adultery, though.
  • zebsmom 2011/06/10 02:07:53
    Yes
    zebsmom
    +1
    It may not technically cheating, but it's still a betrayal. In my book anyway.
  • Mindy 2011/06/10 01:55:04
    Yes
    Mindy
    +2
    It also speaks volumes on his character.
  • Isisdron 2011/06/10 01:45:49
    Undecided
    Isisdron
    +1
    some people should just stay single. Commitment isnt for everyone. His actions show that his commitment was shaky, though he didnt cheat he left a door open so he could one day, if he wanted, with ease.
  • Tina 2011/06/10 01:13:09
    Yes
    Tina
    +4
    It isn't the same as having an affair, but I guarantee you that if it was his wife sending her genitalia across the internet, he would be singing a different tune. Why is it not a big offense for the dude,but it would be for the woman. Why is it not a big offense for the democrat, but is a resignation offense for the republican. What's with all the inequality????????????????
  • A. Tree 2011/06/10 00:31:35 (edited)
    No
    A. Tree
    COMMENT REMOVED
  • Lena A. Tree 2011/06/10 00:48:44
    Lena
    +4
    Why should his wife accept the blame? Do you really know what is going on in their intimate life?
    Grateful for what? He should be grateful that his wife hasn't dumped him yet. If you are looking elsewhere for something you are not getting home, you should either talk to your spouse to remediate the situation or divorce. I have seen men who get a lot from their wives and still cheat.
  • Tina A. Tree 2011/06/10 01:22:16
  • Big Bo A. Tree 2011/06/10 02:57:48
    Big Bo
    Seriously?
  • John 2011/06/09 23:43:22
    Yes
    John
    +1
    It's a betrayal of the most intimate relationship, marriage. Your mind is wondering and looking for other sources of entertainment. The thing with Weiner is that he is obviously unstable and dellusional, unlike other men who think with their Johnson and would want to hook up with these women.
  • dominic 2011/06/09 23:34:25
    Yes
    dominic
    +1
    You should not be tweeting to the opposite sex behind your spouse's back, there is nothing trivial about this, you can cheat with your thoughts. If you can't handle it don't ever get married.
  • citizen-cain 2011/06/09 23:34:16
    Yes
    citizen-cain
    +2
    It's virtual cheating. Online cheating is cheating the same way that online bullying is bullying. It won't cause someone to contract an STD or get pregnant, but the emotional damage can be nearly as severe. By the same token, online bullying won't cause physical injury, but it has caused emotional injury--in a few cases, even suicide.

    THINK before you post any photos of yourself or anyone else. Could it cause harm or embarrassment? Will you regret it later?
  • felicity shagwell 2011/06/09 23:12:34
    No
    felicity shagwell
    +1
    how did weiner get that hottie?
  • SunnyOne felicit... 2011/06/10 02:23:20
    SunnyOne
    By showing his wiener, natch.
  • Scotty 2011/06/09 22:58:19
    Yes
    Scotty
    +1
    Sorry, Weiner...this is the same thing and is a form of cheating. Now, your wife is pregnant...what a jerk. Time for you to keep your pants zipped...for all but your wife...or separate and pay her very well.
  • felicit... Scotty 2011/06/10 02:26:48
    felicity shagwell
    texting is the same as sex?
  • LaLa 2011/06/09 22:43:29
    Yes
    LaLa
    +1
    Talking to others isn't cheating but when you start to say dirty things or send pics like that then it is
  • Sofahead 2011/06/09 22:28:14
    Undecided
    Sofahead
    Cheating may be a lesser problem.
    Why he finds the need to do this and what kind of person does this may a little more disturbing than actual cheating.
  • BoomLover 2011/06/09 22:07:30
    Yes
    BoomLover
    +1
    First, I'm pretty certain his wife didn't know about his activities, and sending naked pics of yourself to 6 other women, yep, that's cheating. HOWEVER, this really begs the question, is that his wife in the picture with him? If so, that brings up two more questions, 1) What did a beauty like her see in a Weiner, like him, and 2), if most guys had a beautiful wife, and a family like this guys seems to, where in the hell is the incentive to cheat?
  • Dana 2011/06/09 22:06:46
    No
    Dana
    +1
    Dislike it all you want... disapprove all you want to. I agree with you most likely on those parts.

    But it is actually cheating? No. Was what he did illegal? No. Did he kiss or have sex with another woman? No. Did he even physically touch any other woman? No. Was he even in the same room as one of these other women? No.

    Did he do anything illegal? No.

    Immoral? Sure... I think so... but this is between his wife and him... and really should not have gone any further. She is the one who has to decide if and what she will do to her husband.

    We can blow it up to be anything we want to, but it does not change the facts... which are that he did nothing illegal, and did not even touch another woman.
  • Tina Dana 2011/06/10 01:48:56
  • Dana Tina 2011/06/10 01:59:48
    Dana
    cat in the office.. I think that shows he was at home.

    As far as what these people in congress do while being paid... I am frankly not too happy with any of them. At least Weiner was a kick ass Congressman and did fight for the people. When i see so many of these guys and gals... lying their asses off to the cameras day in and day out... and I am not talking about Weiners wanker lies... we all know about those... I am talking about all these fools who lie non stop for political gain, and do not give a rats ass about the truth. Hell, they go on the Sunday Talk shows and lie straight to the cameras... they lie on Fox news every single night, they lie non stop and for some reason... no one cares about those lies... but suddenly care about Weiners lies?

    I care too, makes me very disappointed in the man. But he lied about personal stupidity, and not about public policy or the president.

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