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The Average Cost of a Wedding Is Now $27,021: Too Much, Too Little or Just Right?

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It now costs an average of $27,021 to get hitched in America, according to a new survey -- and that doesn't even include the honeymoon. TheKnot.com and WeddingChannel.com conducted a survey of 18,000 U.S. couples 18 or older who married in 2011, and found that the average wedding budget has increased year over year for the first time since 2008, ABC News reports. The average price tag was $26,985 in 2010 and $28,385 in 2009.

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The survey showed that the average amount spent on each guest was $196 (that's a lot to blow on Uncle Al), and revealed that the wedding venue or reception hall was the most expensive budget item at $12,116.

But, according to the survey, fewer brides (29 percent) said the economy affected their wedding budget, compared to 31 percent in 2010 and 34 percent in 2009. This seems to be an indicator that the economy is getting better -- but we're sure these brides will have some serious debts to pay after the big day is over!

The 99 percent-ers in New York City spend the most on their weddings -- a whopping $65,824 -- and on their dresses ($2,403). Want to save a buck on your nups? Head down to North or South Dakota, where brides spent the least on their dresses ($745). Do you think $27,021 is too much or too little to spend on a wedding? Or just the right amount?
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  • EricVanSingleton 2012/04/06 20:58:01
    Too much
    EricVanSingleton
    +13
    A couple starting off in debt is a bad idea. Parents spending so much money on a few hours that they could've invested in their child's future is irresponsible. We always say, "It's the litlle things that count." Keep the wedding small and intimate, since it's the relationship between the two people that really is the focus of the circus. Everyone else is really just a guest.

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  • •Sora•Knightwalker• 2012/04/12 20:54:19
    Too much
    •Sora•Knightwalker•
    Is just getting a nice dress, a church, tuxedos, and other dresses only with family and friends not good enough for people now a days? This has to be because of Bridezillas and other wedding shows. Just have it during a holiday or something and boom! Instant decorations.
  • PeggyMc50 2012/04/10 01:17:36
    Too much
    PeggyMc50
    That has got to be one of the most insaine things I have ever heard of. After raising 3 sons on my own, because my husband left me, having my home forclosed on, a person would have to be insaine to waste money that way. A wedding is only one day. Marrage is for a life time, that money will be needed later on.
  • Stef 2012/04/09 19:50:43
    Too much
    Stef
    If you have the money to spend than maybe 27 grand is just right... but for me, that's too much money. I've talked about marriage with my boyfriend and my philosophy is to have the cheapest wedding possible that doesn't look like it's cheap. I feel you should spend what is affordable for your budget. Its not about what it costs anyway, it's about spending the special day with your loved one.
  • Smokey 2012/04/09 18:14:17
    Too much
    Smokey
    Save your money and put it towards a house or invest it! Unless you're earning millions of dollars, don't spend no more than 15% of your yearly earnings on a wedding. This includes your honeymoon.
  • Kathleen O'Malley 2012/04/09 18:12:47
    Too much
    Kathleen O'Malley
    My sisters' weddings came no where near that...my brother's wedding was a little fancier but not that much, Ay carumba!
  • Dana 2012/04/09 17:56:07
    Too much
    Dana
    I was married 3x. :( First wedding I was still paying for 10 years later. It was not even my choice to have it cost so much, I made the mistake of allowing others to get involved and let them do as they please. (my Mother and a wedding coordinator and their pals...) and it ended up just plain ludicrous. And it was not even near as much as is listed above. It was not even fun for anyone.

    Second wedding, outside, with our horses decorated in flowers, fun, easy going, total was about $2000, everyone had a good time. An artist did a beautiful painting of me in my dress on my mare w/ flowers in her mane and tail. She did this from a photo someone took, I only saw the painting once, but it was very elegant.

    3rd wedding less than $1,000. Beautiful dress on sale, married in a gorgeous location outside, paid a friend to take the pics, and she and her hubby were the only guests. Had a reception later, no cooking this time, no worries about the BBQ working... just got those trays from costco w/ sandwiches, cold cuts, etc... cheesecakes from costco, lots to drink, paper plates, and went to a very pretty park. It was perfect. And everyone was happy! :)
  • Darlin' 2012/04/09 16:58:06
    Too much
    Darlin'
    Ridiculous and unnecessary. There are countless ways to reduce the expenditures.
  • skull+crossbones 2012/04/09 16:57:31
    Too much
    skull+crossbones
    Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much - it shouldn't cost ANYTHING to be with someone you love. I'm strongly against weddings. XD x
  • SEAL76 2012/04/09 16:56:53
    Too much
    SEAL76
    +3
    What waste of money. Since so many marriages end in divorce it would seem that the ceremony is more important than the actual marriage. Why not spend less or use the money for something useful. I got married in small country church. We had the reception at our house catered by a friend. We had a couple of kegs, wine and whiskey and the cake. 400 plus people showed up. My wonderful wife and I have been married for 32 years and loving it. The whole thing cost under a $1000.00. I hope we live to be at least a hundred and stay married until one of kicks it.
  • Dana SEAL76 2012/04/09 18:17:39
    Dana
    :) Great story!!! Congrats!!!
  • GLaDOS SEAL76 2012/04/11 15:47:45
    GLaDOS
    Nice story, it was also 32 years ago; when gas cost how much?
  • Herb 2012/04/09 16:50:58
    Too much
    Herb
    +1
    i have three to think about damn kids
  • alex 2012/04/09 16:43:33 (edited)
    Too much
    alex
    +1
    i would rather buy this lexus

    lexus is250 red

    my dream wedding has always been under a gazebo (sp?), and as cheap as i can get it XD
    gazebo wedding
  • Margaret Jacobson 2012/04/09 16:39:19
    Too much
    Margaret Jacobson
    +1
    TOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!! a dress that you only wear once?, food that you probably are too excited to eat or enjoy? gifts are are not really wanted in the first place!!! I would want a wedding something like this: A nice day at the state park (or county) have everone come to cookout!! cook food on grill, take pictures, have fun, and go home!!! Does not cost" big bucks" Save your money and buy a house!!! I witnessed a wedding like that in the 1990's.......
  • Eleanor Barker 2012/04/09 16:07:16
    Too much
    Eleanor Barker
    Especially if it ends in divorce.
  • seasmoke70 2012/04/09 15:53:04
    Too much
    seasmoke70
    +3
    That's just crazy...
    i love lucy gif
  • wolf sloan 2012/04/09 15:14:45
    Too much
    wolf sloan
    Especially when 50% of them end in divorce.
  • katy.isodo 2012/04/09 14:42:00
    Too much
    katy.isodo
    I'd rather spend it on other stuff that will last longer.. but that's me.
  • Lonna121593 2012/04/09 14:39:11
    Too much
    Lonna121593
    I AM NOT PAYING THAT MUCH!!!!!!!!! I love my fiance dearly but we do not need a wedding the sixe of Texas
  • GLaDOS Lonna12... 2012/04/09 15:21:46 (edited)
    GLaDOS
    +1
    That's not a wedding the size of Texas. That's an average wedding with about 150 guests, flowers, a venue (cause the church generally costs) and reception hall, entertainment (neither DJ's nor musicians are cheap if they're professional), photographer and possibly a videographer (again, neither are cheap if they're professional), invitations, make-up and hair (which some women pay to have the make-up/hair person there the WHOLE time)... *thinks* That's about it. Weddings are big money.

    On the other hand, there are drive-thru chapels, or JP's. Only a couple hundred bucks there...up to a grand, maybe.
  • Lonna12... GLaDOS 2012/04/10 14:27:44
    Lonna121593
    wow. im very glad im related to ppl who ahve great skills in many of those areas
  • GLaDOS Lonna12... 2012/04/10 19:01:44
    GLaDOS
    You are very lucky, then. lol Get the family special.
  • Lonna12... GLaDOS 2012/04/11 14:39:56
    Lonna121593
    +1
    thats what im shooting for XD
  • pottercrazy1436 2012/04/09 14:09:58
    Too much
    pottercrazy1436
    +1
    Weddings are way too much money but yet again everything costs a lot these days.
  • Swartzy 2012/04/09 13:16:33
    Too much
    Swartzy
    +3
    Wedding costs are too damn high!

    Too damn high
  • Michael Hertel 2012/04/09 11:40:58
    Too much
    Michael Hertel
    +1
    Mine, with plane tickets was less than 3,000, but the was some time ago.
  • Howling Hank 2012/04/09 09:30:54
    Too much
    Howling Hank
    +2
    Wow. Princess for a day, pauper for years.
  • Xinea 2012/04/09 07:29:31
    Too much
    Xinea
    +2
    Damn lady, wanna give me some of that? It would get me halfway through college!
  • Resp 2012/04/09 04:38:32
    Too much
    Resp
    Expensive or not. It does not affect birth control.
  • glass_butterfly ~YSU~ 2012/04/09 04:13:12 (edited)
    Too much
    glass_butterfly ~YSU~
    +2
    WTF! 27,000! I would never... what the--- Ahhh! I can't even think clearly about someone spending that much on 1 day! My sister and brother in-law spent about 4-5,000 (Give or take). Not including the dress because my parents paid for it. And she had her DREAM wedding (her words) but it was also on budget and NOT a down payment for house or a new car! Her dress AND their rings all on sale too!



    Think smart even if I had almost 30 grand laying around the LAST thing I would do was to spend almost the whole thing on one day! I'd save 99% of it, and spend 1% on the wedding. People are too careless with money. I know it's a special day that you want to remember but it's not how much money you spend it's who you're spending time with, that makes it memorable! That s ridiculous GIF
  • Kiki 2012/04/09 03:23:06
  • Depsycho 2012/04/09 03:00:35
    Too much
    Depsycho
    +1
    Enough for me to say: Screw marriage!

    I don't need a ring, dress, and huge ceremony anyway to be with the one I love. :)
  • Gloria Depsycho 2012/04/09 13:51:56
    Gloria
    +1
    I have thought of registering for gifts then sending cards to my relatives & friends that point out that they never had to spend all day commuting to church. then to an event rubber chicken dinner banquet hall, then watch a bunch of drunks fight so they should reward me with some stuff!
  • ImJustSayin81 2012/04/09 02:32:22
    Too much
    ImJustSayin81
    it only seems like the more expensive it is, then the least likely the marriage will be happy. it just starts it out with loads of financial problems. and that is definitely NOT what a new couple needs
  • Dickens 2012/04/09 02:15:31
    Too much
    Dickens
    +2
    ..27 grand could be a healthy down payment on a house...then they'll have something to fight over after the divorce...
  • Bear 2012/04/09 01:49:07
    Too much
    Bear
    Way, way too much. That is not a wedding, that is a circus.
  • Apache 2012/04/09 01:42:59
    Too much
    Apache
    It depends where.
  • rightside 2012/04/09 01:38:36
    Too much
    rightside
    I could do a very nice wedding for half the price. Of course, it would be chicken instead of steak and so on.
    It should be a nice day, but it shouldn't break the bank.
  • Deactivated...? 2012/04/09 01:32:41
  • lexi Deactiv... 2012/04/09 04:33:14
    lexi
    Damn !!!? Cassie oh I get one more word now haha
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