Study: Men Paying For Sex From Prostitute Looking For True Love « CBS Las Vegas: Real life 'Pretty Woman'?

I think that certain men do, especially lonely men.
As to others, certain just want fun or a change.

Although I agree that there are many ,many singles who in their skewed perception of how to find love being so needy of it substitute the real thing for one short lived sexual relationship after another.IMHO-There's not too big of a difference.

Maybe on occasion, but usually looking for boinkage. The men I know who've used prostitutes had no illusions that the prostitutes were interested in anything other than their money, and certainly not a love relationship with their customers.

LOL, do we really need to spend time with such frivalous issues. Why don't we talk about something that is more threatening like Homeland Security purchasing 750,000 bullets. Are they expecting an army of terrorists coming to shore? Hardly, they are preparing for the riots that will take place when the bottom finally falls out from the Federal Reserve and many will be homeless and hungry. A well kept secret from the Great Depression was that 8 million died of starvation during that time.

Apparently you were caught by surprise by my treatise, but what laws have not been broken by the likes of Clinton, Bush and Obama, not to mention our government agencies that are merely 'pawns in the game' for the New World Order.

Just paying for a vagina in which to ejaculate. Nothing emotional, but better if the package looks pretty good. They all look better at closing time.

I have never been with a prostitute, but I have been with several unhappy wives, that should let those guys realize what they have at home is better.

This a complex subject many things responcible for the scene,E-technology the main culprit, youngsters the most affected,there are a Million Las Vegas replicas world over. I have much to say but nothing coming out of my brains. This a deep thing. Dear !

no, when i pay for commerical sex i just want sex.
love and or marriage is a entirely different proposition

Maybe they want a woman that isn't a prude?

The people I know who hire prostitutes do it for non-committal sex only. No one is looking for a life partner. But, if the scientists have the data, maybe it's true.

the samples that they are using are NOT typical

Probably b/c with so many women giving it away so cheaply anyway w/ woman's lib. and birth control, those who have to pay are unable to get it and desperate, so I buy it.

Thanks for adding the humor to this topic! You have no clue, no grip on reality.

you are wrong , elizabeth (?) is being honest

me too!!

Yes slowly man expecting that way only

They are not looking for love, just love to get laid.

I think that a certain group of guys manifest their feelings of loneliness, isolation, and rejection into prostitution, strip clubs, and pornography. They don't have the peace of mind to pursue a relationship out of severe anxiety toward relationships because they can't stand to be rejected. When someone is paying for a service, there's less of a chance they'll get "rejected" and will still feel validated through consummation. Cognitive Behavior Therapy is the best way for these men to address it. That way they'll work toward developing long and lasting-relationships with women instead of being the "nice guy" who actually has some dark and terrifying secrets below the surface.

Well said!

I agree with this study because it is true..., here is the problem with the way this study is being presented... These men are not looking to be in love with the women they are buying sex from....They are instead seek to satisfy there love for SEX..., the proof in this fact is.., you need not look any further than the fact that a lot of these men are married...

And at least in their mind really love their wives.., but they love the experience of sex more than their wives are willing to accommodate... So they go buy sex and go home to their wives... So on the other end of this study there should be a study that provides for women that loves to lay on their back to make money all while sacrificing having true love for themselves...

Because there is no way anyone will ever convince me that someone that is willing to place themselves in danger every time they turn a trick.., truly loves themselves...JOMO

Don't believe it.

Anyone who believes that you find true love from a hooker is delusional at best. Anyone who believes that men frequent prostitutes looking for love is just as bad.

"Pretty Woman" was a movie. Real life isn't like the movies. IMHO, a man who uses a prostitute wants no strings attached. It's strictly easy sex - no love involved.

LOL

ok?

If I was to go to a hooker, I think it would be for sex. I imagine there is someone stupid enough to go to a hooker looking for true love, but I can't imagine that there are many.

Very odd.

If they are looking for true love, here's an idea, go on dates!

they looking in the wrong places for love.

How can they love these women if these women do not even love themselves? This is truly disgusting and society needs to chill on the whole sex craze. Like they will risk ANYTHING just to get laid for like 5 minutes. Sorry but that makes no sense.

Most women in the sex industry have been sexually abused, which is why they work in this field.

Ummm ... sex craze? Are you still living in the 1950's? And you know all prostitutes don't love themselves how?

i used to be an auditor that traveled throughout the country pretty frequently. its was extremely tough to maintain any type of steady relationship under those circumstances. I was somewhat luck because i have a FWB relationship which worked out pretty well. I know professional men who do say they would pay a working girl because of both the lack of continuity in their lives and the hassle free experience, so...

Sounds like this reporter was just trying to justify his actions!

A good journalist does his research

A good journalist also stays objective.

If they were looking for love they wouldn't go for a prostitute. The prostitute isn't look for love they are loking to get paid. So why would they go for somone who isn't looking for love?

Who are these panty-waists?

I have never been with a hooker. I don't even go to strip clubs.

I guess that's why I prefer straight girls and I am open and honest about what I am looking for:

2 minutes of action followed by a long nap!

you just look for regular hoes, lol. jk

Art, I'm really starting to like you, man!

If they were looking for real love they wouldn't be searching among the type of women that sell their bodies for money