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Should Gyms Ban Skinny People?

SodaHead Living 2012/06/20 20:53:29
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Did you ever notice that most gyms are filled with skinny people? So did Wendy McNary, an overweight woman in her early fifties who felt too out of place to join a fitness club. Until she discovered Body Exchange. You see, Body Exchange, in North Vancouver, Canada, admits only plus-size women.

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For Wendy McNary, Body Exchange was exactly the kind of environment she was looking for. “It’s intimidating going into a gym setting,” she told The Province. “I honestly think some people in a gym setting are judgmental to people who are overweight or have a different body type.”

Now, she exercises six days a week, is training for her second 5K race and is down 50 pounds. But does it make sense to ban fit people from the gym? Louise Green, founder and CEO of Body Exchange, thinks it does. “Many of our clients have not had successful fitness pasts so I can see the anxiety before we get started and I can see the relief and happiness after we finish,” Green told The Province. “People are often too fearful to become active. There wasn’t a model that offered camaraderie.”

But we have to wonder: Do they throw you out once you slim down? How do they decide who is too skinny to join? And wouldn’t a gym that’s only for thin people offend everybody? Hmm…
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  • Rubyking 2012/06/20 20:56:40
    No
    Rubyking
    +24
    what if the skinny people want to bulk up. It's a freaking gymnasium, not a weight loss center.

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  • Sakus<3 2012/06/21 03:42:10
    No
    Sakus<3
    +2
    Why do you think they're skinny? They have a healthy diet, know portion control, and exercise.
  • TheBorg Sakus<3 2012/06/21 04:40:25
    TheBorg
    Seriously, did you intentionally leave out genetics? You really thing every single person on this planet is the same and genetics has no part what-so-ever?
    http://www.weightawareness.co...
  • Sakus<3 TheBorg 2012/06/21 04:51:00
    Sakus<3
    +2
    No, I don't think everyone has the same genetics as me, but I really don't find that to be a valid excuse. Both my parents are well over weight and always have been, but I'm still normal sized.
  • PonToki 2012/06/21 03:40:28
    No
    PonToki
    +2
    This is pretty much one of the stupidest questions I've seen here on Sodahead. That's saying something. Gyms are about people being healthy. Its not only about losing weight, but maintaining a healthy one and staying fit.

    If she's more comfortable with working out around other plus size women that's fine, but I don't think gyms should be banning skinny people. At the very least, skinny people could provide motivation.
  • Stef an... PonToki 2012/06/21 06:25:46
    Stef and the City
    +1
    They should open up a Mcdonalds in the gym too so that they can all grab a Big Mac when they're done working out. It makes the same amount of sense.
  • Quiet-is-feared 2012/06/21 03:30:39
    No
    Quiet-is-feared
    +1
    No.
    If she feels too out of place that's her own mental problem she has to over come.
    Maybe if she didn't worry so much about her size or stopped comparing herself to people she would work on her main goal.. to lose the weight.
  • wtw 2012/06/21 03:30:34
    No
    wtw
    +4
    How do you think they stay skinny? Most People in a gym love to see others that are overweight working out--I personally root them on because many of us were overweight or would be if we stopped working out--people are rooting for them! We want to see more and even want them to fill the gym--we care about them!
  • DavidKyles 2012/06/21 03:27:03
    No
    DavidKyles
    I agree that this question is worded poorly, but then so are many of the questions I find here. I would love to find a gym that only catered to people whom are maybe no less than two percent over their suggested BMI, as the hugest reason I don't go to a gym is the uncomfortable environment of being vulnerable around a bunch of fit people high on ego and hormones after a long workout which makes them feel they are better than me and not afraid to make me feel it too. I do however understand that because many people don't go to the gym to work out (which is mainly the problem here), there should be plenty of gyms that cater to the established athletes so they can find their next date or entertain themselves or work toward breaking some record or what not. Both places should exist, and could easily exist in tandem with each other in any community.
  • Dee DavidKyles 2012/07/11 09:52:10 (edited)
    Dee
    You shouldn't feel that way. There are jerks everywhere - just accept that and ignore them.
    Believe it or not, some of those extremely fit people worked so hard, and made such strict changes in diet (when I say diet - I do not mean you need to starve to death but rather eat healthy).

    *****And some of those fit people would actually take time to explain how to work out and help you. Trust me, I live with one... If I showed you his before and after photos, there is no way in the world you would ever believe he did it in 8 months.

    From fatty (230ish lbs) to toned, with defined muscles, fat-free (180ish lbs).
    No illegal or unhealthy products, just regular exercise and adjusted diet.

    We have awesome working hrs 5am - noon, so we go to the gym after work. Only people that really want to work out are there between 7am and 5pm.

    Facebook fitness is usually 6-8pm. :) [that's the way we call those that are there to be seen or hook up]

    BTW, if we applied that logic, he would have to change gyms now..
  • it'skrissie!d:) 2012/06/21 03:26:13
    Yes
    it'skrissie!d:)
    And before everyone goes, WTH? Let me clarify why I picked yes. For all gyms, obviously not. I mean, weight doesn't just stay off. You have to keep it off. But I think there should be a few gyms that allow plus-size women. Can you imagine a five-hundred pound woman going into the gym and all the skinny people look at her with disgust? I mean, that can just make you want to turn around and leave right there, and the point of going to a gym is to lose weight, but still have that welcome, motivation-providing gym. I am not saying every gym should do that, because that would be crazy. Just maybe one or two in cities and places. I think that people should go to a place they feel more comfortable being at. I think that helps overweight people be able to go to a gym, work out, and not feel self-conscious while sitting next to a guy with a six pack and a girl with a perfect body.
  • Mud it'skri... 2012/06/21 03:56:03
    Mud
    +3
    Look, if someone is 500 lbs, they're gonna get those looks of disgust Everywhere.. Why is the gym any different? If anything, being around all those fit people should motivate them to change. If someone is ashamed of how big they are, they should eat healthier and exercise more and fix it. It's really as easy as calories in vs. calories out.
  • art1ej Mud 2012/06/21 06:08:39
    art1ej
    "Look, if someone is 500 lbs, they're gonna get those looks of disgust Everywhere." thats so true lol....
  • it'skri... Mud 2012/06/21 20:23:53
    it'skrissie!d:)
    I know, but is a six-hundred pound woman going to look at another woman coming into a plus-size gym going to judge? No, of course. At least for people like that, they can leave those feelings of embarrassment behind and simply exercise. You're right, sometimes that is motivation for other people, sometimes it isn't.
  • S123 it'skri... 2012/06/21 20:44:58
    S123
    I think a lot of other people would have voted yes if the question was phrased better, so it didn't sould like they were talking about all gyms.
  • it'skri... S123 2012/06/22 16:44:55
    it'skrissie!d:)
    I agree. The question probably should have been phrased better.
  • S123 it'skri... 2012/06/22 19:51:50
    S123
    +1
    I think I'll asking the question rephrased.
  • shadow76 2012/06/21 03:25:23
    No
    shadow76
    +1
    Skinny people need gyms to stay that way enough of the banning!
  • evan 2012/06/21 03:21:44
    No
    evan
    +1
    Skinny people need to stay in shape so that they don't turn fat. Isn't that the point of gyms.
  • Melody 2012/06/21 03:19:41
    No
    Melody
    The the frick kind of question is that..?!
  • Christopher Kirchen 2012/06/21 03:15:58
    No
    Christopher Kirchen
    +1
    I'm not skinny and even I think such a ban would just be whining.
  • Shae 2012/06/21 03:15:09
    Yes
    Shae
    +3
    Gyms in general, no of course not. I do see a place for a gym for plus size only people though. It is a bit intimidating joining a gym even being a little overweight, let alone obese. Most people who are 40, 50, 60 plus pounds overweight aren't going to be comfortable working out in front of a bunch of fit people. I say yes to anything that motivates overweight people to change their ways and get healthy!!!
  • skyebrand 2012/06/21 03:10:23
    No
    skyebrand
    Huh? This is a stupid question! I'm NOT one of those super skinny women but even I can see that gyms are not just for weight loss. Many people go to the gym to tone up, for self confidence or just a social outlet (like my sister).
  • C1. 2012/06/21 03:07:27
    No
    C1.
    +2
    This question needs to be re-written. It can easily be misconstrued to the effect of "All gyms should ban skinny people." Which would be unfair as those people are skinny as a result of being dedicated to their workout routines, and therefor their gyms.
  • S123 C1. 2012/06/21 20:46:52
    S123
    I agree. It should say somthing like "Are plus size only gyms a good idea?"
  • Tannenberg1993 2012/06/21 03:06:31
    No
    Tannenberg1993
    I'm skinny, but anyone can tell I'm not some kind of ultra-fit jerk who lives to pump iron and impress girls. If more gyms started doing this kind of thing, what are shrimps like me supposed to do?
  • S123 2012/06/21 03:05:21
    No
    S123
    +1
    If you mean all gyms then definetly not. I think that Body Exchange is a good idea, though, it sounds like it could help some people.
  • Mario Rodgers 2012/06/21 03:04:59
    No
    Mario Rodgers
    What if the skinny people want to do strength training?
  • TheDeadAreLiving 2012/06/21 03:04:24
    No
    TheDeadAreLiving
    +2
    "Skinny" and "in shape" are two totally different things
  • scumbagstyle 2012/06/21 03:00:05
    No
    scumbagstyle
    +2
    What? No. Get over it. We are all at the gym for the same reason: we have body image issues. Different stages of fitness development should not make a difference when we are all working toward similar goals. I've been fat and in shape, and I haven't been judged in either scenario at the gym. Stop making up excuses and work the heck out.
  • DavidKyles scumbag... 2012/06/21 03:36:13
    DavidKyles
    Congratulations for you, but that isn't the world at large. Different stages of fitness development should not make a difference, true, but not everyone is working toward the same goal and not everyone is as enlightened as you. Even if you don't know because you have not experienced it, I promise you that alienation because of weight is not a cruelty that died on the playground, and it is hard as hell to stay motivated when you have people snickering behind you, poking you as you walk past, or blatantly saying "Oh hey, you know this is a gym, right? The doughnut shop is two doors down." So again, congratulations to you, but that isn't the world at large and we have not all been so lucky...
  • scumbag... DavidKyles 2012/07/24 03:45:52
    scumbagstyle
    Consider me chastised :)
  • Kaley Gilbert 2012/06/21 02:59:24
    Yes
    Kaley Gilbert
    Crap.... I accidentally hit yes, when I meant to answer no. I can understand where the woman is coming from, but everyone's entitled to work out despite if they need to lose weight. Going to the gym isn't just about losing weight, it's about staying healty and active.
  • Aubrie77 2012/06/21 02:57:50
    No
    Aubrie77
    +2
    What happens when the plus- sized people lose weight due to working out at this gym? Do they get kicked out?
  • C1. Aubrie77 2012/06/21 03:09:03
    C1.
    +2
    Very good point. I was actually thinking the same thing. :D
  • Gerald 2012/06/21 02:45:41
    No
    Gerald
    +2
    "Should Gyms Ban Skinny People?" Wow. That is literally 1 of the most stupid questions (that's actually meant to be taken seriously), that I've yet seen on here. Banning people form a gym, for being too healthy/in shape. Brilliant. You want to ban people from working out at gyms, because you're self conscience about having an ass that is the size of New Hampshire? *News Flash!* Your ass isn't supposed to have it's own zip code! You know, If you actually lift something other than a "power bar" at the gym, maybe you'd drop a few pounds. Here's a tip. The row of treadmills at the gym, they're actually meant to be used for "exercise" & not just for leaning against while yapping with your fatty-fat fatso-flab friends about which all-you-can-eat buffet you should "invade" after your "workout". F@#%ing idiots.
  • DavidKyles Gerald 2012/06/21 03:43:25
    DavidKyles
    And...this is why this gym was born. Many like you seem to think the moment an overweight person comes in, they don't belong there. Somehow, you see them "leaning on the treadmills yapping with their fat friends" the moment they walk in the door for the first time, and consciously or not then proceed to chase them away to keep your gym pure with people whom are actually there to work out. People who belong there. People whom are fit, and strong, and clearly care about their health unlike the slob that just walked in the door because they missed the doughnut shop two doors down, right? *sigh* Yeah...that's what overweight people want a gym for, to lean and talk in front of a bunch of self-righteous zealots about sabotaging their health and wasting the gym membership they've paid months in advance for. You got them all figured out.
  • Gerald DavidKyles 2012/06/23 13:51:52
    Gerald
    A gym is for exercise. It should be open to ANY & ALL people who want to exercise & get fit. ANY & ALL people who want to exercise, BELONG there. But just because somebody is self conscience about being a fat A$$, it doesn't mean that I should be banned from a gym.
  • Faith ~American Patriot~ 2012/06/21 02:21:31
    No
    Faith ~American Patriot~
    +3
    Overweight people would lose their minds if they were ever banned from a gym only for "skinny people".
  • DavidKyles Faith ~... 2012/06/21 03:44:11
    DavidKyles
    lol, not really. Many already feel banned.
  • Mud DavidKyles 2012/06/21 04:06:07
    Mud
    +3
    If they feel banned its because of their own twisted perception on the issue, not because of any real weight limit at a gym.. This is talking about reality, not perception. If someone is out of shape and is serious about change, they need to suck it up and just do it, who cares if people look down on you, if you get in the gym and kick ass and they see you making progress, I guarantee not only would it make you more confident, but they would respect you for doing something about your problem.. When did the world devolve into a bunch of crybabies? I can't go to the gym cause people make fun of me? Seriously? Grow a spine says I. Btw, I was 215 lbs and fat, changed my lifestyle and now I'm in shape. No one had to hold my hand. The road to what you want is always fraught with hardship, the trick is to overcome it and get what you want..

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