Breast feeding a 4 year old? If your kid is big enough to stand and ask you for food, he's big enough to use a fork.
Also, where are the fathers in all of this? I can't imagine there are very many men on board with this, and if they are, they're lying.
Time Magazine Cover Shows Mom Breastfeeding 4-Year-Old Son: Did They Go Too Far?
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If you're interested in these sorts of things, you've probably heard of "attachment parenting," in which mothers breastfeed for longer than the recommended six months to one year, partake in "co-sleeping" with their children and wear the kids in BabyBjorns. Well, Time magazine chose to take a look at the philosophy for their May 21 cover story, which they illustrate by featuring a mother breastfeeding her nearly 4-year-old son on the cover.


While some are calling the image overly sensational, it does illustrate the parenting method espoused by Dr. Bill Sears. Time takes a look at how Sears came to his philosophy, and interviews moms who believe in his theories, like "cover mom" Jamie Lynne Grumet. Of course, the mom they chose for the cover is 26, blonde, slim and attractive (we're just sayin'...). Do you think the cover goes too far?
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You attribute emotions to them because some Disney-like cartoon told you that's the way they are, when reality is far from the fantasy. You try to make a friend out of a Cow and the thing will run right over you one day. You can't blame them; they didn't think anything of it, that was the way they were going ~ you were a minor moveable object in the way.
These "sentient beings" will lay out in a thunderstorm instead of go into an open barn (I know I've had to drive them in the middle of the night).
A calf will nurse on the nearest cow whether it is its dam or just a handy source. If a calf dies they nuzzles it to check for life, yet so do other cows (bulls don't) and then move on. Never noticed any weeping. In fact, the domesticated bovine is less "feeling" as you put it than their wild cousins.
Wild water buffalo will circle and protect their calves from predators. Cows will run away from stray dogs leaving the calf behind defenseless, even though they could easily stomp a dog (which a calf can't).
Simply Cows on average mass about times humans with a brain only 1/3 the si...
You attribute emotions to them because some Disney-like cartoon told you that's the way they are, when reality is far from the fantasy. You try to make a friend out of a Cow and the thing will run right over you one day. You can't blame them; they didn't think anything of it, that was the way they were going ~ you were a minor moveable object in the way.
These "sentient beings" will lay out in a thunderstorm instead of go into an open barn (I know I've had to drive them in the middle of the night).
A calf will nurse on the nearest cow whether it is its dam or just a handy source. If a calf dies they nuzzles it to check for life, yet so do other cows (bulls don't) and then move on. Never noticed any weeping. In fact, the domesticated bovine is less "feeling" as you put it than their wild cousins.
Wild water buffalo will circle and protect their calves from predators. Cows will run away from stray dogs leaving the calf behind defenseless, even though they could easily stomp a dog (which a calf can't).
Simply Cows on average mass about times humans with a brain only 1/3 the size of ours. You are giving an awful lot of credit to a domesticated lumbering giant.
If you see no difference between a cat and a cow you should consider their encephalization quotient where brain size and body mass are factored in with a standard for mammals of epirically factor of r = 0.66 and a C constant representing the cephalization quotient. For your humans this results in an EQ = 7.44, your cat's EQ = 1.00, and a cow's EQ = 0.825
And according to nature's example via other mammals:
Katherine A. Dettwyler, a scientist with Texas A&M University, made conclusions about the natural age of weaning as follows:
Natural Weaning Age by Dental Eruption: 5.5 - 6 years
Most primates wean their young when the first permanent molars begin erupting. Some scientists have suggested that this is because a child's immune system reaches maturity at about this same time; a possible indicator that full immune protection was in breastmilk until fairly recently in our species' evolutionary history. Although children at this age receive little immune protection from breastmilk because of changes in our biology, some advocates of extended breastfeeding feel that this is still an emotionally natural weaning age.
Natural Weaning Age by Adult Weight: 4 - 7 years
In the natural world, many animals wean their young when the offspring reach approximately one third of their adult body weight. In humans, this time comes anywhere between four and seven years of age-- possibly sooner...
And according to nature's example via other mammals:
Katherine A. Dettwyler, a scientist with Texas A&M University, made conclusions about the natural age of weaning as follows:
Natural Weaning Age by Dental Eruption: 5.5 - 6 years
Most primates wean their young when the first permanent molars begin erupting. Some scientists have suggested that this is because a child's immune system reaches maturity at about this same time; a possible indicator that full immune protection was in breastmilk until fairly recently in our species' evolutionary history. Although children at this age receive little immune protection from breastmilk because of changes in our biology, some advocates of extended breastfeeding feel that this is still an emotionally natural weaning age.
Natural Weaning Age by Adult Weight: 4 - 7 years
In the natural world, many animals wean their young when the offspring reach approximately one third of their adult body weight. In humans, this time comes anywhere between four and seven years of age-- possibly sooner and possibly later. By this method of natural weaning, boys would be breastfed longer than girls owing to slowed growth after the toddler years for boys-- although, by other methods of determining natural weaning age, girls would be breastfed longer.
Natural Weaning Age by Gestation Length: 4.5 years
In large-bodied mammals, the duration of nursing is high compared to the length of gestation. Large primates like bonobos, gorillas, and orangutans-- humankind's closest relatives-- breastfeed their young for an average of six times the length of gestation. With the average gestation length in humans reaching 40 weeks, this places the natural weaning age at about four and a half years. It is interesting to note that animals with larger brains tend to nurse their young the longest, relative to the length of gestation.
Natural Weaning Age by Adult Body Size: 2.8 -3.7 years
Continuing to compare the human gestational length to other large primates, we might notice that gorillas and chimpanzees happen to reach one third of their adult size at around the time that they are weaned-- also the time when they reach six times their gestation length and begin to get permanent molars. All humans are different from one another, but most children will reach one third of their adult size between 2.8 and 3.7 years.
Natural Weaning Age by Birth Weight: 25 - 32 months
Small mammals tend to wean their young when the offspring have tripled their birth weight, although larger mammals, including intelligent primates, will more likely breastfeed until the young have attained four times the average birth weight. This calculation still presents a natural weaning age that is significantly longer than the "normal" accepted weaning age in Western culture. A conservative age estimate compared to some others, this rule of thumb indicates that weaning should begin no earlier than 25 months in humans.
Studies have shown that a child's immune system doesn't completely mature until about 6 years of age, and it is well established that breast milk helps develop the immune system and augment it with maternal antibodies as long as breast milk is produced (up to two years, no studies have been done on breast milk composition after two years post partum).
And on and on. The minimum predicted age for a natural age of weaning in humans is 2.5 years, with a maximum of 7.0 years.
The above is source-derived material from the lady doctor. Of course, the whole issue with breastfeeding really started a long time ago. European nobility were "above" breastfeeding their babies, and they brought that horrible outlook with them whenever they infested new places. It was seen as "instinctive" and "natural," completely unsuitable for "civilized" man. Well, until a time in the U.S., when it was used as a means to discourage the feminist movement by encouraging breastfeeding, which kept a woman housebound, basically due to having to breastfeed every two hours.
I don't care about women breastfeeding in public. However, we agree that all studies indicate breast milk antibodies are compensated by 2yo. The studies you submitted from animals in the wild are irrelevant since nature alone does not have the ability to process better food sources.
Your reach back to European nobility is a weak argument since the Aristocrats traveled among the peasants as little as possible and the lower classes outnumbered them by the hundreds of thousands. The taboo is more likely a modern occurrence with the laws against public nudity being confused with natural motherhood.
As for the source being a female doctor that is irrelevant. You are showing your bias in concluding a male with the same information would not reach the same conclusion. Also were these studies peer reviewed?
Weaning should happen naturally. The child will move off of breast milk at their own pace. Most children wean between 3 and 4, naturally, without urging for or against.
So no it is not me, it's Science.
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You can breast feed until your child is 16, I could care less....