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Should More Christians Adopt?

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Author Jason Locy wrote an opinion article for CNN claiming that advocates who don't support gay adoption -- he mentions Southern Baptist Christians in particular -- should be adopting children themselves to make up for their stance.

[W]e might compare the number of American orphans to the purported 16 million Southern Baptists who attend more than 42,000 churches nationwide. Quick math reveals that there are roughly 138 Southern Baptists for every child in the American foster care system waiting to be adopted. To say it another way, this single denomination has an enormous opportunity to eradicate the orphan crisis in America.

Locy notes that even some churches and religious organizations, such as Focus on the Family and Christianity Today, have made similar statements regarding Christian adoption, and the results were noticeable in orphan statistics.

Read More: http://religion.blogs.cnn.com/2011/06/16/my-take-o...

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  • meg 2011/06/16 20:20:07
    No
    meg
    +10
    I don't think religion has anything to do with rather or not you should adopt a child.

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  • MorbidCynic 2011/12/30 19:53:39
    Yes
    MorbidCynic
    Thanks to the damn government more than before people can't afford to adopt.
  • AnimaniacClur 2011/08/09 20:34:18
    Yes
    AnimaniacClur
    More people in general should, and by banning gay adoption, that deprives lots of kids of a family and a home. :(
  • 2011/07/22 00:13:23
    Yes
    yep,but we all do not understand christianity,have we forgotten that JESUS said if you have two give your brother one.but adoption has everything to do with christianity.because i know christianity is a scrifice.christianity is just like a wise saying very defficult to understand.and also if you can not make sacrifices don't call yourself as a christain maybe something like a church goer.Thank you.
  • schjaz 2011/06/27 16:43:36
    Yes
    schjaz
    If you do not believe in pro choice you should try to adopt.
  • Chibi 2011/06/26 23:03:51
    Yes
    Chibi
    +1
    I do think more people should adopt, but not necessarily just Christians. If they are good people and want to adopt, I think they should. There are too many children and teens out there with no real parents who need good homes to go to. We have enough children in the world already.
  • Yuki ~ ♦Lion King of PHÆT♦ 2011/06/20 20:37:25
    Yes
    Yuki ~ ♦Lion King of PHÆT♦
    +1
    Whether someone should adopt has more to go on their ability to parent, rather than religion.

    But those who take a stance against gay adoption should stop to consider that if they have their way, they are denying a good number of children opportunity to find a good, loving, stable home-- in which case, shouldn't they show their sincerity regarding the purported interest of the children by encouraging more adoption rather than trying to stultify it?
  • Yes
    Algor. Mortis. - ҎԊǢɬ Physician
    +1
    More people, in general, should adopt.
  • DiViews2013 2011/06/18 23:50:05
    No
    DiViews2013
    The wealthy should adopt more children and pay decent wages. Both of these comments are bordering on the absurd. You cannot blanket cover a religion.
  • seathanaich 2011/06/18 00:00:56
    No
    seathanaich
    In other words, "Adopting out of Spite".

    Sounds like it would fit right in with most of the other religious "values" we're all familiar with.

    This article doesn't make a disctinction between adopting babies, and adopting foster children. Considering that there are more parents than children to be adopted, I don't think we need more adoptive parents. However, adopting foster children - ie those who are no longer cute little babies - is something that most societies need more of. It's a huge commitment, and certainly an emotional risk, the older the child is.

    The more fundamentally religious a couple is, the worse candidates they are for being parents, whether by adoption or otherwise, unfortunately.
  • morrisonist 2011/06/17 20:54:01
    No
    morrisonist
    they should kidnap
  • kresge 2011/06/17 18:45:34
    No
    kresge
    Adoption has nothing to do with religion, but unfortunately it oftens has to do with money and many people in the church don't qualify. Also many people in the church have had a past lifestyle that makes them ineligible. Having said that, I know MANY believers who have successfully adopted, and currently have a friend bringing back 2 boys from from the Ukraine any day now!

    What I would really like to see is the requirements for adoption lessend for those children languishing in fostercare.......a loving heart and permanent family should trump a separate bedroom, minimal income, cpr classes, number of kids in the family, length of marriage, etc. I would adopt a foster child in an instant if I could qualify!!
  • Lolaita 2011/06/17 17:32:42
    Yes
    Lolaita
    HELL YES. If YOU'RE not going to do your part, but are going to bar other people from giving a home to a child in foster care, then you're an idiot and should not be procreating.
  • edifyguy 2011/06/17 17:14:03
    Yes
    edifyguy
    +1
    Actually, it is a stinging criticism precisely because it is so apt. However, it is very costly, and the government makes it such that a traditional family would almost be required to lie in order to pass their absurd criteria for adopting.
  • patriot 2011/06/17 16:38:57
    No
    patriot
    Huge amounts of us do. I am one. I know many, many. Get a life.
  • Fef 2011/06/17 16:11:19
    Yes
    Fef
    +1
    More Jews, Catholics and other good parents .... should adopt. Unfortunately, the the government keeps interfering with adoption by imposing Leftist social-engineering policies to encourage politically correct families (i.e. families without a dad, without a mom, without married parents, etc...).
  • sjalan Fef 2011/08/21 19:55:47 (edited)
    sjalan
    Fef, you seem to have an unstated agenda here in your statement. Just what would that be, That you think ONLY Jews, Catholics and "other good parents" should be allowed to adopt?

    Sounds to me you are being more restictive of who should be parents than the government is.

    Presently there are nearly over 3 million homeless children in the US. Additionally there are over 600000 are in foster care. Of those 3 million over 500000 are throwaways. These numbers have constantly risen over the last 10 years. Of those 500000 more than half have either run away from abusive homes (physical or sexual). More than 100000 of them are homosexual. What are just about all of them doing? Making a living on the street has only two options, running drugs or the sex trade. These figures come from several different organizations and government agencies.

    Let's look at some of those kids that are on the streets.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?...

    How did most of them get there? all sorts of reasons. But our nation is not willing to stop the atrocities of war and attend to our own in the US.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?...

    YOU TELL ME WHY, A qualified individual or couple, regardless of marriage status, living arraingment, sexual orientation, income level or religious affilation, should not...
    Fef, you seem to have an unstated agenda here in your statement. Just what would that be, That you think ONLY Jews, Catholics and "other good parents" should be allowed to adopt?

    Sounds to me you are being more restictive of who should be parents than the government is.

    Presently there are nearly over 3 million homeless children in the US. Additionally there are over 600000 are in foster care. Of those 3 million over 500000 are throwaways. These numbers have constantly risen over the last 10 years. Of those 500000 more than half have either run away from abusive homes (physical or sexual). More than 100000 of them are homosexual. What are just about all of them doing? Making a living on the street has only two options, running drugs or the sex trade. These figures come from several different organizations and government agencies.

    Let's look at some of those kids that are on the streets.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?...

    How did most of them get there? all sorts of reasons. But our nation is not willing to stop the atrocities of war and attend to our own in the US.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?...

    YOU TELL ME WHY, A qualified individual or couple, regardless of marriage status, living arraingment, sexual orientation, income level or religious affilation, should not be allowed to adopt and get help in doing so.
    (more)
  • Fef sjalan 2011/08/21 23:28:36
    Fef
    Kids need a male and female role model as parents.
  • sjalan Fef 2011/08/22 04:10:16
    sjalan
    Really? Seems to me if you kept up with the latest statistics, you would find that more than 50% of families are single parent families. Your contention that children NEED a male and female role model if frankly false and does not reflect reality. I have dozens of friends that lived in single parent families and every single one of them turned out just fine. Actually most of them turned out stronger for the experience and now have successful marriages of their own.

    As for you bias against single parent households, lets put it all on the table. What other forms of households don't you like?
  • weenyboy 2011/06/17 16:05:36
    Yes
    weenyboy
    +2
    Adopt? Adopt to what exactly? That perhaps they NOW live in the 21st century and should start thinking like 21st century thinkers and not revert back to their place in the 19th century were they feel most comfortable?
    Of course you are referring to adoption OF CHILDREN, no doubt. That should simply be available to EVERYONE who truly loves kids (me excluded)! Gays included but perhaps no crazies like the evangelicals who are truly nuts!
  • The Sane One 2011/06/17 15:56:33
    Yes
    The Sane One
    +1
    Since they are campaigning against abortion, they should adopt those that would have been aborted.

    The downside of that is that the kids will be indoctrinated into that church and its way of thinking...
  • Headhunter 13 2011/06/17 15:47:45
    No
    Headhunter 13
    +1
    We have more than enough children being taught superstitions christian or otherwise
  • JJ 2011/06/17 15:37:04
    Yes
    JJ
    +1
    Well balanced christians should adopt if that's what they want to do. Children of all ages need a good home and love.
  • freebirdie 2011/06/17 15:24:32
    No
    freebirdie
    +1
    Anyone have a spare $20,000.00+ I can have (not borrow)? Most people don't adopt because it's so expensive, and in these hard times... It's one thing to take kids in for foster care (even then you have to pass umteen thousand inspections and have the govt breathing down your neck--which in most cases isn't a bad thing!), but it's another thing to go broke trying to adopt and then raise the kids in poverty.
    I am all for Christians adopting, but be realistic about it. It's not just a matter of taking in the needy. If it were I think most Christians would jump on it yesterday, so they send their small change to places that care for children. There are many poor people who would make GREAT adoptive and foster parents but can't because of regulations. They can't have this or that wrong with their house, etc. I can also understand why the govt has controls in this area. Child slavery and abuse should never be tolerated. In one South American country I heard that the price to adopt is so high and the rules are so rigid there because of buying children for witchcraft rituals. I can't remember the name of the country but I remember being surprised to hear that.
    I can see the need for rules but it throws the baby out with the bathwater in many instances. It would be great if it were a case-by-case thing but it's not.
  • The San... freebirdie 2011/06/17 15:58:01
    The Sane One
    And in that case, if you can't walk the walk.... don't talk the talk.

    Stay out of the abortion debate, if you're not able/willing to adopt.
  • Lanikai The San... 2011/06/17 16:09:21
    Lanikai
    +1
    Abortion and adoption are two separate issues. Don't be a lying beast, muslims don't believe in abortion either-ask them to adopt more, OR, ask people who have sex to be responsible for the outcome of that encounter. MAKE those doing the effing TAKE RESPONSIBILITY.

    OMG I know personal responsibility is a filthy thing to libs, but give it a try.
  • The San... Lanikai 2011/06/17 16:19:32
    The Sane One
    Muslims aren't the ones trying to make abortion a litmus test for political office, nor are they the ones trying to prevent sexual education efforts by defunding programs that actually work.

    And once again-- I'm not a liberal, I'm a libertarian leaning republican who ties personal liberty with personal responsibility
  • socokid 2011/06/17 15:17:01
    Yes
    socokid
    Everyone that can should think about it, not just Christians. I think it is about awareness (they made it a point in their organization, so it helped. Not a surprise). If we were to fund a marketing campaign that reached EVERYone concerning orphans in this country, you would see results from all sectors IMO.
  • Matthew Frankwitt 2011/06/17 14:53:29
    No
    Matthew Frankwitt
    +1
    Religion is not a basis for adoption. Just like sexual orientation isn't.
  • Steel Town 2011/06/17 14:50:13
  • Chaya2010 2011/06/17 14:45:43
    Yes
    Chaya2010
    More people generally should adopt it breaks my heart.
  • David 2011/06/17 14:45:21
    No
    David
    No, they should just keep their mouths shut and let gays do the adopting for them.
  • Blue 2011/06/17 14:43:47
    No
    Blue
    MORE PEOPLE SHOULD ADOPT (instead of pumping out kids every hour on the hour)!
  • cmdrbnd007 2011/06/17 14:14:51
    Yes
    cmdrbnd007
    If they can afford it but then I think anyone that can afford it and wants to should adopt.
  • wow-really 2011/06/17 14:11:54
    Yes
    wow-really
    I can see why Christians would be the logical choice to pick on regarding whether or not they should practice what they preach, but kids in need of a home don't care what religion you are, if you're gay or straight, what college you did or di not attend, how much money you make, what kind of a car you drive, how much hair you do or don't have, or how coool you are.

    A kid who needs a parent only cares if you are kind, loving, and willing..
    Willing to share your home, love unconditionally, and give them the family they so desparately need and want.
    I know this for a fact, because I see and hear it everyday, and if I could, I'd take them all....
    I'd be like the old woman in a shoe, except I'm P.H.A.T , not old......... LOL!!

    Peace.
  • Flowers 2011/06/17 13:49:39
    No
    Flowers
    +2
    Just because they are christians doesn't mean they will be good parents, or that they will take care of the orphaned child. I do think alot are hypocritical to say gay's can't and SHOULDN'T adopt but then refuse to step up and help these children
  • bluelady 2011/06/17 13:48:42
    Yes
    bluelady
    I would,hubby says NO however...he thinks we are too old,since in our late 50's
  • LilMissLOL 2011/06/17 13:35:04
    Yes
    LilMissLOL
    Why just Christians? everyone should.
  • Ηɑppƴ Ɲiɧiℓisʈ 2011/06/17 13:25:34
    No
    Ηɑppƴ Ɲiɧiℓisʈ
    ....
  • authorgirl 2011/06/17 13:23:51
    No
    authorgirl
    +1
    everyone should adopt, not just Christians. that's why i said no.

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