To girls - Why do you slut-shame other girls?
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2012/05/23 13:11:12
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Slut-shaming is the act of making a woman feel guilty or inferior
for being sexually active, having multiple sex partners, or acting or
dressing in a way that is deemed excessively sexual, often by calling
them a "slut" or other derogatory terms. Slut-shaming is based on the idea that women should follow one sexual norm,
and that any woman who deviates from this norm is inferior to other
women. Slut-shaming can occur privately or publicly, between people in
all types of relationships.
(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut-shaming)
for being sexually active, having multiple sex partners, or acting or
dressing in a way that is deemed excessively sexual, often by calling
them a "slut" or other derogatory terms. Slut-shaming is based on the idea that women should follow one sexual norm,
and that any woman who deviates from this norm is inferior to other
women. Slut-shaming can occur privately or publicly, between people in
all types of relationships.
(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut-shaming)
Top Opinion
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Scream 2012/05/23 13:28:13I don't slut-shame anyone.
Aggressively hating other girls behind their backs, because they bother you.
Pointing the finger on others, bully them, making fun of them, put them down. Is that a way to express "self-esteem"?
What about your "self-esteem"?
You cover up and try to be "modest" and you think that men appreciate that? So you do, what men expect from you?
You were brought up in a conservative/religious family with strict role models?
Captured in this cage you will not understand your body, your sexuality, your impression on men.
So some girls are hotter than you and have more confidence about their body and getting all the attention. Of course that doesn't feel fair.
I hope that you will one day find something positive in you. Then you will be able to love, to open up and accept and respect other people.
Maybe then you can release your apparent sexual frustration.
"...my parents have explained to me my sexuality and my impression on men..." I love that. Your parents explained Your sexuality and Your impression on men. Thats impressive. One would expect that this is something only you can find out for yourself. But it might explain where your hate on other girls come from. What did your parents told you? That you ruin the reputation of the family, if you act like a "slut", explore your sexuality or wear tight shorts? If they said something like that, they limited your freedom and your rights.
Of course the girls crossing those limitations are stigmatized and have to be brought down.
Sure, there are guys that think like you. Guys that went through the same education as you did. Of course they can't "bring home a girl" that doesn't fit the modest housewife stereotype. I guess those guys think of women as something lower and will always expect you to stay in your cage.
I'm glad that you think your positivity is evident. I guess you don't show the evidence to everyone.
People who ridicule others usually have low self esteem and need some way to make themselves feel elevated. Those with self confidence don't need to put someone else down to make themselves feel better.