There's this guy I kinda like at school..

by vVvVv MeLL!Ƨɐ vVvVv Posted 2012/08/23 05:59:30

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Okay so
there's this guy at school...and oh my gosh...he's soo gorgeous :P. He's two
grades ahead of me. I've never spoken with him before, but I remember him from
my elementary school so that's how i know who he is. I assume he's seen me
though maybe a few times..because last year my friend went up to him randomly
and told him she liked his shirt, and yell hi to his friend that she knew, just
basically really obvious things, and i was always around her (she thought he
was kinda hot too) and he thought that she liked him (even though it was more
so me, she didn't care that much) I don't have any classes with him, and I did
know one person who knew them but now they're not in my class anymore. I wish i
could talk to him...but I don't know how and I'm too scared! I'm sure he has no
idea who i am and doesn't care. and at lunch he's always around girls.. am i
just supposed to go up to him & his friends and be like "hey, my names
melissa, what's up? ;D" would that be awkward??? and even still, I don't
have the guts to do it. Aghhh and besides I've never had a boyfriend (only 2
ppl have asked me out)..well i sort of did but it was only like a day 1/2 and
i'm pretty sure the reason he broke up with me was because he thought i didn't
like him. :( . ...He also described me as so hot i'm going to make out with her
(although we never did -_-. i've never kissed anyone) .. and a lot of people
tell me that i'm really pretty and should be a model.. and some guys have
called me "shawtie" o_o (also btw pretty much all my friends at
school are girls & i'm not a confident or person and don't really have much
self esteem =T).. but that doesn't mean he'll be interested in me! D:: He looks
like he's single, he's not usually around one girl in particular all the time..
but i suppose he could still have a girlfriend somehow! I hope not.. anyway
what should I do?? .. or should i just try to forget about him? (except i'll
still be seeing him and his hotness :O

Also he doesn’t have a facebook.

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Lorenz0 W. ElMenzo 2012/10/20 10:03:27

Well, sometimes, actions, speak louder, than. words, eh?

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eεrɾïiсαa αaṉnṉεe 2012/08/23 13:34:10

You should practice talking to the guys in your own age group first, and then you'll be able to talk to the older hotter ones, Maybe try to join an afterschool activity that he's a part of. I remember liking a guy who was two years older in hs also. I started talking to him and realized he was just looks and no personality. Good luck, hope this helps

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Duncan McAwesomesauce 2012/08/23 07:55:10

Is he into any sports? Try to find out something about him that he likes to do for fun and try to learn more about that interest. It doesn't have to be sports of course it could be any activity or hobby of his.

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jimrthy BN-0 2012/08/23 07:41:29

Don't sweat it. If he's interested, he'll let you know.

I can swear to this. We were interested for 20-ish years, but we were always with other people before. Now it's better than it's ever been before with anyone else.Except for her craziness. You aren't a crazy lady like her, are you? :-)) Bah! to all of you! ;-)

Have fun with it and don't sweat it.. It'll get better.

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some idiot who thinks he kn... 2012/08/23 06:20:49 (edited)

I'm not big on the subject of love. But only if you think this person is gonna get the absolute best version of you possible. It's better throw yourself out into the world than wonder around alone. If you really feel something and you know it's real in your gut, the only injustice I can think of in my head is to not pursue it.

I am someone with so much love inside of them that it drives me crazy not to be able to express it. I need that in my life and it hasn't been there for such a long time that I almost forgotten... I almost forgot what it was like to experience it.

I've been "alone" for a long time. I'm typing this alone right now and I know it's a temporary feeling. If he doesn't love you, don't close yourself from the world just because someone hurt you.

Still.

Hotness is one thing, but if that's all that drives you crazy... then that's shallow. If you have, then what are you waiting for? Do something.

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jimrthy... to some id... 2012/08/23 07:45:43

+1
old folks Someone who did something.

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some id... to jimrthy... 2012/08/23 08:42:17

Thanks for sharing the story. I understand the girl in the story, it's very genuine.

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Tom R 007 2012/08/23 06:14:22

How do you know you like him if you've never spoken to him?

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vVvVv M... to Tom R 007 2012/08/23 06:17:51

Well I know I don't really like him I just want to get to know him but I'm too scared

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vVvVv M... to Tom R 007 2012/08/23 06:19:20

Sorry I should have worded the question better

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Tom R 007 to vVvVv M... 2012/08/23 06:26:58

+1
Just talk to him. I can't imagine any guy being upset that a girl talked to him even if he isn't interested. When I was in high school I would've loved it if random girls came up and said nice things to me. Most girls were bitches to me at high school, but that's my point. The nice ones were too afraid to talk to guys so the only girls who talked to me (or at me) were stuck up bitches who made me feel like sh*t. I would've been a much happier teen if some nice girls actually bothered talking to me.

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vVvVv M... to Tom R 007 2012/08/23 06:33:10

+1
okay..maybe i will :) thanks

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Tom R 007 to vVvVv M... 2012/08/23 06:38:08

+2
No problem :-) Also remember that there is more to a person than how "hot" they look. Make sure that you look for deeper qualities in a boyfriend. A guy could look really good but be a complete douche. Hope everything works out :-)

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vVvVv M... to Tom R 007 2012/08/23 06:42:28

+1
Yeah I know haha. thanks

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