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chris 2009/06/16 03:42:25
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ok im going out with this girl and i really like her. a lot. i have a friend who loves me (she says she truely loves me) and well...i like her back. but let me tell u this right now... i would NEVER EVER cheat on my gf for the girl. my gf and this girl are good friends and i was going to tell her tonight that i like her because i dont want to lie to her. a few days ago she asked if i liked anyone and i said no because she was feeling rreally bad about what people are saying about us going out so i didnt want her to feel even worse. i hate lieing to her so i want to tell her...but..i also dont want to hurt her and have her think ill dump her or cheat. so im just askin for some advise.
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  • bpm 2009/06/16 12:26:17
    dont tell her (if so give a good reason)
    bpm
    +2
    i say dont tell her cause i know even if my girlfreind kows i wont cheat on her if i told her i liked someone then she would b pissed and dump me but if ur girlfreind is really understanding and she could take that then u can tell her if u want but i think u just shouldnt

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  • livi 2009/07/05 00:15:30
    tell her
    livi
    wait WHAT? im sorry but u used way too many pronouns for me to tell what you were talking about! but honesty is always the answer- or usually i guess- so if you like the other girl more, tell your gf!!! plus maybe you'd have a chance w the other girl, who i don't like bcuz she put you in this situation in the first place when she KNEW that you had a girlfriend.
  • kickass bitch 2009/06/18 13:12:40
    tell her
    kickass bitch
    tell her before some else finds out then you go thro alot of drama i know where you are just tell her it'll be alot easier
  • :D 2009/06/18 00:36:44
    dont tell her (if so give a good reason)
    :D
    well... from all u peeps bein mi friends.... i have no FREAKIN idea and i should therefore not input on these whole Relationship issues. Soo... all i have to say is GOOD LUCK!!
  • 123456789? 2009/06/17 00:06:05
    dont tell her (if so give a good reason)
    123456789?
    +1
    you know what happened when you told alexis you like miranda it was hell..
  • chris 123456789? 2009/06/17 00:14:23
    chris
    yeah...but zoe is much more understanding and you know i would never cheat on a gf
  • Lexi(NI... chris 2009/06/17 14:52:37
    Lexi(NINJA)
    More understanding my ass....She barely likes you. Why are y'all even goin out?
  • chris Lexi(NI... 2009/06/18 02:38:23
    chris
    she is more understanding. i told her and she was more upset that i lied.
  • Lexi(NI... chris 2009/06/18 02:39:48
    Lexi(NINJA)
    lol ha. You should know never to lie. Come one.
  • chris Lexi(NI... 2009/06/18 02:41:11
    chris
    i was protecting her. she was extreamly upset and that would have killed her
  • Lexi(NI... chris 2009/06/18 02:45:25
    Lexi(NINJA)
    Oh wow. You know that really never works when you try to "protect" a girl. I'm just sayin
  • chris Lexi(NI... 2009/06/18 02:49:03
    chris
    well seeing as how she was mad for 5 min diffies your logic
  • Lexi(NI... chris 2009/06/18 02:52:37
    Lexi(NINJA)
    You ass. Ugh i can't wait till I'm right. I know i will be. I mean this cant last long.
  • curious... Lexi(NI... 2009/06/23 22:24:16
    curious george :]]
    you have no idea how big of a bitch you are do you??
    i mean first your a bitch to shawnie
    and NEVER even apologize for it
    and expect her to go back to the way it was?
    you must be a dumbass too
    so dont you dare say i dont like him!
    cause i sure as hell do!
    so fuck off
    and i know you still like him
    just to let you know
    he thinks your a bitch
    so get out of his fucking business
    cause nethier me shawnie or chris want anything to do with you..
    understand?
  • chris curious... 2009/06/24 06:53:43
    chris
    just one thing to say to that....DAAAMMMMNNNNN SHE GOT BURRNNEEDD
  • Lexi(NI... chris 2009/06/24 16:35:37
    Lexi(NINJA)
    oh shut up
  • Lexi(NI... curious... 2009/06/24 16:35:19
    Lexi(NINJA)
    I'm a bitch?????? You're the one that is a bitch! Shut the fuck up and go back to being the whore you are. I never asked for your opinion on this so fuck off! And yeah i did apologize to shawn ok. You know nothing about that so again FUCK OFF!!!!!!!!!! Don't tell me what to do either. I'll be in any body's business if i want. Now do you understand?
  • curious... Lexi(NI... 2009/06/25 19:53:40
    curious george :]]
    yeah i guess i understandd... yeah im the whore... okk... your the one that TRIED to have sex with chris! your the one that WANTED to have sex with reggie... the thing is reggie thinks your repulsive... when you wanted to kiss him that day you went to the pool... the day after he said that if he did that he would of thrown up afterwords... so yeah.. your the bitch.. your the slut ... your the whore... chris told me how you had like 5 bfs at a time.. so where do you have the place to call me a whore? and by the way... chris doesnt want you back now and he never will.... so you should fuck off... because what i hear from people... especially shawnie..... that dont want you there.... lets hope this gets through your thick skull
  • Lexi(NI... curious... 2009/07/01 12:44:04
    Lexi(NINJA)
    Yes i know. I'm sorry. Thank you for this.
  • chris Lexi(NI... 2009/06/26 02:19:09
    chris
    yes your the [...] and you NEVER EVER talk to my gf that way do you understand me?!? everything she is saying is true so instead of her telling you to fuck off i am. not even your so called 'best friend' shawn wants to talk to you anymore! all you fucking do is say everyones a jackass and bitch then go storm off or cry or get mad when someone says your being a fuckin whore!! and you do not tell zoe to fuck off because you dont have the right! and screw that anyone can tell you what to do anytime they want! and you are not gettinginto our buiness for any reason because we dont want you in it and you shouldent fuckin try to be!! so instead of asking her if she understands im asking you. do you understand?
  • Lexi(NI... chris 2009/07/01 12:43:31
    Lexi(NINJA)
    Yeah i understand. And thanks.
  • 123456789? chris 2009/06/17 16:24:34
    123456789?
    watev do whatu want
  • bpm 2009/06/16 12:26:17
    dont tell her (if so give a good reason)
    bpm
    +2
    i say dont tell her cause i know even if my girlfreind kows i wont cheat on her if i told her i liked someone then she would b pissed and dump me but if ur girlfreind is really understanding and she could take that then u can tell her if u want but i think u just shouldnt
  • sky blue pink - American 2009/06/16 11:30:28
    tell her
    sky blue pink - American
    +2
    before someone else does.
  • tell her
    ♥♥Mαkαylα~AKA~♪♪♫♥♥[makαy,mickey &smiley!!]♥♥♫♪♪
    +1
    Its better telling her now than living with the secret. Ive been there and I felt bad the whole time...I ended up losing him because he heard it from someone else.
  • keya 2009/06/16 04:03:03 (edited)
    tell her
    keya
    +1
    do what your heart tells u to do. i think u should tell her because someday she might figure out this little secret and then there goes your relationship. its not good lieing to your grilfriend. i think she would like to hear it from u and not from a friend. if u lie u might lose her so i think u should tell her the truth.
  • The prestige 2009/06/16 04:01:58
    dont tell her (if so give a good reason)
    The prestige
    +1
    don't tell she just a girlfriend one day it will be over so for now just have fun
  • bri bri *sexy ninja's* 2009/06/16 03:56:55
    tell her
    bri bri *sexy ninja's*
    +1
    i think it would be best to tell her...if i was in her position i think i would wat to know.........i think if you dont tell her and she finds out from someone else it would hurt her way more than hearing it from you
  • chris bri bri... 2009/06/16 03:58:35
    chris
    +1
    yeah thats what i was thinking i just didnt want to hurt her when she was already really sad today
  • bri bri... chris 2009/06/16 04:00:21
    bri bri *sexy ninja's*
    +1
    oh.....well its better than having a secret and trying to hide it.....you know what i mean??? i have alot of friends that were in your position and all the 3 guys lost there GFs because they lied
  • Annie 2009/06/16 03:55:21
    tell her
    Annie
    +1
    you have to think boy who do you want to be with?
  • chris Annie 2009/06/16 03:57:06
    chris
    zoe diffinatly
  • Annie chris 2009/06/16 03:58:33
    Annie
    +1
    Then be with her and be happy and if Maranda truly likes you she will wait maybe there may be a time where its her turn.
  • chris Annie 2009/06/16 04:00:02
    chris
    ooohhh nooooo im sorry you didnt understand. i am and will be with zoe. i just dnt want to lie to her about me likeing miranda
  • Annie chris 2009/06/16 04:01:12
    Annie
    +1
    so you do or don't like miranda? lol
  • Lexi(NINJA) 2009/06/16 03:52:05
    tell her
    Lexi(NINJA)
    So who is which girl?
  • chris Lexi(NI... 2009/06/16 03:54:09
    chris
    +1
    im going out with zoe and the girl is miranda (remember her)
  • Lexi(NI... chris 2009/06/16 03:55:02
    Lexi(NINJA)
    I don't remember her. Whos that?
  • chris Lexi(NI... 2009/06/16 03:57:27
    chris
    +1
    the girl i liked that u like cried over when we were going out
  • Lexi(NI... chris 2009/06/16 03:58:24
    Lexi(NINJA)
    +1
    omg her again!?!. jeez...
  • chris Lexi(NI... 2009/06/16 04:00:20
    chris
    +1
    i actualy never stoped likeing her

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