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Should the guy pay on the first date?

Linda 2008/03/25 14:42:49
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I don't know about you guys, but I always have to pay for my own food on dates...
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  • B. Wizz 2010/06/30 05:27:35 (edited)
    Undecided
    B. Wizz
    I'm a very independent woman, and I [enjoy] paying my own way, not to intimidate the man, but just to let him know that I am financially stable, and other then not having anyone to hold me at night I am G-O-O-D. Now a'days, these young boys think that if they pay for you, you owe them something. I never want to give a guy that chance.
  • Gwynodd 2008/10/07 20:09:32 (edited)
    No
    Gwynodd
    Depends on who asked who out. If I had asked a guy out I would pay likewise if a guy asked me out I would expect him to pay. I'm old fashion that way.
  • Hachi the Moofish 2008/08/10 00:09:27
    Yes
    Hachi the Moofish
    I think it's best to split half in half.
  • Kai-Neko 2008/07/24 23:42:31
    Yes
    Kai-Neko
    +1
    A REAL MAN! should pay or at least offer to pay on every date he goes on. Me personally dont date men but if i did i would love for the man to offer to pay. I would of course insist no. but its very good for men to do that. its the way it works.
  • Shrek 2008/04/16 14:31:11
    Yes
    Shrek
    +1
    Always. It's a sign of respect.
  • bobert 2008/04/15 05:47:22
    Undecided
    bobert
    +1
    That is such a tough question...On one hand women wanna be treated as equals, so no. Then some women (not many) are old fashioned and I think, yes. But I believe most women want to have the cake and eat it too.

    Question: When dating, If a man always pays for everything and they have sex, is she a prostitute?
  • Linda bobert 2008/04/15 11:41:26
    Linda
    hahaha. no I don't think she is a prostitute if they have sex after he paid for everything. But I always pay my own food so that he wont think that I use him if I never wanna see him again....lol
  • bobert Linda 2008/04/15 22:13:12
    bobert
    That's cool. But honestly, I've rarely met a girl who has offered to pay. I just grab the check right away to avoid the embarrassing awkwardness that can occur if I don't.
  • Rose 2008/04/15 05:31:27
    Yes
    Rose
    +1
    I always offer to pay my half or agree to pay for the drinks or the desserts, simply because I like to pay my own way. Plus there is the rule of the person who makes the invitation should pay, whilst I usually offer and will sometimes pay a smaller portion of the bill, I still believe this rule.
  • Glit 2008/04/15 02:03:50
    Yes
    Glit
    +1
    If he asks you out, he should definitely pay. Tip and all. Unless he's young and a student or something, then you can offer to pay the tip. But he should pay it anyway.
  • Ripped1X... 2008/04/14 20:14:42
    Yes
    Ripped1X...
    +2
    I haven't been on a first date in a while but I would have to say your dating the wrong guys Linda.
  • Linda Ripped1... 2008/04/14 20:54:25
    Linda
    Haha, yeah I guess so lol
  • Ripped1... Linda 2008/04/14 21:11:49
    Ripped1X...
    +2
    Were all the men in Sweden dropped on their head as babies?
  • Linda Ripped1... 2008/04/16 13:56:12
    Linda
    +1
    hahaha, problably! lol
  • Ripped1... Linda 2008/04/16 16:02:05
    Ripped1X...
    +1
    Come to America men would be lined up to date you and smile as they picked up the tab.
  • Linda Ripped1... 2008/04/16 17:17:02
    Linda
    haha, nawww that's sweet lol
  • KIPSPIKE 2008/04/14 18:43:11 (edited)
    Yes
    KIPSPIKE
    +4
    Yes, unless he want's to start a relationship already in the hole.
  • Zach 2008/04/14 18:00:07
    No
    Zach
    +2
    If the guy asked the girl out the guy should pay. If the girl asked the guy out the girl should pay. Its not right to invite someone out and expect them to pay the bill... Unless you are a homeless guy or something.
  • Rockies 2008/04/14 12:00:20
    Yes
    Rockies
    +5
    Hmmmm that's a no brainer.. I'd pay the first time and any time that follows.
  • byebye ... Rockies 2008/04/14 12:02:17
    byebye ,I love you,gotta go
    +3
    Lets go Eagle ...my kinda guy! :)xoxoxo
  • Rockies byebye ... 2008/04/14 13:16:52
    Rockies
    +3
    I always aim to please....
  • Gracie ~Gun Totin' Gracie~ 2008/04/14 03:08:40 (edited)
    Yes
    Gracie ~Gun Totin' Gracie~
    +4
    If he wants to eat lol I never paid for anything on my dates.
  • ElectricLadybug*SH07* 2008/04/14 02:59:00
    Undecided
    ElectricLadybug*SH07*
    +2
    I think if he offers, then I would let him and I would pick up the tip and offer to buy him a drink or two. But under any other circumstance I would offer to pay my half!
  • Yes
    ⚜Ellen⚜ ☼True American Patriot ☼
    +8
    if i were to invite someone, i would pay! if he ask me, then he would, but i would have to offer to help with the tip, i think.
  • rushsup... ⚜Ellen⚜... 2008/04/14 02:58:35
    rushsupporter
    +3
    wrong!
  • ⚜Ellen⚜... rushsup... 2008/04/14 03:00:34
    ⚜Ellen⚜ ☼True American Patriot ☼
    +4
    right!
  • rushsup... ⚜Ellen⚜... 2008/04/14 03:06:05
    rushsupporter
    +3
    ok you win!
  • ⚜Ellen⚜... rushsup... 2008/04/14 03:16:37
    ⚜Ellen⚜ ☼True American Patriot ☼
    +4
    i would pay for you, if i invited you,,,,,but if you invite me,,,,boy,,,will you pay!! lol!
  • rushsup... ⚜Ellen⚜... 2008/04/14 03:22:32
    rushsupporter
    +3
    got me comin and goin both ways!
  • the vin... rushsup... 2008/04/14 13:15:36
    the vin-man
    +3
    Reminds me of a question::Do you know why urine is yellow and semen is white??




    So a Polack can tell if he's coming or going.HaHa!

    PLEASE.. Dont mail me people its only a joke..LOL
  • Roberto... the vin... 2008/04/14 20:17:43
    Roberto-Pro-America-Anti Obama
    My step-father used to say, "How do you know how to put on your underwear? Yellow goes in the front and brown in the back."
  • Glit Roberto... 2008/04/15 02:05:30
    Glit
    +1
    Ha-ha. Cute.
  • the vin... Roberto... 2008/04/15 03:47:41
    the vin-man
    +3
    Good one. LMAO
  • the vin... ⚜Ellen⚜... 2008/04/14 13:10:50
    the vin-man
    +4
    I had a feeling you were high maintenance.I generally use coupons on a first date.I guess that aint gonna fly with you.LMBO
  • the vin... ⚜Ellen⚜... 2008/04/14 03:22:02
    the vin-man
    +4
    You're my kind of woman Ellen.This "equal woman thing can sometimes get confuseing. Sometimes the woman gets offended if the man pays.Oh Lord help me. I'm just trying to get thru the evening with enough Pluses to get my foot in the door,.Then I'll take over!!
  • ⚜Ellen⚜... the vin... 2008/04/14 04:00:41
    ⚜Ellen⚜ ☼True American Patriot ☼
    +2
    LMBO!! gotta be alot of pressure, right!
    you poor guys....
  • byebye ... the vin... 2008/04/14 12:03:25
    byebye ,I love you,gotta go
    +2
    Vin you & Rush are paying on my side LOL
  • Ripped1... ⚜Ellen⚜... 2008/04/14 20:13:03
    Ripped1X...
    +1
    Hey Ellen wanna buy me lunch?
  • ⚜Ellen⚜... Ripped1... 2008/04/15 00:47:17
    ⚜Ellen⚜ ☼True American Patriot ☼
    i sure would! if i say hey ripped,,,wanna go out friday evening to a new place i just discovered, i think it would be a place you would really like.
    if you said yes,,,,the treat would be on me.
    see, i wouldn't even ask, if i couldn't afford it.
    but you better hope i don't see those new shoes i've been wanting,,,
    or there goes our date money!!!
  • Ripped1... ⚜Ellen⚜... 2008/04/15 15:28:17
    Ripped1X...
    +1
    That was a trick question and you just get up to early for me to slip one by you, BTW more details on the shoes maybe would could just skip dinner. LOL
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