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Should miscarried fetuses get a funeral and burial?

Dave The Canuck 2012/08/15 04:55:42
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  • NarcolepticGoat 2012/08/17 00:43:26
    Undecided
    NarcolepticGoat
    Sometimes the Mother and/or Father might need something like that.
  • Vision of Verve 2012/08/17 00:19:48
  • jgh57 2012/08/17 00:03:03
    Undecided
    jgh57
    It really depends on the parents. I've seen parents who wanted to bury miscarriages at barely 20 weeks and I've seen babys that died at full term that the parents wanred nothing to do with it.
  • SA 2012/08/16 23:19:48
    Undecided
    SA
    It should be the parents decision.
  • MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/08/16 23:06:59
    Undecided
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    I've never had to deal with this devastation so I can't say, that's up to the parents to decide. Their money, their call.
  • Iamfree 2012/08/16 04:35:14
    Depends how far in the pregnancy they died
    Iamfree
    +1
    I think it is a personal thing for the grieving parents to decide.
  • Dydy 2012/08/16 04:32:25
    Depends how far in the pregnancy they died
    Dydy
    +1
    That decision is completely based on the parents' beliefs and morals. In my opionion, I wouldn't do a full funeral service for a miscarried fetus if it was only less than a month, but if I was 8 months and I lost my baby then I woulda small funeral. However, i would want to bury my fetus, no matter what stage, it seems appropriate to me.
  • La 2012/08/15 23:53:20
    Undecided
    La
    Burial, yes, if the mother wants. A miscarriage is a very, very personal thing though. A woman has lost a baby, but apart from the mother and possibly the father, no one else is in mourning....I don't think a funeral is appropriate.
  • LunarRain 2012/08/15 20:39:57
    Undecided
    LunarRain
    +1
    Depends on what the parents want to do. That would be one akward funeral though what are you supose to say you didn't eve know the kid. o.o
  • Leprachaun999 2012/08/15 19:18:17
    Undecided
    Leprachaun999
    +1
    Depends on the parents.
  • Vijay Pawar 2012/08/15 16:15:44
    Yes
    Vijay Pawar
    +1
    No funeral..... but at least a burial.... as it also is a death which is in-matured.
  • terrabytes 2012/08/15 15:31:37
    Yes
    terrabytes
    +1
    but given by the parents.
  • me being me 2012/08/15 15:28:54
    Yes
    me being me
    +2
    I gave mine one:(
    It can be a private one. It doesn't have to be one u need to pay for.
  • u000 me bein... 2012/08/15 23:06:54
  • me bein... u000 2012/08/15 23:08:29
    me being me
    +1
    Thank you. It was about 14 yrs ago, but I still wonder about what he or she would have looked like and what his or her mannerisms would have been.
  • Iamfree me bein... 2012/08/16 04:36:51
    Iamfree
    +1
    I understand your feelings. I lost my first baby 25 years ago. I'm so sorry.
  • me bein... Iamfree 2012/08/16 05:09:29
    me being me
    +1
    Thank u. I'm sorry as well for ur loss:-(
  • Wayne TH G 333 2012/08/15 15:28:34
    Undecided
    Wayne TH G 333
    +3
    That should be for the parents to decide.
  • lolo 2012/08/15 15:26:26
    Yes
    lolo
    I think so.
  • Drebi 2012/08/15 15:18:34
    Undecided
    Drebi
    +2
    If their parents want to have a funeral or memorial, then why not?
  • ▼♥☆Greencone☆♥▼ PB90s 2012/08/15 13:42:23
    Undecided
    ▼♥☆Greencone☆♥▼ PB90s
    +1
    I think it should depend on whether the pregnant women and her boyfriend want a funeral or not.
  • Cantus_bird 2012/08/15 13:10:26
    Yes
    Cantus_bird
    +3
    If it helps give closure, then yes ....... personally for me? ... i had a good cry and moved on to be blessed with another child months later.
  • DizziNY 2012/08/15 11:14:29
    Yes
    DizziNY
    Absolutely.
  • NKULE 2012/08/15 09:00:20
    Undecided
    NKULE
    it depends on the persons beliefs
  • mewycg 2012/08/15 08:05:27 (edited)
    Undecided
    mewycg
    +3
    It's up to the parents.
  • Rob Williams 2012/08/15 07:44:19
    Undecided
    Rob Williams
    +2
    The funeral and burial/cremation are, ultimately, for the surviving family members so it depends on what they want.
  • sockpuppet 2012/08/15 05:02:25
    Undecided
    sockpuppet
    +1
    Depends on how the parents want to handle it. It's for their benefit, after all.
  • Dave The Canuck 2012/08/15 05:00:25 (edited)
    Depends how far in the pregnancy they died
    Dave The Canuck
    I really thought of voting 'yes' but a funeral for a two month embryo seems just a little too odd to be worthwhile. Yet, I'm kinda for a funeral at any stage, as it's alive and biologically human all through the nine months of development. Call me nuts, but that's my honest opinion. Now, let's say, for example, that a car hits a pregnant woman who is due to give birth in two weeks. She survives but loses her baby. She is deeply devastated and horror-struck at not loving and looking after the child she and her husband were hoping for. I wouldn't blame her for wanting her baby to be remembered and buried with dignity. If I were her or her husband, that's what I'd want.
  • DizziNY Dave Th... 2012/08/15 11:15:26 (edited)
    DizziNY
    +1
    Too odd to be worthwhile? It's a life. Do you think like that about retarded people who are vegetables? You don't think a woman who has a miscarriage at any point during the pregnancy is devastated? I'm not trying to be mean here but the callousness people have towards life of all species these days, is mind boggling. It makes me sick.
  • Dave Th... DizziNY 2012/08/15 15:42:30
    Dave The Canuck
    +1
    You're right. I should have voted yes.
  • me bein... Dave Th... 2012/08/15 23:14:50
    me being me
    +1
    It's ok. Until you experience it for urself or know someone that is going through it, it's really difficult to see the need behind it.
  • Simmering Frog 2012/08/15 04:57:50
    Yes
    Simmering Frog
    +3
    Yes, if the parents decide it is appropriate.

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