Should you tell your partner you cheated?
ANGEL
2012/03/04 23:31:58
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SH can get pretty heated. Some polls (too many in my opinion) are created
to cause division and hatred - and I am looking for topics that bring
people to the table on issues we can all relate to. After all - whether
you want to admit it or not - there are cheaters who are involved in
Christianity, Judaism, Buddhism, Scientology, Atheism, Muslims, etc.
Cheaters can be democrats, republicans, libertarians, homosexual,
heterosexual, transsexual. And yes - cheaters can also be vegans (lol).
At any rate - its a topic where you may find that we have more in common than not.
I recently posted a poll asking whether you can forgive and forget
if you found your partner cheated. Many people responded "NO". Others
responded that they could forgive but would never forget. Given those
responses, do you think that you should tell your partner if you
cheated - or is it better left unsaid?
to cause division and hatred - and I am looking for topics that bring
people to the table on issues we can all relate to. After all - whether
you want to admit it or not - there are cheaters who are involved in
Christianity, Judaism, Buddhism, Scientology, Atheism, Muslims, etc.
Cheaters can be democrats, republicans, libertarians, homosexual,
heterosexual, transsexual. And yes - cheaters can also be vegans (lol).
At any rate - its a topic where you may find that we have more in common than not.
I recently posted a poll asking whether you can forgive and forget
if you found your partner cheated. Many people responded "NO". Others
responded that they could forgive but would never forget. Given those
responses, do you think that you should tell your partner if you
cheated - or is it better left unsaid?
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- kitsunejewel 2012/10/11 13:54:01Undecided
+1I think honesty is the best thing for a healthy relationship, but if it was a one time thing, its better left unsaid, especially if you know your never ever gonna see or hear from that person ever again and especially if it was all meaningless, just let it go, forget about it and more importantly DONT EVER EVER EVER!!!!! DO IT AGAIN!!!!!!!reply - Sayer Stewart 2012/09/13 05:14:49 (edited)Maybe+2Or better yet, don't cheat on them!reply
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+1Now THAT is the perfect solution! Don't put yourself in that position to begin with!reply
- Thomas Rea: Gay Christian A... 2012/04/30 16:47:10Yes+2If you cheated on them or on past relationship.reply
- Megan Rochelle Grim-Wise 2012/03/05 18:06:16Yes+1me and my fiance are togetehr. and we go souly based off of true love and trust. we are best of friends and best of lovers. i personaly dont think you need to be going around screwing a nother person to get the pleasurereply
- Andy Fletcher 2012/03/05 04:35:57Undecided+1Wolfstar below has the only correct answer so far. Besides myself of course. If it's time to "cheat" in the relationship, then it's time to end the relationship. The pain will likely still be intense, but at least it will honest and not compounded by deceit.reply
- Judy224 2012/03/05 01:18:06No+1No, you should never hurt someone else just to ease your own guilt. Keep your trap shut and don't do it again.reply
- ♌βļąƈʞƦơșƐ3033♌ 2012/03/04 23:58:59YesYes, before they find out from someone else or on their own and they feel more like a fool.reply
- **StarzAbove** 2012/03/04 23:47:48No+1No, why dump your guilt on someone you love. Live with it and keep quiet.reply
- Wolfstar 2012/03/04 23:44:39Undecided+2If you want to cheat" don't commit to a relationship.reply
- Jerry (Iron Priest)☮ R ☮ P ... 2012/03/04 23:41:20Undecided+1If you're never going to do it again, no. It you plan to continue, yes. Sometimes the truth is bad. More often it's good. Why ruin a good marriage and destroy the lives of your children when you can just shut the hell up?reply
- john 2012/03/04 23:38:32Maybe+1Depends how strong your relationship is, to some it will end in divorce, some will end up with a marriage that has no trust and some can work through it....reply
- Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC 2012/03/04 23:33:53Yes+2I will not cheat. But would not lie either.reply
- **Starz... Nam Era... 2012/03/04 23:48:36+1Me either. Nothing good ever comes of cheating, too many people get hurt.reply
- Nam Era... **Starz... 2012/03/05 00:14:08+1Yes and you can end up in much worse circumstances.reply
- **Starz... Nam Era... 2012/03/05 00:15:59+1That's for sure. Everyone loses.reply
