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Should the guy always pay on a date?

GoDucks5 2011/10/04 23:29:47
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  • Garciataria 2011/10/05 16:30:58
    No
    Garciataria
    +9
    Let the couple decide. But if the guy does pay, the girl should be responsible enough not to drive up his bill just because she knows he's paying.

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  • Meownessez 2011/12/05 07:36:39
    No
    Meownessez
    +1
    well me and my bf take turns paying when we go out =)
  • Jack the Dude 2011/10/26 00:11:54
    Yes
    Jack the Dude
    +1
    Unfortunately.
  • drreverol 2011/10/26 00:10:03
    No
    drreverol
    +1
    Don't think so. I mean, the chick's as able to get money as the guy, so. That's kinda lame. Though, I would like it to be like that...
  • SundayStoleYourCookieDough 2011/10/17 13:18:27
    No
    SundayStoleYourCookieDough
    +1
    I have to say, as a girl, it would be nice to have him pay on the first date, and then just split the bill or something after that.
  • EricVanSingleton 2011/10/10 23:56:48
    No
    EricVanSingleton
    +1
    Unless it's been decided beforehand that it's a Dutch treat, the person extending the invitation should be prepared to pick up the tab.
  • Toby 2011/10/09 11:01:45 (edited)
  • dontcallmedarling0103 2011/10/09 09:23:50
    Undecided
    dontcallmedarling0103
    +1
    they dont have to but it makes it more romantic so i tthink they should but if they cant afford it or sumthing like that theres nothing we can do about it so i would b more than happy to pay
  • Unrestrained 2011/10/08 03:39:14
    No
    Unrestrained
    +1
    No guys want to be wined and dined too!! ( Don't worry fellas , I got your back )
  • exsecrare 2011/10/07 23:53:31
    No
    exsecrare
    +1
    My wife pays all the time... Granted, it is my money she's paying with.
  • Tori 2011/10/07 03:28:37
    Yes
    Tori
    +1
    Not always though. The woman needs to show that shes commited too and not in for the money.
  • dlsofsetx 2011/10/06 23:36:19
    Yes
    dlsofsetx
    +1
    There are exceptions,but for the most part,yes.
  • Coco Allie 2011/10/06 18:11:38 (edited)
    Undecided
    Coco Allie
    +1
    If it's one of the first few dates, definitely. But if the couple is actually dating and going out frequently, it's okay for the girl to pay her half and maybe the guy treats her to stuff sometimes. That's what I'd do at least.
  • dontcal... Coco Allie 2011/10/09 09:24:43
    dontcallmedarling0103
    agreed
  • Billy the kid 2011/10/06 16:13:20 (edited)
    Undecided
    Billy the kid
    +1
    That always used to be the way 'in my day' but they do say " The Past is a foreign Country-they do things differently there"- don't they!!

    Sharethe past is another country
  • Vegas Dude 2011/10/06 15:09:20
    Yes
    Vegas Dude
    +1
    Especially if he is the one who asks you to go out with him. Now, if the woman asked, I would have to say, offer to pay your own way. That way you show that you can at least be responsible.
  • william 2011/10/06 14:57:15
    No
    william
    +1
    women should pay too. they like to run thier mouth all the time. i,m as equal as you ,so pay up.
  • Ld-G 2011/10/06 13:10:17
    Yes
    Ld-G
    +1
    But maybe it will be better if both pay, so it will be fair--
  • gothbride666 2011/10/06 07:22:30
    Yes
    gothbride666
    +1
    guys consider themselves as a man.so b a man & pay.
  • Andrew 2011/10/06 06:28:28
    Yes
    Andrew
    +1
    Unless he has money.
  • Jamacc 2011/10/06 04:10:37
    Yes
    Jamacc
    +1
    Unless it is just a friend, but on a real date the guy should offer and leave the decision up to the woman to accept or decline.
  • maythinn 2011/10/06 03:33:54
    No
    maythinn
    +1
    Ohh come on.. it's 2011... Women got income too...!
  • BB 2011/10/06 03:21:17 (edited)
    Undecided
    BB
    +1

    "I wish i could be gay. I would not enjoy the sex I would have to get through the sex but it would be worth it to be able to split the occasional bill"
  • kennypart1 2011/10/06 02:25:07
    No
    kennypart1
    +2
    Let the girl pay sometimes, this way she will understand the cost of going out
  • Anna E 2011/10/06 02:06:48
    No
    Anna E
    +1
    I think it depends upon how either feel about asking out and paying.
  • rayray 2011/10/06 01:26:35
    No
    rayray
    +1
    no he should pay most times but not all the times becuz it shows that the girl is spoiled
  • Summer 2011/10/06 00:58:48
    Undecided
    Summer
    +1
    It depends on the situation. In our family the one who asks the other out pays. If you ask a girl out then yeah, it is your ticket. If she asks then it is hers. If you do plan for it to be "dutch" then be sure to let her know so she can be sure to have her part of the ticket with her, or decline the date. Personally I am old school in that. If a guy asked me out and told me he expected me to pay for my part of the tab, I would llikely decline to go out with him.
    A guy usually asks a girl out because he is interested in her. If that is the case, asking her to help pay for a date he asked for in the first place would not impress her much.
  • highdesertgemini 2011/10/06 00:30:30
    No
    highdesertgemini
    +2
    Traditionally speaking, yes. However, as our world changes, so do our traditions, and this one is no exception. I think, for most of us and for various reasons, the guy always paying just doesn't work!
  • Boris Badinov 2011/10/05 22:37:21
    Yes
    Boris Badinov
    +3
    I don't care what she says. It's what she wants .
  • John Storz 2011/10/05 22:34:50
    No
    John Storz
    +2
    Women should pay
  • *Next To You* 2011/10/05 22:26:47
    No
    *Next To You*
    +1
    sometimes i want to pay
  • kawaiigurl1234 2011/10/05 22:19:40
    No
    kawaiigurl1234
    +1
    Girls should pay too but guys should pay on the 1st date
  • Manu 2011/10/05 22:15:13
    No
    Manu
    +1
    it's nice from them to pay on a date but i don't understand that women that say "a man MUST pay on the date" why?
  • Resp 2011/10/05 21:36:57
    No
    Resp
    +2
    Women should pay also!

    However, if a gay male couple go out to dinner, doesn't the guy always pay?
  • 1Actual Resp 2011/10/06 01:37:01
    1Actual
    hahahahahahahahaha!
  • TeamKauLiSchaf 2011/10/05 20:52:51
    Undecided
    TeamKauLiSchaf
    +2
    Who ever asks the other out.
  • SmithBandit 2011/10/05 20:52:03
    Undecided
    SmithBandit
    +2
    the girl should definitely offer to pay sometimes too, but other times let her guy cover her
  • Mario 2011/10/05 20:51:01 (edited)
    Undecided
    Mario
    +2
    I don't really feel comfortable if women pay, however I would like to think that if by chance I am broke and she asks me out that she picks up the tab.



    Its only fair that if I gladly pay for most of the dates that she selflessly pay for some when I can't.
  • TruXter 2011/10/05 20:47:48
    Yes
    TruXter
    +3
    Yes and the woman should always be a lady.
    If you expect a man to be a man and do certain man type things
    wEll then you should do your part.

    or you can take out your own damn trash, mow your own yard, fix both of yall's cars
    plan full navigation before leaving home (try it, you will see why we refuse directions)

    and yeah, maybe you sat there and watched your dad do some of this stuff and think or can say you know how to do this stuff, but do you do it? can you admit to yourself you do?
    90% of you just lied to yourself and think that you can lie to me. Enjoy reality when you get here.... k?
  • Summer TruXter 2011/10/06 01:02:49
    Summer
    I have no man in my life..never have and I have to do all the things that get done by myself, which can be funny to see , like changing a tire..I have to jump up and down on the jack to loosen the lugnut enough for me to remove it. lol
  • Mrs Reckless 2011/10/05 20:43:58
    Undecided
    Mrs Reckless
    +3
    If the girl asks the guy out, she should pay, but the guy should still offer
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