Should More Christians Adopt?
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2011/06/16 20:18:46
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Author Jason Locy wrote an opinion article for CNN claiming that advocates who don't support gay adoption -- he mentions Southern Baptist Christians in particular -- should be adopting children themselves to make up for their stance.
Locy notes that even some churches and religious organizations, such as Focus on the Family and Christianity Today, have made similar statements regarding Christian adoption, and the results were noticeable in orphan statistics.
[W]e might compare the number of American orphans to the purported 16 million Southern Baptists who attend more than 42,000 churches nationwide. Quick math reveals that there are roughly 138 Southern Baptists for every child in the American foster care system waiting to be adopted. To say it another way, this single denomination has an enormous opportunity to eradicate the orphan crisis in America.
Locy notes that even some churches and religious organizations, such as Focus on the Family and Christianity Today, have made similar statements regarding Christian adoption, and the results were noticeable in orphan statistics.
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But those who take a stance against gay adoption should stop to consider that if they have their way, they are denying a good number of children opportunity to find a good, loving, stable home-- in which case, shouldn't they show their sincerity regarding the purported interest of the children by encouraging more adoption rather than trying to stultify it?
Sounds like it would fit right in with most of the other religious "values" we're all familiar with.
This article doesn't make a disctinction between adopting babies, and adopting foster children. Considering that there are more parents than children to be adopted, I don't think we need more adoptive parents. However, adopting foster children - ie those who are no longer cute little babies - is something that most societies need more of. It's a huge commitment, and certainly an emotional risk, the older the child is.
The more fundamentally religious a couple is, the worse candidates they are for being parents, whether by adoption or otherwise, unfortunately.
What I would really like to see is the requirements for adoption lessend for those children languishing in fostercare.......a loving heart and permanent family should trump a separate bedroom, minimal income, cpr classes, number of kids in the family, length of marriage, etc. I would adopt a foster child in an instant if I could qualify!!
Sounds to me you are being more restictive of who should be parents than the government is.
Presently there are nearly over 3 million homeless children in the US. Additionally there are over 600000 are in foster care. Of those 3 million over 500000 are throwaways. These numbers have constantly risen over the last 10 years. Of those 500000 more than half have either run away from abusive homes (physical or sexual). More than 100000 of them are homosexual. What are just about all of them doing? Making a living on the street has only two options, running drugs or the sex trade. These figures come from several different organizations and government agencies.
Let's look at some of those kids that are on the streets.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?...
How did most of them get there? all sorts of reasons. But our nation is not willing to stop the atrocities of war and attend to our own in the US.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?...
YOU TELL ME WHY, A qualified individual or couple, regardless of marriage status, living arraingment, sexual orientation, income level or religious affilation, should not...
Sounds to me you are being more restictive of who should be parents than the government is.
Presently there are nearly over 3 million homeless children in the US. Additionally there are over 600000 are in foster care. Of those 3 million over 500000 are throwaways. These numbers have constantly risen over the last 10 years. Of those 500000 more than half have either run away from abusive homes (physical or sexual). More than 100000 of them are homosexual. What are just about all of them doing? Making a living on the street has only two options, running drugs or the sex trade. These figures come from several different organizations and government agencies.
Let's look at some of those kids that are on the streets.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?...
How did most of them get there? all sorts of reasons. But our nation is not willing to stop the atrocities of war and attend to our own in the US.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?...
YOU TELL ME WHY, A qualified individual or couple, regardless of marriage status, living arraingment, sexual orientation, income level or religious affilation, should not be allowed to adopt and get help in doing so.
As for you bias against single parent households, lets put it all on the table. What other forms of households don't you like?
Of course you are referring to adoption OF CHILDREN, no doubt. That should simply be available to EVERYONE who truly loves kids (me excluded)! Gays included but perhaps no crazies like the evangelicals who are truly nuts!
The downside of that is that the kids will be indoctrinated into that church and its way of thinking...
I am all for Christians adopting, but be realistic about it. It's not just a matter of taking in the needy. If it were I think most Christians would jump on it yesterday, so they send their small change to places that care for children. There are many poor people who would make GREAT adoptive and foster parents but can't because of regulations. They can't have this or that wrong with their house, etc. I can also understand why the govt has controls in this area. Child slavery and abuse should never be tolerated. In one South American country I heard that the price to adopt is so high and the rules are so rigid there because of buying children for witchcraft rituals. I can't remember the name of the country but I remember being surprised to hear that.
I can see the need for rules but it throws the baby out with the bathwater in many instances. It would be great if it were a case-by-case thing but it's not.
Stay out of the abortion debate, if you're not able/willing to adopt.
OMG I know personal responsibility is a filthy thing to libs, but give it a try.
And once again-- I'm not a liberal, I'm a libertarian leaning republican who ties personal liberty with personal responsibility
A kid who needs a parent only cares if you are kind, loving, and willing..
Willing to share your home, love unconditionally, and give them the family they so desparately need and want.
I know this for a fact, because I see and hear it everyday, and if I could, I'd take them all....
I'd be like the old woman in a shoe, except I'm P.H.A.T , not old......... LOL!!
Peace.