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Should you stop texting someone who never texts first?

☯♡♡Kelsie♡♡☯ 2012/06/18 21:50:17
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  • Amy.[: 2012/06/18 21:59:12
    No.
    Amy.[:
    +4
    some people don't want to text first cause they feel they annoy the other person

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  • LTan 2014/07/16 23:11:02
    Yes.
    LTan
    I think that if that person can't bother to spend a little time texting you first from time to time, that means you aren't really in their mind and you shouldn't put them in your mind. Although for me, that means that no one really likes me because nobody ever texts me first. It's either me texting them first or I just don't text anyone at all for months on end. I have received texts first but that's a rare occasion (like when I had a boyfriend for a while or if some random person from my school desperately needed help on homework or something). Wow, that made me feel like a total loner....
  • mean soklun 2014/04/25 10:05:55
    Yes.
    mean soklun
    +2
    I have never thought that I love one girl who she love other guy than me. I know her and I tell her that I know she love his bolt friend than. And now she advice me to not think about that. And i reply to her I can't stop crying for this. And now she never reply to me
  • Boetica 2013/10/03 23:39:56
    Yes.
    Boetica
    Obviously the relationship means more to you than to them.
  • nkosiykhaya.quluva 2013/10/01 14:44:59
    Yes.
    nkosiykhaya.quluva
    +2
    We both love each other so we should text each other fairly.
  • maya 2013/08/25 19:36:56
    No.
    maya
    I'm having the EXACT same problem. There's this guy that I really like and sometimes it seems like he feels the same way about me but then sometimes it seems like he doesn't. We have texted twice already but both times I started the conversation. I don't wanna annoy him by texting him too much. I told him that i didn't wanna annoy him and he said i wasn't and that he wanted to talk to me. And I feel like if he really does like me then he'll text me first but he doesn't. I would really LOVE a guy's perspective on this. It would help so much. Should I keep initiating the conversation or wait for him to text first? And how can I tell if he feels the same way about me? Thanks :)
  • Marcie maya 2013/09/16 21:58:55
  • Michael 2013/07/02 02:46:17
    Yes.
    Michael
    Im going through the same situation but Im a male texting a female. We went on a few dates, she never texts me, never calls me but when we are together everything is great. Shes even gone in for a kiss a few times. I find this very strange because she shows interest but then her not initiating the conversation via text EVER confuses me. It also makes me not want to text her just to see what would happen. I hate these kind of games.
  • dylan Michael 2013/07/19 06:20:09
    dylan
    +3
    I'm going through the same thing..
  • Kelly Michael 2013/08/17 19:53:26
    Kelly
    +1
    A male texting a female is completely different. If she is going in for a kiss, she is interested. It is not strange that she is not initiating throught text. She is not playing a game. You are male and she is female; you should initiate and she should respond, not the other way around.. it doesn't matter that it is the year 2013.
  • nkosiyk... Kelly 2013/10/01 14:42:26
    nkosiykhaya.quluva
    +2
    Im a virgo male and im goin through the same situation and its not right if she's not textin me back or call me, Virgo man like me also want to feel Appreciated and remembered so to me I'm siding With Micheal.
  • LiamPayneismybabe 2013/04/28 04:01:24
    Yes.
    LiamPayneismybabe
    +1
    Yes because this is happening to me now my friends haven't texted me in like forever! Then whenever I text them and what they're doing they say nothing u? I would say just doing this bla bla bla then they say cool and that's it then right now they're having a party and didnt even bother to invite me they never invite me to stuff..
  • Kelly LiamPay... 2013/08/17 19:57:16
    Kelly
    +3
    Right on. You don't need to text them anymore. Get the message. this person(s) already has friends he/she is spending time on a regular basis. Friendships are not based on texting; if you were friends, you guys would already be hanging out.
  • stephen.runnels.1 2013/03/16 20:34:08
    Yes.
    stephen.runnels.1
    Time is too short for jerks. Find someone who can't stop thinking about you. You deserve no less.
  • kirsty 2013/01/14 12:49:05
    No.
    kirsty
    i really like a guy but he doesnt seem that interested in me, we used to work togerther once, he got laid of because we was always together talking and not much work would be done. when he got laid of he would message first and even ask to go out for a drink. but now he doesnt message unless i message first but he does reply and will chat for hours, but he doesnt ask to meet unless i ask him but he will meet when he as time

    should i give up on him??? i really like him but dont know if he is interested at all

    i wonder if i dont message for a week or so would he even notice and even care or would he be happy????

    please help
  • Kelly kirsty 2013/08/17 19:58:13
    Kelly
    +3
    Give up on him. You should not be texting him first.
  • karinaqam Kelly 2013/09/09 05:28:09
    karinaqam
    +2
    do you mean everytime he should text you like every time???
  • Kelly karinaqam 2013/10/03 05:18:33
    Kelly
    yes . until you reach a certain point in your relationship.
  • dougiehitter 2013/01/03 16:45:46
    Yes.
    dougiehitter
    +1
    Because if he can go days and weeks without texting you or even calling then he isn't worth it. I am dealing with this too. He takes hours to text me back so its like when hr does I'm like "whatever" .
  • Sara 2012/09/13 02:00:51
    Yes.
    Sara
    I have a friend that I text but she dont answer right away but then again she a busy person and sometimes I go overboard how do I stop texten the person so many times in one day?
  • dylan Sara 2013/07/19 06:23:08
    dylan
    +2
    I found somebody else to text, and sometimes just send one text to her and that's all for the day unless she replies.
  • TheWildOne 2012/06/20 18:54:12
    No.
    TheWildOne
    you knw once i had this problem i used to text tht smeone 1st all the time but eventually i stopped talkin to tht person but after a while tht person started to talk to me daily ... so then i understood tht it was just a misunderstood idea
  • Staind_wolf94 2012/06/20 16:44:39
    No.
    Staind_wolf94
    You shouldn't, but I do. I never have a reason to text people like that.
  • Vision of Verve 2012/06/20 14:22:35
  • Just MEH....Piwan 2012/06/20 14:09:32
    Yes.
    Just MEH....Piwan
    +1
    I don't think you are asking for much for him to text you first...let him wonder for a while!
  • ☯♡♡Kels... Just ME... 2012/06/20 16:34:52
    ☯♡♡Kelsie♡♡☯
    I think I will.
  • BBCoach 2012/06/19 20:24:16
    No.
    BBCoach
    +1
    It sounds like he wants to talk, just needs an extra push in the right direction.
  • wisecracker 2012/06/19 12:49:17
    No.
    wisecracker
    Don't think so? Shoot..could he your kid!
  • Cochise 2012/06/19 12:13:19
    Yes.
    Cochise
    +1
    Yes, see if they will text you first for a change. If they don't, then they aren't that interested in talking to you. They'll text you, when they want to hear from you.
  • D D 2012/06/19 10:37:02
    Yes.
    D D
    +3
    I do not text men first.

    mitpi

    wouto
  • Luke 2012/06/19 10:30:13
    Yes.
    Luke
    +1
    If they care they will come look for you....don't chase them.....
  • Mardoch... Luke 2013/01/10 23:10:50
    Mardochee Jules
    +8
    What if they text you first once, but then after you guys talk for a while, it goes back to the way it was before? And you guys stop talking for months, and you know the perosn wont apologize again?
  • Luke Mardoch... 2013/01/11 10:41:48
    Luke
    Months? Seems like the interest is lost.... move on....
  • ★misfit★ 2012/06/19 04:03:47
    No.
    ★misfit★
    +2
    Some people simply don't feel comfortable texting or calling first. I'm one of those people. It's not that I don't like the other person, I'm just afraid of picking a bad time and bothering them. You can tell him that it's okay to text you whenever he wants. THEN if he still never texts, perhaps you should stop or do it less frequently.
  • Wild Dog 2012/06/19 02:25:41
    No.
    Wild Dog
    +2
    Dang it ,should have a maybe. It's a hard call,and being with out a reply does leave you hanging. I would say in my case ,it's because the other person lost intrest ,or had better things to do.You're right that it does suck, and all I can say ,you may have to reavaluate the relationship.
  • wisecra... Wild Dog 2012/06/19 12:52:07
    wisecracker
    +1
    Agree with maybe!
  • Wild Dog wisecra... 2012/06/19 13:00:48
    Wild Dog
    Well ,yes it's hard ,and I like to text ,although talking is better sometimes.I don't know, for a guy things are different sometimes ,but even we get a sense of being dropped when we get no reply, and experience has shown me sometimes the relationship fades, and ther's not much you can do about it .I don't really push myself on people who may have lost intrest in me.
  • wisecra... Wild Dog 2012/06/19 13:07:01
    wisecracker
    +1
    I just think as long as when you text, even first...the important thing is they jump into it, even by calling!
  • greicy Wild Dog 2013/03/05 06:58:34
    greicy
    +3
    I have the same prob xcept none of my friiends text me first unles they need something I wish I had a friends who'd text me Lyk I text them
  • Wonder Woman 2012/06/19 02:02:59
  • Soot Th... Wonder ... 2012/06/19 03:47:23
    Soot The Fallen
    +1
    Thier are exceptions and I consider myself such an example. I just chose not to show it.

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