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Shared Backyards: Brilliant or Bad Idea?

SodaHead Living 2012/06/17 00:06:42
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Robert Frost said that good fences make good neighbors. But these days a growing number of homeowners are knocking them down in order to create larger communal backyards.

Joining your backyard with your neighbor’s means there is more room for gardening and entertaining, children and pets and can run around more freely, and you may even be able to build that swimming pool or tennis court you’ve always dreamed of. But the extra space doesn’t come without added difficulties.

Gardening expenses can be split evenly, but who pulls the weeds and who gets to pick the fruit? Post a sign-up sheet for use of the communal table? Or is there an always-room-to-share policy? What happens when one neighbor wants to sell?” asked Anne Marie Chaker of The Wall Street Journal.

Many of the individuals who have opted for shared backyards explain that they are are hammering these details out in monthly decision-making meetings and in legal documents. The potential risks are evident, but if you actually like your neighbors and are willing to give up some of your privacy, yard-sharing seems like a fantastic option. (That is if you live in a neighborhood that hasn’t prohibited the practice.)

So, what do you think SodaHeads? Is yard-sharing brilliant or a bad idea?

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  • Rubyking 2012/06/17 22:02:49
    Brilliant
    Rubyking
    and if it doesn't work out you could always put the fence back up
  • Funboy 2012/06/17 21:56:04
    Brilliant
    Funboy
    Depends who I am sharing with... If with a single hot chick, I dont have any problem with that... The only condition is she cannot have any body-builder brother ;)
  • Bearish 2012/06/17 21:53:21
    Brilliant
    Bearish
    We did it for years in Boston... It worked well.. When all you have for a yard is a postage stamp, It made a lot of sense...
  • Metaldane 2012/06/17 21:43:54
    Brilliant
    Metaldane
    I get along with my neighbors pretty well and if we took down the fence the yard would be big enough I could make a small farm lol I can see the problems but if neither of you are pricks it wouldn't be hard and I can get all the privacy I want inside anyways.
  • Jenna ☮♡ッ 2012/06/17 21:37:39
    Bad Idea
    Jenna ☮♡ッ
    Noo thanks, I like my privacy. ._.
  • Mrs. Wedgwood 2012/06/17 21:22:52
    Bad Idea
    Mrs. Wedgwood
    It might be a good idea for some -- but not me. I grew up on military bases where we all shared a common backyard area -- and playgrounds. That wasn't so bad, but I don't want to clean up after other people.s kids and animals -- or other people.
  • Angela 2012/06/17 21:21:46
    Bad Idea
    Angela
    N= neighbor
    Y= you
    n: "what are you doing!?"
    Y: "im picking my tomatos"
    N: "more like MY tomatos"
    Y: "no there not yours!"
    N: "look around how many food plants do you have?"
    Y: "three"
    N: "i have 9 so there mine"
    Y: "that doesn't mean anything!"
    N:"yea it does"
    Y: "no it doesn't"
    (the end of neighbors as we know it)
  • Zach 2012/06/17 20:45:58
    Bad Idea
    Zach
    You can't have a cookout without the risk of your neighbors coming outside and watching you. Awkward.
  • Resp 2012/06/17 20:37:16
    Brilliant
    Resp
    Only if there is a swimming pool and a some lovely ladies.
  • rightagain 2012/06/17 20:26:44
    Brilliant
    rightagain
    I grew up when we didn't have fences and those that were around were only four foot chain link.
    If you and your neighbors get along and chose that they don't need fences between them, then that sounds great to me.
    neighbors
  • India 2012/06/17 20:26:41
    Bad Idea
    India
    here come the fights !!!!!!
  • ««Gingey, the Master Debate... 2012/06/17 20:24:08
    Brilliant
    ««Gingey, the Master Debater of Þ|-|Дэ†»»
    But I wouldn't personally do it. I want my dogs to run around freely without having to worry about them digging up a garden. I want to go outside and tan naked if I want
  • Dana 2012/06/17 20:18:13
    Brilliant
    Dana
    As long as u don't step in dog poo!
  • story101 2012/06/17 20:15:27
    Brilliant
    story101
    Most people need some personal space. But there are excellent opportunities for common spaces. Who needs their own big grass patch if there is a convenient common one to throw the frisbee, etc on. And gardening is so much better if you can share the work and the conversation, (and the beer).
  • Aya Ceres 2012/06/17 19:50:39
    Bad Idea
    Aya Ceres
    It may sound good, but people can be very possessive and it will probably end badly
  • Bob S 2012/06/17 19:33:54
    Brilliant
    Bob S
    Actually when I was growing up in the 40's the area where we lived all had backyeards that sort of merged. We had short fences but we were able to socialize if we wanted and be close to some of the neighbors. I thought it was a good idea then and still share that feeling.
  • MarinerFH 2012/06/17 19:20:26
    Brilliant
    MarinerFH
    +3
    It's an individual choice. That said, it's no different than having a small community park.
  • imsmarter MarinerFH 2012/06/17 19:51:44
    imsmarter
    +1
    I agree! There really isn't a difference between this and any public recreational area. (beaches, parks, garden, etc.)
  • Wulfdane imsmarter 2012/06/17 20:45:47 (edited)
    Wulfdane
    Yeah there is a difference, a huge difference. My guess is you don't own any property, as public parks and Pools are paid for through *taxes*. Everyone pays for it and so everyone can use it.

    We all already see the failure of "communal property" in the lack of respect people have for public areas.

    But even more important, I paid for my home (not the entire town) and I'll be damned if I am going to negotiate my property rights and privacy away.

    I paid for what I have through hard work and there can be only be one owner, Me.
  • imsmarter Wulfdane 2012/06/17 22:39:45
    imsmarter
    Which is why you have the right to choose whether or not you would want to do that. I didn't say I didn't see a difference so everyone should do it. I just see the value of both to be the same in the sense of what the space can be used for. And yes I do own property, but don't live on it. My parents do. I rent an apartment in the city. I think that with the right people it could work well. Nothing wrong with not wanting to do it though, that's your right as a property owner. To each their own.
  • Emily 2012/06/17 19:06:09
    Brilliant
    Emily
    +1
    I think it's a great idea, but it definitely depends on who your neighbors are- if you have neighbors that are picky and disagreeable, then may this isn't a good idea.





  • Wortmore 2012/06/17 19:05:57
    Bad Idea
    Wortmore
    Privacy issues will be BIG
  • rockyjr5 2012/06/17 19:04:36
    Brilliant
    rockyjr5
    +1
    It could go both ways, it's brilliant if the person that you're sharing a backyard is a nice person, it's a bad idea if that person is a mean person.
  • Pam 2012/06/17 18:59:03
    Bad Idea
    Pam
    I don't like sharing
  • Reuben Rennick 2012/06/17 18:57:04
    Brilliant
    Reuben Rennick
    +1
    I saw an article on this a while back, i've actually done it. article ive
  • BIG BAD JOHN R. 2012/06/17 18:53:43
    Bad Idea
    BIG BAD JOHN R.
    May work for a while but sooner or later a feud will happen!
  • Kronan_1 2012/06/17 18:53:35
    Brilliant
    Kronan_1
    +1
    I grew up with open back yards. As a kid we played football ,baseball, tag, and all sorts of night games. We had our fights but,we got over them and stayed friends.
  • Pele Emerging 2012/06/17 18:50:58
    Bad Idea
    Pele Emerging
    I want to have privacy of my own. This is just a personal preference. I wouldn't have a problem with some shared space--a neighborhood pool or gardening area, but even there, I think there needs to be some pretty clear expectations.

    Oh, by the way, the "good fences make good neighbors" so often attributed to Robert Frost was not at ALL what he was saying in his poem, "Mending Wall." His point of the poem is that 'something there is that doesn't love a wall...' Frost absolutely hated the fact that people latched onto a phrase he used in the poem without understanding what he was trying to say.
  • Inquisitve Kat 2012/06/17 18:45:05
    Brilliant
    Inquisitve Kat
    +1
    I have a huge backyard, so I have no need for it... but I think it could be great, if you like your neighbours.
  • Merhabi Daham 2012/06/17 18:38:40
    Bad Idea
    Merhabi Daham
    +3
    The pedophile next door has easy access to your kids, the neighbors dogs are taking a dump all over your joint yard, the kids can't go outside because the redneck neighbor is drinking and smoking again or the nudists decided to take their kids out to play. How is this a good idea again?
  • Bob S Merhabi... 2012/06/17 19:35:09
    Bob S
    Your putting the worse neative thoughts out there.
  • Wulfdane Bob S 2012/06/18 12:41:26
    Wulfdane
    But they speak the truth.

    The *fact* is people really don't know their neighbors and you only need to read the paper or watch the nightly news to hear about the neighbor who everyone thought was an angel, turn out to be a child predator.
  • Merhabi... Bob S 2012/06/20 17:53:51
    Merhabi Daham
    Well the article listed the best case scenario, so it makes sense for me to think of the negative.
  • imsmarter 2012/06/17 18:37:20
    Brilliant
    imsmarter
    +1
    I'd love to be able to grow produce in a garden. But I live in an apartment building in New York City... I have no where to plant. I'd love to share a communal growing area with someone or a group of people. It would be wonderful!
  • Inquisi... imsmarter 2012/06/17 18:46:33
    Inquisitve Kat
    Does NYC have NO community gardens? That's a shame, if they don't... we have a few where I live.
  • imsmarter Inquisi... 2012/06/17 19:53:57
    imsmarter
    They do! But there are none close to me. Also, the ones i have found are hard to join. =(
  • Changeling 2012/06/17 18:25:36
    Bad Idea
    Changeling
    +2
    I have never had neighbors I like that much
  • Bob S Changeling 2012/06/17 19:35:39
    Bob S
    Maybe it was your problem...
  • SOUL4REAL 2012/06/17 18:25:04 (edited)
    Bad Idea
    SOUL4REAL
    +2
    There are so many people in this world that are so selfish that it's a shame. That is the problem no one wants to share,I said bad idea only because people don't know how to "Love thy neighbor as thy self"! In reality it would be "Brilliant" idea if people wasn't so self centered and selfish and only about me,me,me! Your not the only person in the world,there are other people here too! "Learn to share"!
  • Bibliophilic 2012/06/17 18:01:47
    Bad Idea
    Bibliophilic
    +1
    Not unless I lived in a planned community with like-minded people. I wouldn't want someone's dog to run around in my yard or neighbors to have a meat-filled barbecue either.

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