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Should A Christian University Fired A Woman For "living in sin"?

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A Colorado woman claims she was unfairly fired from her job at a private, Christian liberal arts university after administrators asked if she was "living in sin" with her boyfriend.

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  • Waiting in the Wings 2012/05/10 12:09:09 (edited)
    Yes
    Waiting in the Wings
    +10
    While I don't approve of her firing, it's a private, not a public, institution. If she's signed a "morality clause" or something just like it and she violated it (living in sin) than they have the authority to do so. I'm surprised that she's surprised because it's a private Christian school. Had it been a public school my answer would have been VERY different.

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  • Andy Lady Wh... 2012/05/10 15:04:51
    Andy
    +1
    Then she does not have to apply or work there... it is a choice on both sides!!
  • Lady Wh... Andy 2012/05/10 13:44:54
    Lady Whitewolf
    yup
  • Tasine Lady Wh... 2012/05/10 13:09:41
    Tasine
    +2
    Actually it IS. Religious schools have a moral code they want and NEED to reflect through the people they hire and keep on staff. To do otherwise can harm them greatly. No one is saying this person doesn't have every right to live as she pleases, but she has no right to expect her employer to overlook her indiscretions.

    Caveat: I, too, "live in sin". And the first time I went to my church after moving in with my man, I offered to resign as pianist FOR THE VERY REASON I THINK THE UNIVERSITY DID WHAT THEY NEEDED TO DO. The neat thing about my church (Southern Baptist), Texas, is that they didn't want me to resign. They said church is not designed for saints, but for sinners. But that was a small church, everyone contributing to it knew the circumstances, nothing was secretive, and I continued playing for them until I moved to Arizona.
  • GERARD MARTIN 2012/05/10 09:47:39
    No
    GERARD MARTIN
    Jesus said to forgive the sinner, love him, pray for him. (I'm sure he meant "hers" too).

    (I hope he practices what he preaches when I get to see Him!)

    In this instance, however, the woman was not living in Sin. Jehovah said very early in the Bible "Be fruitful and multiply, replenish the earth! He didn't say "get married first". In fact, one could not get married then, because their were no churches, preachers, mayors, or Justices of the Peace then! (Strange, He never told us when the Earth was first plenished!)
  • EmoMcParland 2012/05/10 09:39:28
    Yes
    EmoMcParland
    +7
    My answer is maybe; IF she signed a contract and there was a clause that stated she couldn't live with anyone unmarried, she's out of luck. If there wasnt a clause then my answer would be different.
  • Alice Evie 2012/05/10 08:09:22
    No
    Alice Evie
    +1
    thats ridiculous! but if it harms the school's reputation in a way, they should try to reason with her, but firing her is too much
  • Andy Alice Evie 2012/05/10 12:35:07
    Andy
    +2
    Do we know if they tried to reason with her??
  • Alice Evie Andy 2012/05/10 13:10:03
    Alice Evie
    +1
    we dont
  • Andy Alice Evie 2012/05/10 15:05:54
    Andy
    So... putting blame on the school is a MUTE point
  • Andy Fl... Alice Evie 2012/05/10 13:38:02
    Andy Fletcher
    +1
    http://www.ehow.com/info_7959...

    Colorado also enforces the doctrine of at-will-employment, which allows employers and employees to terminate their employment at any time. Reasons for termination of employment do not need to be provided at time of separation, nor is either party obligated to provide advanced notice of the separation. Certain situations such as existing contracts -- including labor contracts -- and discriminatory terminations aren't protected by the state's at-will-employment doctrine.
  • psiEnergos 2012/05/10 07:37:55
    No
    psiEnergos
    +3
    the university had no right to ask her the question in the first place.
  • JenSemPa psiEnergos 2012/05/10 10:08:00
    JenSemPa
    +9
    Actually, yes, they did have the right. A religious institution has every right to expect its employees to live up to certain moral standards that are reflective of its religion. And it has every right to take steps to verify that the person is living up to them.
  • psiEnergos JenSemPa 2012/05/10 15:12:14 (edited)
    psiEnergos
    +1
    Actually no, they don't. By right, I meant 'legal' right. and personally I don't care if its a religious institution or not, the personal living arrangements of a person are none of your employers (or anyone else's) business, and I am pretty sure a legal challenge will support this. I respect your personal feelings about this, but they had had no 'right'.
  • Andy psiEnergos 2012/05/10 12:35:29
    Andy
    +4
    Yes they did...
  • psiEnergos Andy 2012/05/10 15:29:44
    psiEnergos
    Wow! Such a influx of fact! Kindly provide the legal precedence (case law, case past case precedence) that backs up your statement, or I will simply say, 'No, they didn't'.
  • Andy psiEnergos 2012/05/10 15:35:47
    Andy
    +2
    By signing on...she agreed. Before taking the job, she should have questioned the rule. She can even petition to change it, once she is employed...but, until then it is a jointly agreed upon regulation. It is like HOA rules and regulations... when you buy the house, you agree... you can work to change it, but in the mean time you have agreed to the R/R's simply by agreeing to purchase the home.
  • psiEnergos Andy 2012/05/11 01:14:36
    psiEnergos
    What 'rule'? There is no mention in the article of an agreement that included the how the girl conducted herself outside the campus nor the right of the university to inquire into her personal life. There is good reason for this; it supersedes any legal authority they have and any halfway decent lawyer would tell them this. So that argument is bogus....Next?
  • Andy psiEnergos 2012/05/17 19:23:07 (edited)
    Andy
    And you know this how???

    Speaking of INFLUX OF FACT!!!
  • psiEnergos Andy 2012/05/18 00:10:04
    psiEnergos
    How you ask? COMMON KNOWLEDGE! But since you seem to lack this, try something else called 'research'. Or, if your just too darn lazy period; just READ: http://www.nolo.com/legal-enc...
  • Andy psiEnergos 2012/05/18 15:05:03
    Andy
    So your influx of fact...is common knowledge. So her work contract was posted for all to read...or better yet, she gave you a copy to review???

    The article you site...does it deal with this situation directly or more general?? I read it to be general...not specifically to this situation. Your fact in this situation is very fleeting... you can do better!!
  • psiEnergos Andy 2012/05/18 19:38:50 (edited)
    psiEnergos
    Now you are just playing the idiot. What work contract? No one here is even discussing one, other than to say NONE WAS MENTIONED. So you continue to assume there was some contract with a morality clause when in fact there may have been none. Regardless, the link I shared with you showed you such contracts do not supersede law, so even IF such a clause existed it would be rendered NULL and VOID if it conflicted with state or federal law. So your argument of a preexisting contract (seen or otherwise) is not only irrelevant at this point, it is inane and vapid. Laws are NEVER written for ANY specific person's situation so your question is ridiculous, of course it's general, its LAW.

    Anything else? Or do you just want to continue this illogical rant of senseless accusation and dime store ad hominem (as opposed to any real arguments to support your position)?
  • Andy psiEnergos 2012/05/18 19:56:20
    Andy
    How then did the White House get in trouble over the Abortion issue as it regards the Roman Catholic Church?? A religious group/church can place this kind of clause in their contracts, as it pertains to the practices of their religion. OBAMA took a bath on this one... and the point is the same here.
  • psiEnergos Andy 2012/05/18 19:59:42
    psiEnergos
    that was in regards to PASSING a law (cripes, can you even stay on a point?)
  • Andy psiEnergos 2012/05/18 20:21:06
    Andy
    Your point was that LAW supersedes the rules of the college
  • psiEnergos Andy 2012/05/18 20:31:06
    psiEnergos
    Yes, and your non-sequitor of a reply makes it sound like your getting desperate. The law does supersede the rules of the college. The confrontation with the Catholic church actually CONFIRMED this (you didn't see the Catholic Universities getting out of it did you? Compromises were made IN the law, but the law was not changed). However the 'trouble' you speak of was in regard to public outcry over the public disagreeing with the laws application to religious organization (or anyone with moral disagreement). Never was PRECEDENCE in question.

    Next?
  • Tasine psiEnergos 2012/05/10 13:15:29
    Tasine
    +2
    Are you crazy?! OF COURSE they had the right.
  • psiEnergos Tasine 2012/05/10 15:20:33
    psiEnergos
    No, they had no legal right. You assume much.
  • Tasine psiEnergos 2012/05/10 15:32:37
    Tasine
    +2
    I assume most people can think and I assume most Americans believe in respect and honesty. I am also aware I assume too much.
  • psiEnergos Tasine 2012/05/11 01:26:30
    psiEnergos
    I take it from this 'red herring' of a response, that you simply just want to snap and run. If you 'assume people can think, you should start with yourself. A religious university does not have any 'inherent 'rights' to invade the privacy of it's employees anymore than any other employer simply by benefit of it title 'religious' (especially if it receives public funding). As for respect and honestly, well I guess we agree you assume too much. The university SHOULD have respected her privacy, but they didn't. She, however answered them honestly, thinking such things bore no weight on her job performance (to which she was correct).
  • Tasine psiEnergos 2012/05/12 00:14:27
    Tasine
    How do you know her activities bore no weight on her job performance? I suspect her lack of knowledge led to her firing as much as anything. I happen to know many teachers are dumber than dirt.
  • psiEnergos Tasine 2012/05/12 06:31:34
    psiEnergos
    To what 'activities' are you referring? We have been discussing a firing possibly based upon a living arrangement. A living arrangement that may or may not have the same 'activities' as a married couple. Plus I don't recall ever saying or implying said 'activities had anything to do with said firing (you seemed to just conjure that one up on your own since the article didn't mention it either).

    I stand by my original statement; they had neither the right nor reason to ask about her living arrangement, it was none of their business. You don't have to agree with me, but silly, irrelevant speculation that has nothing to do with the original point is simply a waste of time.
  • Tasine psiEnergos 2012/05/12 13:31:31
    Tasine
    You are right again. Trying to talk to you is a waste of time because you see a strict adherence to "feel good" rules, laws, etc as standing above one's very basic religious beliefs. People who do that, I think, live without a philosophy for living. I don't judge this woman for living with her boyfriend - that's what I, too, do. I don't judge the school for firing her because the school has its standards based on its religion. It's possible the "law" will come between the university and the employee, and it won't surprise me as "law", government is FORCE. It can FORCE the university to do as it says or pay the price. If this is your idea of a good life, being forced and having others forced into everything under the sun, you can have it, but at least half this nation despises that stance and will not roll over for its sake.
  • psiEnergos Tasine 2012/05/13 07:47:31
    psiEnergos
    There's that red herring argument again that has nothing to do with any comment made. Add to that now a silly straw man argument based upon assumptions about me. You don't know two whits about me, and your straw man, built upon faulty assumptions show me nothing but what a tiny mind you have. If you have facts that can address my original comment, I welcome them. What I have neither time nor patience for is a tiny minded, made up, hyperbole from someone who seems to have no other weapon at her disposal than ad hominem, and dime store sarcasm. Now, are you going to just vomit another useless and unproductive insult? Or do you have something to counter the original statement I made? Or anything constructive at all for that matter? Or are you just going to continue to go off on ridiculous non-sequitor rants?
  • Andy Fl... psiEnergos 2012/05/10 13:38:29
    Andy Fletcher
    http://www.ehow.com/info_7959...

    Colorado also enforces the doctrine of at-will-employment, which allows employers and employees to terminate their employment at any time. Reasons for termination of employment do not need to be provided at time of separation, nor is either party obligated to provide advanced notice of the separation. Certain situations such as existing contracts -- including labor contracts -- and discriminatory terminations aren't protected by the state's at-will-employment doctrine.
  • psiEnergos Andy Fl... 2012/05/10 15:26:35
    psiEnergos
    Not sure what point you're trying to prove with a link about how to get a marriage license in PA and this topic, but whatever...

    Regardless of having laws that allow an employer to terminate an employee for any reason (many states have such laws by the way), it still does not remove the fact that the legally, the employer had no right to ask such a question. Do your research.

    And regarding termination laws, regardless of the state, employee can and still have challenged wrongful terminations even in states with such laws, so trolling with this nonsense is just wasting everyone's time dude.
  • Andy Fl... psiEnergos 2012/05/10 16:23:22
    Andy Fletcher
    You obviously know I just copied the link at the top of the page I was on. That's USUALLY where you get it. So now that we got your smart ass-ness out of the way, we can deal with the rest. All of the other BS surrounding this case is immaterial. Colorado is an at will state. You are free to quit your job at any time with no reason and your employer can terminate you at any time, and is under ZERO obligation to give you any notice OR reason. And that is the point. They don't HAVE to have a reason. We only have the little bit of information given. We don't know whether or night she signed a company handbook with a morals clause or not. If she did, it really doesn't matter how they got the information, she was in violation of the employers policies. If she can prove she was terminated due to her medical issues, she might have a leg to stand on, but she is going to have to prove it.
  • psiEnergos Andy Fl... 2012/05/11 01:35:18
    psiEnergos
    If you fail to proof your posts before you submit, don't take it out on me. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt and assume nothing. I had no idea where it came from so who, exactly, is assuming what here smart ass? (take a chill)

    AZ is an at-will state too, so what? As I said before even in at-will, or right to work states, legal challenges have been successful for wrongful termination IF federal laws concerning privacy, or any other wrong that can be proven have been violated (last I checked FED trumps STATE).

    I do agree with you that we don't have all the facts, but if she had signed a morality clause I am pretty it would have been revealed in the story (such items have been in the past, but doesn't guarantee it).
  • psiEnergos Andy Fl... 2012/05/11 03:21:37
    psiEnergos
    +1
    I had to do some digging to find it, but here is a link to explain how 'At-will' doesn't just mean employers can fire for no reason, but look under "Other Tort claims" to see more evidence of my claim regarding privacy. Thanks.

    http://www.expertlaw.com/libr...
  • Andy Fl... psiEnergos 2012/05/11 04:40:59
    Andy Fletcher
    First, it wasn't that you pointed out the link was bad, it was the tone you used.

    Second, because of the lack of information, we are both kind of right and kind of wrong. In my initial post on this topic I pointed out that it was telling that Neither side pointed out the employee handbook aspect. The article doesn't say, from either side, that she is suing on privacy issues. It appears they may be introducing that aspect as proof of prejudice against her, but not as the basis for
    the suit. What they do say, is she is suing because they terminated her for performance without any chance to explain or correct it, but that they REALLY fired her for exercising her right to medical leave. I'm not saying she doesn't have a right to sue. I'm saying I doubt she will win, and if she did, she will get a few bucks, maybe a court order reinstating her to her job, but what will she really gain? A return to a now hostile work environment that can again immediately hand her another pink slip with NO notice or reason.
  • justnotsaying (: 2012/05/10 07:37:37
    No
    justnotsaying (:
    +3
    I know they are living in sin too, so it's only fair to fire everyone.

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