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Should I dump him?

Dezerae<3 2012/03/21 20:34:24
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Me and my boyfriend have a lot of ups and downs... It may be just me but this is the last straw now... This is nothing compared to all of the other shit he's done to hurt me... My friend/worst enemy (complicated relationship) went up to me while I was talking to my friend Brandon and told me that Zack was texting Angela telling her that he loved her and if anything happened between him and I then he would go out with her, and that she holds a "special place" in his heart just like me... Wtd? Does he have like, a back-up plan or something??? >:( He's hurt me before, and I remember him promising me that he wouldn't anymore. Once is enough, twice is just wrong, but three times?! Now I'm starting to see why all my friends hate him and are constantly telling me to do better..... I'm desperate for advice, I've turned to here for a personal problem.. Jeez:/ But it helps to have somebody who doesn't really know either of us to help.. You know, so I don't get advice because somebody has a favorite or anything..
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  • zbacku 2012/03/21 20:44:30
    Dump his sorry ass!
    zbacku
    +3
    When you have all the facts that he is a jerk, no need to ask others. Get out now.

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  • ella 2012/04/15 05:30:03
    Talk to him first
    ella
    +2
    You need to tell him to stop one more time but if he does it again then dump him
  • PonToki 2012/03/24 20:31:19
    Talk to him first
    PonToki
    By talk, I mean tell him he's a jerk. Then dump him.
  • Glenn Mitchell 2012/03/22 12:52:26
    Dump his sorry ass!
    Glenn Mitchell
    Your boyfriend is not honest with you and that will never change.
  • Simply Dana :) 2012/03/22 10:08:59
    Dump his sorry ass!
    Simply Dana :)
    right look when u first dated him did u want him two have 2 at a time ... no then u shouldnt have anything stoping u from dumping him and finding mr perfect well hes not it so the sooner the better
  • XxDêâTHwΊhxX 2012/03/22 08:27:19
    Dump his sorry ass!
    XxDêâTHwΊhxX
    +1
    thats rlly mean...he doesnt deserve u. if hes just doin all these stupid things to hurt u then why bother being with him any longer, its just gunna hurt more n more over time. what u need is a guy whos really gunna love you who wont even dare to hurt you. u never kno, he might do something behind ur back. he rlly rlly doesnt deserve u... T^T
  • METALheadMom 2012/03/22 03:09:46
    Dump his sorry ass!
    METALheadMom
    I can't understand why you need to ask. Anyone who tells you to "talk to him", obviously knows NOTHING about guys like this. He has NO intention of changing, promises are just made to shut you up, and YES, he is working on having a "back up". Trust me, there is nothing you can do, and he doesn't care anyway. How many times do you have to have something in your face before you SEE it?
  • Mustang Girl 2012/03/22 00:03:31
    Dump his sorry ass!
    Mustang Girl
    I am no expert myself when it comes to relationships but I know a bum when I hear about one. You said it yourself, Once is a mistake, twice is on purpose, & three stricks he's out!!!!
  • Bingo's Faddah 2012/03/21 22:20:38
    Dump his sorry ass!
    Bingo's Faddah
    +1
    Men are swine; we can't help it. If you're not happy in a relationship, end it. You're young and the idea is to search for possibilities for a "forever" relationship. Imagine spending a lifetime with that wurst?
    Don't forget, there's always the possibility that your paths may cross in the future; after you both mature a bit. Be careful, and get out there and have some fun!

    lifetime wurst forget possibility paths cross future mature careful fun
  • ENCHANTMENTINTHEWIND 2012/03/21 21:36:39
    Dump his sorry ass!
    ENCHANTMENTINTHEWIND
  • Heisenberg 2012/03/21 21:27:16
    Dump his sorry ass!
    Heisenberg
    +1
    You need to drop that guy. He's too toxic, and he's more trouble than he's worth. It sounds to me like all he wants is a girlfriend to stroke his ego and boost his social status. If he has this special place in his heart for that other girl, it's time to drop him like a ton of bricks. Rest assured if he's hurt you before, he'll do it again.
  • bluttrell23 2012/03/21 21:16:29
    Dump his sorry ass!
    bluttrell23
    +1
    Hay Dez I was in a relationship, we had our ups and downs. We didn't know who we where, We didn't know how to express to one to one another. One day we had a fight, it was bad, so bad to where we didn't talk to each other for months. For months we didn't speak to each other, and in that time frame she got another BF he was nothing, he was a dead beat. He hurt her to the point where she didn't want to live. I herd about the incident from a friend, I went to talk to her. I was her crying shoulder for 6 months strait. She finely let it go she told me every thing ( not going into detail ) I was going to ask her on a date when I realized what she had done. she pulled a 360. she went back to the same guy, she used me. I wasn't her crying shoulder I was her puppet. when she was crying on my shoulder she lied. she was with him while she was crying on my shoulder.
    I am going to protect you Dez, leave, leave before it gets to late and you end up like me.
    Listen to your friends, those are the people how love you, and those are the people who are true.
  • Chris- Demon of the PHAET 2012/03/21 21:13:05
    Dump his sorry ass!
    Chris- Demon of the PHAET
    +1
    If one of your friends was in your situation and she asked you what to what would you tell her?
    My advice? Bye Bye Zack and don't look back!
  • Sister Jean 2012/03/21 21:05:44
    Let it go
    Sister Jean
  • angela 2012/03/21 20:44:39
    Dump his sorry ass!
    angela
    +1
    You can do much better! Just tell him you don't want to go out with him
  • zbacku 2012/03/21 20:44:30
    Dump his sorry ass!
    zbacku
    +3
    When you have all the facts that he is a jerk, no need to ask others. Get out now.

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