Sorry fellow sodaheads but for now I'm thinking of calling quits since many girls and many women if not some of them never date a virgin guy like me

by Cloud Posted 2012/08/14 22:18:33

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Sorry fellow sodaheads This is more of letting you know i might considering it and no no I'm not complaining and since they hate virgins they never like virgin guys like me what's the point sorry.

It's like this if a girl or a woman is still a virgin that is accepting but when a guy
is a virgin she'll never date/or marry a virgin guy they always want non
virgins if that's the case sorry but I'm giving up hope on girls and
women sorry for everything and i guess it's time just use women dump her and be impossible to get and be a complete jerk if that's such a turn on.

Sorry for saying this and i might consider in hiring escorts and prostitutes and if i do go down that road i hope god and Jesus Christ forgive me why bother waiting when they don't wait and they never like,date or marry virgin nice guys,geeks and nerds and we are cursed being virgins.

And one person says he is attach to her or won't last long in bed i know it's somewhat true and no no I'm not feeling sorry for myself and yes I'm still exploring my options and yes at times i do get sad i admit that and i feel like a giant loser and I'm cursed and most of the time i admit i am happy and yes I'm 24 years old and i still live with my parents.

Anyway sorry for this rant for now i guess there is no hope for nice guys,virgins,geeks,nerds and good guys like me oh well thanks for reading this and don't worry I'm not mad at you sodaheads and i will change my questions and change the subject.

Thanks again everyone for reading this and i don't care if you comment my last rant unless there is something i wish to say or share anything have a great weekend :).

Deandra 2012/08/19 22:35:57

I must be an exception to the rule but I only date virgins. It tells me they don't just give it up to the first person that comes along. I think that giving your gift of virginity on your wedding night is the greatest gift you could give your spouse.

Call me traditional.

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*Mahogany Goddess of P.H.A.E.T 2012/08/15 00:25:02

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Bibliophilic 2012/08/14 23:57:10 (edited)

+2
Just being nice does not make you entitled to a girlfriend or worthy of a date. What do you bring to the table? This is what you should ask yourself.

Work on making yourself attractive if you want a date. What do you need to work on? It's easy to blame women, but that's just a way to remove the focus off the self. Also, how do all women know you're a virgin? They do not and it is none of their business. There are many 20something women who are also virgins.

Also, being a 'nice guy' is not a good thing. Be a realist, a respectable man, a friend and partner instead. Niceness is not a quality that sustains a relationship, but kindness and un-selfishness is. It is possible to be assertive without being a jerkass.

People who pity you are not actually helping. You need something to motivate you to approach women and interact with them as people- not objects for you to obtain.

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Cloud to Bibliop... 2012/08/15 00:18:21

I disagree about them liking us virgins and here is my proof http://www.google.com/url?sa=... and if you disagree with this artical proof it then i will believe you about liking us and they only want experience men if you can proof me wrong otherwise but thanks for commenting

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Bibliop... to Cloud 2012/08/15 23:19:21

Ask around, there are plenty of female virgins. Most women will care much more about your character than whether you've had sex or not before. Please take what I said into consideration.

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*Mahoga... to Bibliop... 2012/08/15 00:24:18

+1
lol Ditto, plus begging isn't appealing.

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Leprachaun999 2012/08/14 22:52:55

Try an actual dating site POf or something

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Rocko 2012/08/14 22:42:57

+1
hang in there cloud there's a whole lot of fish in the sea and if someone gets o you for being a virgin tell them this ....

because they don't matter if they are willing to get on you about something so small

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Cloud to Rocko 2012/08/14 22:44:23

+1
Like i said I'm just too nice if you are nice boom friend zoned but if you are a complete jerk never care about her only care about yourself boom she loves you do the math then you'll understand what i went through/what we went through.

And she don't like guys who is attach to her what's the point beyond that and like i said i still live with my parents she'll never date/or marry me if learned of that

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Rocko to Cloud 2012/08/15 00:27:49
Relay 2012/08/14 22:33:22

+1
this is sad...
im sure women dont date you not for being a virgin...

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Maggie 2012/08/14 22:29:08

+2
Holy smokes, man. You are looking in all the wrong directions. There are plenty of girls that are actually looking for a guy that IS a virgin. Also, personally, I am one the biggest nerds around and was happy to find a guy that was one too. When I was dating, I found that I was looking in all the wrong places and had almost nothing in common with the guys I was dating. At one point a guy actually tried to trick me into thinking he was "super nerdy" (He knew nothing.) Eventually, I ended up meeting a video game/starwars/anime/super hero loving nerd like me. (:So, point is, you are AWESOME and the right girl will love you for who you are.

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Cloud to Maggie 2012/08/14 22:31:40 (edited)

Like i said I'm just too nice if you are nice boom friend zoned but if you are a complete jerk never care about her only care about yourself boom she loves you do the math then you'll understand what i went through/what we went through.

And she don't like guys who is attach to her what's the point beyond that and like i said i still live with my parents she'll never date/or marry me if learned of that

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Maggie to Cloud 2012/08/14 22:34:30

+1
Pick another girl then.

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Princess of the Fey 2012/08/14 22:22:09

+1
sex is something very serious. when a woman takes a man's body into her own, it's a sacred connection. if you're going to have sex, let it be with someone you love and who loves you. a girl wants a stud. a woman wants a man. virgin or not.

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Cloud to Princes... 2012/08/14 22:24:35

I'm just too nice if you are nice boom friend zoned but if you are a complete jerk never care about her only care about yourself boom she loves you do the math then you'll understand what i went through/what we went through

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Princes... to Cloud 2012/08/14 22:26:33

i cant understand why someone would break up with someone else because they're a virgin...

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Cloud to Princes... 2012/08/14 22:28:01

because he is attach and if he is not so attach she wants him what else do i have to say

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Princes... to Cloud 2012/08/14 22:30:11

im getting really confused here...so this lady dumped you for someone else?

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Cloud to Princes... 2012/08/14 22:34:09 (edited)

she used me to try to date my close friend and he already have someone she betray me,she broke my heart and worst of all she betray my trust and I'm speaking general about them hate virgin guys unless anyone prove me wrong otherwise with prove not just saying it

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Princes... to Cloud 2012/08/14 22:37:24

nobody hates virgins. i dont know why someone would hate virgins. she shouldnt have used you, thats wrong, but its not because you're a virgin. i think you'll be ok

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Cloud to Princes... 2012/08/14 22:39:58

prove it then I'll believe you here is my proof http://www.google.com/url?sa=... to back up what I've notice and if i have others i let you know

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Bugs Bunny 2012/08/14 22:21:59

You're quitting what?

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Lord Emperor Kami Guro Bage... 2012/08/14 22:21:00