Should 20-something year-old children demand that their mother make a choice between them and the mother's boyfriend?

by ambates Posted 2012/06/10 23:28:29

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Dagon 2012/06/10 23:33:04

NO

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Chanch to L1 2012/06/11 01:57:59 (edited)

Do what you want. Doesn't make it right. That is my opinion. Period. You have your opinion. You can control your house but thats it. They can see who they want away from your home. It's their life also. Just because you pay the bills doesn't give you the right to controltheirs. That makes you a control freak and as long as they don't conflict their life with your life you have no right

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Azrael-In GOD we trust 2012/06/11 00:15:51

NO

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Not unless he is a child molester or a murder. If this adult child doesn't like it (if he is an okay guy) he/she will just have to get over it.

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ImageBandit ~ American Patriot 2012/06/11 00:14:39

NO

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they should be out on their own building a life away from mom

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Papillon 2012/06/11 00:10:33

NO

WTF??? This is even up for discussion? I say take the kid outside and give him/her a nice parking lot beating.

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ambates to Papillon 2012/06/11 02:28:38

Yeah cause that's what decent parents do. If you don't like the discussion, just keep on moving. Maybe there is a valid point to this discussion. Intelligent people know they don't know everything and some of us want non-bias opinions to reflect on.

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Papillon to ambates 2012/06/11 18:25:43

Well then they'll just have to pass my answers by. See, my opinion and attitude may irritate, offend, anger, disgust and sicken, but I have as much right to my answer to the question as anyone else.

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beach bum 2012/06/11 00:07:13

NO

no

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maybeimalion 2012/06/10 23:58:54

Undecided

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id personally tell em where to go.. 20 year olds aren't children and should learn to fend for themselves... if they dont like it, tough luck.. i'm not having anyone tell me who i can or cant be with, im perectly capable of making my own mistakes (or at least thats what id think if i was old enough to have a 20 yr old

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ray 2012/06/10 23:50:44

NO

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No adult should ever force such a hard line choice ,
unless they are prepared for answers they don't want to hear.

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Shawna 2012/06/10 23:41:35

NO

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My ex mother in law-way back before she was an ex- had a boyfriend none of us could stand. I hated my toddler being around the man. But we put up with him because we loved her. In the end he was a cad and she needed us to be there for her. That is what family does.

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say what? 2012/06/10 23:38:16

NO

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No,not unless the boyfriend killed their dad or something similar.

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ambates to say what? 2012/06/10 23:40:06

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Nope didn't happen.

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Walt 2012/06/10 23:36:48

NO

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HELL NO!

A 20 year old is technically an adult and they are not obligated to live at home. If they don't like the way the place is run, they can get on out of there.

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Muver 2012/06/10 23:34:18

NO

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NO NO and Hell no,,,,unless he is a proven murderer or something...the child should have some real and probable reason, otherwise they are just being brats...

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All American 2012/06/10 23:33:20

NO

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I think the little snots should grow up and quit playing emotional hostage game. Mom has a right to her own life, the little ingrates should get their own.

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Dagon 2012/06/10 23:33:04
Oaces_boss_yo® 2012/06/10 23:31:16
ray to Oaces_b... 2012/06/10 23:46:57

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For the sake of this conversation , assume no more than adult sibling rivalry

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Oaces_b... to ray 2012/06/10 23:48:52
ambates to Oaces_b... 2012/06/10 23:48:24

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Okay...mom used to party before she got married and had these children. Did nothing but devote her whole time to them. Didn't party at all. Now she is with someone who likes to have a couple of beers at night and she has one or two herself, He (the boyfriend) makes the mom happier than she can every remember being. Kids did not grow up with alcohol in the house and they think it's wrong.

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Oaces_b... to ambates 2012/06/10 23:50:24
Sister Jean 2012/06/10 23:31:15

NO

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no

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